Why do you have many good friends, but no one helps you when you are really in trouble?

Relying on parents at home and friends when going out means the importance of friends. Since ancient times, there have been many poems praising friendship, such as "and yet, while China holds our friendship, and heaven remains our neighbourhood," and "we meet. We understand. What does acquaintance matter?", and "Knowing each other, knowing each other, knowing each other, knowing each other". And many, many more. A true friend really cares about you and helps you, that is, when you are in the most difficult time, you can see who is your bosom friend.

? Many times, we have many friends, which I think is common in social activities. In fact, we feel that the relationship is very good. We can joke, go shopping and chat, but we can't lend a helping hand at critical moments. This is the so-called carelessness in making friends, which is why there are so many books that say that you should make friends carefully. A man knows his companion in a long journey and a little inn.

? I think some friends really can't help themselves in difficult times, because they sometimes have the heart to help you in difficult times, but they don't have the ability. I can feel that their way of speaking is not hypocritical, and you can also see from their recent situation.

? The saddest thing is those friends who seem to be very good at ordinary times, but when you borrow money from them, they will push from pillar to post. When you ask them for help, they will find all kinds of reasons to shirk it. Yes, it's fake and hypocritical. When we make friends, we should pay attention, otherwise we will be easily hurt.

? I often say that friendship is not much, but essence. We have been making new friends and contacting the fate of old friends all our lives. I think my friends in middle school are the purest. At that time, I wouldn't care so much. This kind of feeling is very beautiful, but when we go to the society after college, we will inevitably meet a few friends who cheat ourselves. I think we need to experience it before we know it. Some things must be realized by ourselves before we can know our true friends.

? I also met someone who borrowed money from me every month, because the amount was small, so I didn't care too much, because I knew that life is expensive and we know each other, so how to use gold and money. I didn't even ask him to return it. However, when I really needed money, he saidno. I couldn't believe my ears, because he had already worked and was still provided with food and shelter. I don't know why this happened. At that time, I felt that my friends were staggered.

? Your kindness to others may not be appreciated by others. When you need help, others may not lend a helping hand Because many people think of themselves, and I am not enough, why should I help you? And I don't want to help you, and you don't have to help me. In their cognition, you are not their real friend, just saying that personal relationship is better, not a good friend.

? "Friends walk together all their lives, but those days are no longer there. In a word, we will have a glass of wine all our lives ..." On the journey, I really hope that we will meet bosom friends and understand your friends, and share weal and woe with * * *.