All words are just cold language, written on the pen and floating on the paper. What can be seen is only a corner of a person's heart.
It is always you who can truly understand yourself.
Ever since I passed the high school entrance examination, there seems to be a rope that has tied up all my thoughts. I don’t want to move, I don’t want to write, and I don’t want to put my feelings into words and make them public.
The inspiration seems to be gone. I repeat the same things every day, like a dilapidated rag doll, without thoughts and souls. What was left was a shriveled body, swaying like a ghost.
I wanted to add some oil and salt to my lost forty years, only to find that I had run out of oil and salt.
When I was ten years old, I felt that everything was very happy. My parents were with me, I would go up trees to catch bird eggs, and go down to the river to catch fish and shrimps. The earth was fragrant and the wind was sweet. Although he was wearing ripped clothes, his heart was filled with infinite satisfaction and happiness.
When I was twenty years old, I felt that everything was so young and curious, full of hope and fear for the unknown world. At the same time, he also avoids worldly things. When he closes himself off, he also closes off his contact with the outside world.
When I was thirty years old, I felt that everything was so difficult. The embarrassment of a bride and the joy of becoming a mother could not withstand the hardships brought by the years. The ugliest thing is my own appearance.
When I was forty years old, I felt that everything was safe for me. Insight into worldly affairs was knowledge, and understanding of human feelings was the wisdom of articles.
I finally understand that every ten years is a journey that can be taken at any time. It doesn't matter where I will go on my next trip, what matters is that I want to live well.
In view of the fact that I have only lived half a life, I can no longer write profound truths. I only know that I no longer bother with anything, and I no longer have deep requirements for anything. The only thing I want to do is to do what I want to do. Live, simple and clear. Then commemorate your forty-year-old self! Use this as a mirror to live the rest of your life in peace.
1. A 40-year-old woman chooses to be a beautiful woman. Don’t waste your country, don’t waste your city, just spend everything you have to live the life you want. Maybe things in the world are complicated and cannot go as you wish, so you still have to live your life as a scenery.
2. A 40-year-old woman must be able to withstand lies, be perfunctory, deceive, forget promises, and let go of everything! Only by clearing the brain can one truly live a successful life. Own.
3. The best state for a 40-year-old woman is to know how to respect herself, not to care about other people's business, not to show off her superiority, let alone show affection. The older a woman grows, the more she learns to be restrained and self-possessed. This world does not exist for you alone.
Just be an elegant and quiet woman, don’t speak ill of others and just be yourself. Don't seek depth, just simplicity. You live not just to please others, nor to show off what you have, but to better live the way you want.
As you become excellent, the environment around you will also be optimized.
4. A 40-year-old woman, don’t rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When separation comes, what you lose is not a person, but your spiritual support. No matter when and where you are, you must learn to walk independently, it will make you walk more calmly. No matter how you look, living a beautiful life is the key.
Being independent will allow you to learn to think, and a woman who can think is full of charm. No matter what age she is, she shines brightly.
5. In the days to come, don’t feel uncomfortable about small things, don’t be easily moved by good words, don’t compromise, don’t give up easily, don’t do things irrationally, and don’t fight for someone who is not worthy.
Don’t force your heart, don’t think that others understand your good qualities, don’t say you are happy when you feel uncomfortable, don’t lie to yourself, be your truest self, feel more sorry for yourself, love yourself more than anything else. Love others too much.
Only a woman who knows how to love herself can know how to love the people around her. Your love will be valuable!
6. A forty-year-old woman can be more stubborn, proud and persistent at the appropriate time. If a girl in her twenties is the most beautiful, she can laugh wantonly and cry stubbornly. Then a forty-year-old woman, after half a lifetime of glitz, has already become tolerant and wise.
The most beautiful years are reserved for a bright smile, the courage to love, hate and pursue. Then when you are forty, just crush yourself and let the years pass, and let time slowly piece yourself together into what you want.
7. I am such a person. "Don't think too much, don't torture yourself. You can be sad, but you must be strong; you don't have to be beautiful, but you must be kind!" I have always believed that God will be kind to kind people. It's just a matter of time. Until then, after that, just be yourself.
8. External clothing is just a necessary condition for decoration as a woman, but it is not an important condition. The most important thing is to read more and read good books. The book has its own beauty like jade, and the book has its own golden house. There is poetry and calligraphy in my belly, and I am tired of cooking gourd leaves with old scholars. Temperament is a woman's best decoration.
Sanmao said: If you read more, your appearance will change.
9. Women in their forties should not be too fat. Even if their figure is not perfect, they should still look decent and generous.
When you are in a good mood, put on light makeup and buy some clothes that suit you. You don’t need to buy luxury goods. You can buy some gadgets that you like. You can buy some toys and play with yourself. Amuse yourself.
The premise is that you do so much, not because of a certain man, but purely to please yourself and please yourself.
10. Even if men all over the world like beautiful women, you have to believe that there will always be someone who will fall in love with you because of your beautiful heart. Even if you are insignificant in the crowd, he will see you, like you, and please you.
The so-called good man will let his woman live her life as herself. I won't change you easily. He will pamper you like a child with love.
If you can't meet such a man, then pamper yourself as a girl.
11. Yi Shu once said: "When I am forty years old, I am in good health, have some savings, am married, have a considerate husband, obedient children, and have a job I really like. This is success. There is no need to You don’t have to be rich to become famous.
It’s admirable to say that you don’t need to be famous or rich. But these words may seem simple, but it takes a lot of hard work to achieve them. < /p>
Because the world is complicated, fewer and fewer people can calm down and be themselves. They are too impetuous and do stupid things that are obvious at a glance, but they still feel that they are very smart. Sophistication, to put it bluntly, is a mockery of myself.
12. Influenced by my family, I have always been independent. Even if I am married, I will not let myself fall into captivity easily.
Maintain your own independent job and financial resources. Only by maintaining personal independence, spiritual independence, and financial independence can you have the courage to face yourself at any time. It is difficult for a forty-year-old woman to change for a certain person. , but after half a life, make yourself stronger.
Because self-strength is a kind of independence, and the more independent you are, the more capable you are of living well by yourself. Instead of being afraid of losing anything.
13. A woman in her forties lives her life calmly and calmly. She no longer feels heartbroken over a word, nor does she struggle for a long time over a word. I will not waste my feelings on unworthy people.
Because at the age of forty, I have seen a lot of scenery, walked a lot of roads, met a lot of people, and have long understood that people are just living. Tell it as a joke, make others laugh, and tell yourself as a joke to others, but it will not be taken seriously, because if you take it seriously, you will lose.
14. A forty-year-old woman already has herself. A character that does not cling, do not settle, and is not vain. Try to live in the present, try to make yourself better, and then live the rest of your life peacefully.
This is what a forty-year-old woman should have. posture.
Are you forty years old?