First, "quietness" is a self-cultivation attitude towards people.
At the moment when social communication is becoming more and more frequent, all kinds of ideas collide with each other, all kinds of ideas collide with each other, and all kinds of understandings play games with each other. Busy for fame and fortune all day, people always stand at a crowded and complicated crossroads. How many people can stop to think about the pursuit and origin of life and plan tomorrow's goals and plans? In the face of the troubled world, people's spiritual world is particularly confused, impetuous, impatient and irritable, which has become the three mountains that hinder people from becoming calm. Quiet is the only way for people to reflect on themselves, and quiet is the turning point of life experience and self-choice. In the book "University Question", it is also recorded that "Zhi Zhi later decided; Calm down first and then be quiet; Be quiet before you can be safe; Worry first; Think about it before you take it. If we can do this, we will be calm.
Second, "water" is the highest wisdom to adapt to the situation.
"The water in the surging waves is crystal clear, and it can be used to shake my tassel. The water in the surging waves is turbid, and it can be used to shake my feet. A simple fishing song tells the independent characteristics of water's combination of rigidity and softness. Throughout the ages, how many people, either because they are too strong, have already been shattered by the rough life; Either because of excessive weakness, it has long been ravaged by vulgar forces and there is nowhere to hide. Although civilization has been passed down from generation to generation, many people know that "goodness is like water", but not many people really do it. If we can do this, we will be calm.
Third, "depth" is the greatest cultivation of all things.
All rivers run into the sea, with great tolerance. It can be seen that tolerance is one of the important indicators of calmness. People who are diligent in learning from others are humble people; He who can listen to others' opinions is a wise man; People who are willing to accept criticism from others are introspective people; A man who is good at analyzing the gains and losses of others is a wise man; The combination of these four qualities leads to tolerance. With tolerance, we can have a perfect heart of truth, goodness, beauty and move towards a better realm regardless of good times and bad times. When we are busy running for personal petty profits, please stop occasionally, listen to the voices from the depths of our souls and let go of those superficial glitz. If we can do this, we will move towards peace.
Fourth, "flow" is the best way to rejuvenate.
Flow is a kind of motive force to eliminate corruption and regenerate, a kind of appeal from the inside out, and an influence to link the past with the future. "Flow" is not to go with the flow, but to have the ability to think independently no matter how the external environment changes. Tradition without pedantry, adhere to new ideas without blindly moving, tap potential, renew oneself, face difficulties and accept challenges. In a person's life, all kinds of problems may meet unexpectedly. Facing the difficult problem, the best solution is to peel bamboo shoots one by one. If we can do this, we will be calm.
Maturity is not based on age, simplicity is not ignorance and naivety. From childish to mature, from mature to calm, is the only way to grow up in life. Keep a purity like water, plus a calmness of "coming suddenly but not unexpectedly, going for no reason but not angry", then we will move towards calmness step by step.