In fact, this is a poem in "Poem of a prodigy" compiled by Wang Zhu in the Song Dynasty. It accurately describes the four happiest things in a person's life, but the first three sentences are to set off the last sentence "doing it for the first time". Compared with the first three, being the first is the first happy event in life.
After all, in ancient times, farmers' status was low, and if they wanted to have a way out, they had to take part in the imperial examination and then strive to be the number one scholar, so as to be "famous all over the world."
Four great sorrows in life:
The four tragedies in life refer to the loss of father in youth, spouse in middle age, children in old age, and children without good teachers.
1, lost his mother at an early age. An unloved child is like a grass, with no direction and no signpost.
The boy lost his father. An unattended child is like a swing, swinging with the wind and having no direction.
3. Losing his wife in middle age. Thin, go with the flow.
4. Losing children in old age. It is against the law for white-haired people to send black-haired people. Disaster is inevitable and the population is declining.
In Mai's poem "Four Poems of Rong Zhai", he summed up "the mourning of the widow, the general being captured by the enemy, falling out of favor with the tears of the ladies-in-waiting, and the heart of the son" as four sorrows. Whenever people think about this, they are not only sad, but also unspeakable.