1. How did Nalan Xingde accept Shen Wan as his concubine? 2. The story of his first two wives.

In the thirteenth year of Kangxi, Nalan Xingde was twenty years old and married the daughter of Lu Xingzu, the governor of Guangdong and Guangxi, the minister of war, and the right deputy envoy of Douchayuan. It was the eighteenth year of Lu's life, and he was "born in Yongfu, with a dignified sex". After marriage, the two loved each other, and a happy life inspired his poetry creation. But only three years later, Lu died in dystocia on May 13th, 16th year of Kangxi, which caused great pain to Nalan Xingde. Since then, "there are many lamentations, and the enemy of bosom friends is especially deep." The heavy spiritual blow made him repeatedly show endless yearning for love and lost homesickness in his later mourning poems. Three years later, Nalan Xingde continued to marry into the official family and had a side room Yan family. Some homesick works in A Passage to the South of Liaodong and A Passage to Suolong are obviously written for Guan and Yan. Guan and Yan are mostly daughters of good wives and mothers, and they don't know much about literature and pen and ink. So he hoped to get a talented and sociable woman as his partner. Later, with the help of Gu Zhenguan, he accepted Shen Wan, a talented woman in the south of the Yangtze River. Shen Wan, whose real name is Yu Chan, is a native of Wucheng, Zhejiang Province, and is the author of Choosing Dream Ci. Concentrate on mourning the work "Abundant God Does Not Reduce Husband". Unfortunately, their love ended in tragedy because of Nalan Xingde's family reasons, and Shen Wansan returned to Jiangnan.