Miao Yan, make color, full of respect, Zuo Qiuming is ashamed of it, and Qiu is ashamed of it. Zuo Qiuming is ashamed of it, and Qiu is ashamed of it. Translation: Flattery, false colors, and too much respect, Zuo Qiuming thinks it is shameful, and I also think it is shameful. It's shameful for Zuo Qiu-ming to hide resentment and make friends, and so am I.
The art of making friends
The way to make friends is the principle and method of making friends and making them last.
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As the saying goes, if you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black, if you are near Mexico. This shows that friends have a great influence on us, so we must know what is a good friend and what is a bad friend. Real good friends can persuade and encourage each other.
Relying on parents at home and friends when going out, besides relatives, friends are an indispensable part of our lives, and many things can only be handled well if we know friends. What are the ways to make friends? How can I make friends who are really worthy of communication?
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First, make friends with virtue, adversity with * * *: how to make friends? You should first ask yourself what kind of friends you want to make. If you want to make sincere friends, you must show sincerity and communicate with morality, loyalty and compassion. Such friends can share joys and sorrows at the most critical moment.
As the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. Only when you are in the most difficult time can you support your original intention and be a true friend.
Second, make friends with sincerity and treat each other with sincerity: when you get along with friends, you should pay attention to intimacy, frankness and sincerity. With sincere words and true feelings, the two sides can get rid of interest disputes, have brotherly friendship, know each other and cherish each other, care for each other and help each other, that is, really care for each other.
For example, Tian Guang, a hermit in the Warring States Period, recommended Jing Ke to help Yan Taizi Dan assassinate the king of Qin. He is secretive and pouting, and Tian Guang's loyalty is sincere.
Third, make knowledgeable friends and be well informed: people with extensive knowledge or professional knowledge will gain the respect and trust of their friends. Similarly, to make friends with connotation, we must first enrich our own connotation; People who know how to absorb new knowledge at any time are easy to open their minds and attract many well-informed people to come around.
Liu Yuxi's communication is with a great scholar, but without Ding Bai, he can play the pipa and read the Golden Classics.