1. Verses about courtesy and reciprocity
Verses about courtesy and reciprocity 1. Verses about etiquette
1. "Xunzi. Fu Guo" Shang Dynasty: The Righteousness of Etiquette For the country, it is like weighing the weights and weights, and it is like the ink on the right and wrong.
Etiquette is used for the governance of a country, just like a scale is used to weigh weight, a carpenter's black line is used to judge straightness, and a compass and a right-square are used to measure squares and circles.
2. "Book of Rites·Jingjing" Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty: Rites are to the rule of the country: just like the balance is to the light and the weight, the rope and ink are to the straight and straight.
Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing a country, in fact, etiquette and law are used for governing a country, just like a scale is used for weighing weight.
3. "Xunzi·Wangba" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The reason why etiquette governs the country is that it is like a balance to weight, and a rope and ink to straightness.
Etiquette and law are used to weigh the governance of a country, just as scales are used to weigh the importance of the country.
4. "Xunzi·Dalue" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: Rituals are to an upright country, just like weighing is to weight, just like rope ink is to straightness.
Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing a country, in fact, etiquette and law are used for governing a country, just like a scale is used for weighing weight.
5. "Qunshu Zhiyao Jingjie" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The husband's etiquette is also to the country. It's still a matter of weight. Rope ink is about straightness and straightness.
People must abide by the basic principles of implementation. If a person loses his place of standing, he will surely fall and perish.
Etiquette is a universally recognized code of conduct that is agreed upon by people in terms of appearance, appearance, manners, rituals, speech and behavior in order to respect each other in social interactions. Etiquette is a general term for etiquette, courtesy, manners and rituals.
Reference: Sogou Encyclopedia - Civilized Etiquette
2. What are the poems about etiquette
1. "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up."< /p>
——— "The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
2. A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others.
———Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
3. Reciprocity. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go.
——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1"
4. Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image.
——Goethe: "Affinity"
5. One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make people be dominated by form in their purely material life, so that people Become an aesthetic person within the reach of the kingdom of beauty.
——— Schiller: "Books on Aesthetic Education"
6. Politeness is the art of choosing from one's own true thoughts.
——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele"
7. Politeness makes polite people happy, and it also makes those who are treated with politeness happy. The people who wait are happy.
————Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws"
1. The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette. Since ancient times, it has advocated reciprocity and reciprocity.
2. Tolerance is a traditional etiquette known by the Chinese people, and we must defend it!
3. The world recognizes China as a country of etiquette.
4. Be polite when facing your elders. This is an etiquette we must learn.
5. The graceful etiquette lady walked up to the podium and presented the award-winners with red flowers.
6. At the opening ceremony of the Asian Games, the gentle hostess left a good impression on the Chinese and foreign guests.
7. A strictly trained etiquette lady, every move is just right.
8. Although many red tapes can be omitted, paying attention to etiquette is still necessary.
9. He seemed overwhelmed by my thoughtful manners.
10. Our country has been a land of etiquette since ancient times.
11. Although many red tapes can be omitted, paying attention to etiquette is still necessary.
12. Etiquette has a long history in our country, and China is recognized by the world as a country of etiquette.
3. Famous sayings about the constant reciprocity of etiquette
"Book of Rites: Qu Li 1": "Etiquette requires reciprocity.
It is not polite to go back and forth without coming; It would be disrespectful not to go." Wen Qing had no choice but to reciprocate politely and deal with it in order to save the face of his colleagues.
◎Chapter 6 of "Nie Hai Hua" written by Zeng Pu of the Qing Dynasty. Pronunciation lǐ shàng wǎng lái Definition Li: Etiquette; Shang: Attention. Refers to etiquette that there should be comings and goings.
Now also refers to answering the other party with the same attitude or approach. Source: Dai Sheng of the Western Han Dynasty, "Book of Rites: Qu Lishang": "Reciprocity is the rule.
It is not polite to go back and forth but not to come back; it is also not polite to come and go but not to go back." An example of Wen Qing's concern for the face of his colleagues, I had no choice but to deal with it reluctantly.
(Chapter 6 of "Nie Hai Hua" by Zeng Pu of the Qing Dynasty) Usage: Subject-predicate form; used as predicate and attributive; used in interpersonal antonyms: wishful thinking, coming and going but not going back, reciprocating a favor; returning the cow to the horse, riddles and respects People are respected.
