Master Nan Huai Jin once said:
Your vision determines your achievements and your mind determines your life.
In fact, successful people are not necessarily capable people, but they must be people with very big minds and patterns.
The so-called "those who do not seek the overall situation are not enough to seek a domain; He who does not seek eternal life is not enough for a moment. " Everything should be long-term and have a big picture.
Zeng Guofan once said: "If you are not angry in case of rebellion, you should slander without arguing."
Zeng Guofan lived with a scholar when he was studying.
Zeng Guofan moved his desk to the window in order to make the light brighter when he was studying, but it caused dissatisfaction among scholars. The scholar said impatiently, "You are blocking me."
Zeng Guofan: "Where should I put my desk?"
The scholar asked him to move to the bedside. Zeng Guofan took the scholar's advice and moved the desk to the bedside.
Zeng Guofan was still studying in the middle of the night, and the scholar was angry: "I don't study on weekdays. At this time, it is still disturbing people's dreams. "
Then Zeng Guofan read silently according to the words.
Many years later, the person in power was a nobody, but Zeng Guofan, who was able to submit to humiliation at that time, became a big shot.
Endure does not mean losing your temper, but it is unnecessary to lose your temper and waste your time on people or things that are not worth it. If you miss something important, you will lose more than you gain.
"Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory." When we are in adversity, impulsive or vent and can solve the problem, it may make things worse and worse, adding fuel to the fire and harming others.
A calm attitude is a sign of inner strength. Many times, let nature take its course, and when you cross the bridge, your luck will change.
In fact, what we often say now is "a loss is a blessing" is the great wisdom of the ancients. Faced with some trivial interests or trivial matters, too much care will only cause unnecessary disputes. Why not? The so-called "endure for a while and calm down; Let three points, the sky is wide. " Picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelon is not a good thing.
Often small things consume a lot of people's energy. What can you get except one more trouble and one more enemy?
There are too many such examples. "Gou Jian, the King of Yue, tried his best to destroy Wu in one fell swoop" and "Han Xin can endure the humiliation of his legs and make him a general in the future". As the saying goes, those who know the times are heroes, and gentlemen should be flexible. People with strong hearts don't need to be recognized, they are after the overall situation. In your opinion, it is cowardice, and in their view, it is ready to go. Such people should not be underestimated.
Communication between people may not be unimpeded. When opinions conflict, the war of words is not the only way to solve the problem. Speaking fast does not mean victory, and silence does not mean cowardice.
"If you are not angry when you resist, you should be embarrassed and don't argue." It is definitely a realm of life and a manifestation of great wisdom and great pattern. Patience may lead to more opportunities, and the power to seize opportunities is often the power released by a person's mentality and mind, so a person with a strong heart has an unlimited future.