hello, old irons, I'm Zi Jinliang. Hello again!
pay attention and make friends.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said that what a person lacks is the courage to start over.
The bell of the Spring Festival in 221 still echoes in my ears.
The busy year has passed, and my friends and I are about to start another busy year.
just like the sun in the sky, it rises, sets, rises and sets again.
day after day, it's as plain as water, and there is no ripple in my heart.
maybe this life will go on like this.
however, whether I walk in the morning or look at the moon at night, there is always a melancholy lingering in my heart.
Looking back on your life, think about the past year. What was always missing in a life without waves.
In the past year, there was no promotion in the original plan. I thought of taking my children to the playground, but it didn't come true. I promised my parents to climb the mountain once. My wife never bought the new electric car she wanted, and my friends were still the same.
life is boring and lacks originality.
Stretching the timeline, my life has gone through more than 3 years, and it seems that something is missing everywhere.
I'm working in a job that is too high to be too low, with a low and just salary, and I don't have much money in my card, but I'm still married and have children.
the only change is that the wrinkles on the forehead are getting deeper and deeper, which covers the whole body.
During the Spring Festival holiday, my classmates and I were together, telling the melancholy in my heart, and I became the envy of everyone. I spoke my mind and became pretentious in the eyes of my friends.
pengpeng is my good friend. He told me at the dinner table that I don't know when I am blessed.
Last year, pengpeng lost a lot of money due to bad business.
He has been engaged in catering for several years, and he is one of the few upstarts among our classmates with low education and income.
with money in hand, dreams become bigger.
pengpeng took out his savings and borrowed a lot of money to expand the scale of the hotel and upgrade the environment.
However, due to well-known reasons, pengpeng lost all his money.
In pengpeng's words, he changed from a seven-figure deposit to a six-figure debt, and once he returned to before liberation, his business was in a mess.
When I tried to give pengpeng a word of advice, he smiled at Zhan Yan and even read a poem, "Today's wine makes you drunk, but when your daughter is gone, she will come back."
A joke that pieced together the poems of our ancestors amused us.
Perhaps, pengpeng really didn't know that he had made a mistake in reading, but he couldn't hide his optimism at all, and let people see the year when the catering boss made a comeback.
yes! He used to be a family business built from scratch.
You can lose all your money and earn it back, but you can't lack the courage to start over.
this reminds me of my colleague, Xiao Chen.
Xiao Chen jumped two levels at the end of the year and entered the management.
The friends who joined the company one year earlier than him, and even some brothers who were promoted to the middle level early, are a little more embarrassed.
Xiao Chen said that he had mixed feelings and was afraid of losing his friends.
do you have any friends in the workplace?
I don't want to discuss this matter, but I think Xiaochen is a colleague who values friendship.
After the Spring Festival, we started work for two or three days. I asked Xiaochen, are there any worries now?
Xiao Chen said with a smile, since she has reached the management position, it is useless to think too much.
His manners and manners show no signs of entanglement before the Spring Festival.
The same is true. When colleagues accepted the fact that Xiaochen entered the management after a period of adjustment, in fact, the obsession of individual colleagues was put down.
Xiaochen has many friends, but because of her improved position, she has some new friends around her.
Therefore, people should not be afraid of losing friends. Friends are for making friends. It is not difficult to make friends again.
now, I will still be disappointed, but I won't be confused.
There are many things in life that we really regret. However, when we only see regrets and lack the courage to change, it is the most terrible.
finally, in the words of Mr. Yang Jiang, I * * * encouraged my friends.
if the first half of your life is a mess.
Then you must reshuffle your cards for the rest of your life.
don't be afraid, find your original self.
if money is gone, you can earn again; if friends are gone, you can pay again; if love is gone, you can find again.
remember!
you don't lack anything.
what you lack is the courage to start over.