4. Famous sayings about courtesy and reciprocity
"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up." ---"The Analects of Confucius. Those who are polite respect others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always respect them. - Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia" The etiquette is to reciprocate. To go but not to come is not polite; to come but not to go is also not polite. ——"Book of Rites. Qu Li 1" Behavior is a mirror that reflects each person's own image. ——Goethe: "Affinity" One of the most important tasks of civilization is to enable man to be influenced by form in his purely material life. The control of human beings enables people to become aesthetic people within the scope that the kingdom of beauty can reach. --- Schiller: "Letter on Aesthetic Education" Politeness is the art of choosing among one's own true thoughts. ---A. Vince: "Madame de Steele" Politeness pleases polite people and also those who are treated politely. ——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws" Being polite will not What you lose, you gain everything.——M.W. Montagu: "Letters".
5. Ancient poems about etiquette Poems about etiquette
"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up."
——"The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others.
———Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
Courtesy should be reciprocated. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go.
——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1"
Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image.
——Goethe: "Affinity"
One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make man be dominated by form in his purely material life, and to make him beautiful in beauty. Become an aesthetic person within the realm of what the kingdom can achieve.
———Schiller: "Books on Aesthetic Education"
Politeness is the art of choosing from one's own true thoughts.
——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele"
Politeness makes polite people happy, and it also makes those who are treated politely People rejoice.
——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws"
You have nothing to lose by being polite, but you have everything to gain.
————M.W. Montagu: "Letters"
Etiquette is the smallest but most stable norm among all norms.
———La Rochefoucauld: "Moral Proverbs"
Politeness is the flower of fraternity. People who are not polite cannot be said to have philanthropic thoughts.
——Joubert: "Collection of Quotes"
What makes a person great does not lie in wealth and family status, but in valuable behavior and noble character.
————Ovie: "Quotations of Famous People"
There are two types of bad etiquette: the first is shyness; the second is indiscretion and contempt; to avoid In these two situations, the only thing you can do is to abide by the following rule, that is, don't look down on yourself or others.
————John Locke: "Educational Essays
6. Verses on Etiquette
"Qu Li" says: "Be disrespectful, be thoughtful , "An Dingci."
Ao cannot be long, desires cannot be followed, aspirations cannot be fulfilled, and happiness cannot be extreme.
A wise man respects him, fears him and loves him. Love and know its evil, hate and know its good. Accumulation can be dispersed, peace can be moved. Don't be reluctant to get wealth when you are facing it, and don't be reluctant to avoid difficulties when faced with it. There is no need to seek victory, and no need to seek more points. When in doubt, don’t question it; be honest and don’t have any questions.
Ruofu, sit like a corpse and stand like a corpse. Follow the appropriate etiquette and follow the customs. The reason for husband's ceremony is to determine relatives and distance, to resolve suspicions, to distinguish similarities and differences, and to clarify right and wrong. Etiquette, don't talk nonsense about people, don't refuse to pay. Etiquette, don't overdo the festival, don't intrude, don't be rude. Cultivating one's character and practicing one's words are called good deeds. Practicing and cultivating words is the essence of etiquette. The etiquette and hearing come from people, but the non-hearing comes from others. If you hear the etiquette, you will learn it; if you don’t hear it, you will learn it.
Morals, benevolence and righteousness are not allowed to be inappropriate; teachings are upright and moral, and inappropriate teachings are not allowed to occur. Disputes and lawsuits will not be decided if it is inappropriate. The king and his ministers, fathers, sons and brothers, are always indecent. The official is a scholar and a teacher, and he is not polite and does not want to be intimate with him. When the Ban Dynasty governs the army and visits officials to enforce the law, it cannot be done without courtesy and majesty. Praying in a temple to offer sacrifices to ghosts and gods is disrespectful and dishonest. Therefore, a gentleman is respectful, restrains himself, and makes concessions in order to show propriety. Parrots can speak and are inseparable from birds; orangutans can speak and are inseparable from beasts. People today are rude. Although they can speak well, don't they have the mentality of animals? The husband is a beast and has no manners, so the father and son gather together. This is why the saints made it as a ritual to teach people. Make people behave politely and know that they are different from animals.
The most important thing is to value virtue, and the second most important thing is to repay it. Reciprocity. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go. If people are polite, they will be safe; if they are rude, they will be in danger. Therefore, it is said: One must learn etiquette. Those who are respectful to their husbands humble themselves but respect others. Even if you are a peddler, you must be respected, how about being rich and noble? If you are rich and know how to be polite, you will not be arrogant or lewd; if you are poor or lowly, if you know how to be polite, your ambition will not be deterred. If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up.
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——— "The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always love them.
——Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
It is not polite to go back and forth;
————"Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1"