"A virtuous husband is a talent, and a woman without talent is a virtue." From Dai's "Lady Qi's Public Sacrifice": "Mei Gong said: A husband with virtue is talented, and a woman without talent is virtuous. This statement is extremely inaccurate. " At the end of the Ming Dynasty, Chen Jiru said: "Women are literate, but those who can understand righteousness are virtuous, but few;" Others like to read songbooks and novels, fan the flames, and even make a scandal-free thing. Instead, it is better to be illiterate and keep silent. A woman without talent is a virtue. You can say that. "
The original text is "Mei Gong said:' A virtuous husband is talented and a woman without talent is virtuous, but she was taken out of context and used the wrong word. Its real meaning is that a virtuous husband is a talent, and a woman without talent is a virtue.
The original intention is: men can show moral cultivation when arguing with others, and women's not arguing with others is a sign of moral cultivation.