Recently, the two men had a disagreement over the children's bed, and the man insisted on the traditional form. She thinks tatami is more suitable for children, and the man thinks that he can't match it, so he begins to criticize the woman, saying that she used to pretend, but she is so grumpy and a bitch! Women are not to be outdone, saying that when you pestered me, I chose you blindly!
The man felt that she had damaged his dignity and was even more angry. He would not be a man if he didn't scold him back, so he began to criticize the woman's ex-boyfriend, even satirizing the woman's height and appearance, and even saying that the woman's family simply didn't deserve him. The woman was furious, and the grievances that had been accumulated for a long time broke out in an instant, and the man's family was scolded all at once.
At the end of the quarrel, both of them forgot why they quarreled, leaving only malicious personal attacks. As a result, the two sides lost their feelings for many years, and the happy marriage also quarreled.
Every time I feel wronged in intimate relationship or at home, I try my best to forbear, review and reflect on myself, but never.
Don't express and criticize your inner thoughts.
There are many reasons for not doing this: worrying about the breakdown of the relationship, worrying that things will get worse, and rationally analyzing whether you have anything to do.
Is there anything else that is not in place? Do you want to stand higher and look at the overall situation?
What I wrote above may be biased towards relatively rational analysis, but it is actually a thousand words that hinder me from expressing myself.
The biggest reason for this is not from the analysis of the mind, but from an unthinking, unforgettable and unforgettable fear.
The feeling of fear.
I find it difficult to cry and laugh, even if it is expressed normally in front of my lover.
Not only that, your whole person, your whole life is also convergent: you rarely go shopping impulsively, and you rarely indulge in staying up late, which is similar to casual play.
I nodded. I was so happy that I said the wrong thing. I hugged someone with joy. Such a thing won't happen once.
No, it is definitely not "out of control", some are "restraint" and "convergence".
Do as you please, according to your own ideas and
Need to live, do your own thing, and your own needs are in the first place. It is more difficult to make yourself happy, cool and comfortable.
If you are one of these people, if you keep doing this and don't change, it is very likely that you will suffer a lot and lose a lot.