First of all, no one is qualified to judge others, because everyone's foundation is different, so if you want to succeed, then the degree of effort is different. Don't think that others don't succeed, that is, they don't work hard. Behind the efforts made by others are some efforts, so when others do something, they are not qualified to judge others because they are not really involved in the whole process. So, since they don't understand the real efforts of others,
And Meng Jia's belief that self is the most important thing, because it is good to do whatever you want. As long as you live up to yourself, it is meaningful to do this thing, because now in an era of diversified networks, many people will comment on what they do, but if you only focus on other people's comments, you will be afraid to do anything, so in an era of very developed networks, you think that self is the most important thing, because only you are happy, then doing this thing is true. And if you just follow the footsteps of others, then everything you do is the same. You only have one life, so it is most important to be yourself.
So I agree with these two sentences very much. The first is that no one is qualified to judge others, because the efforts made by others are unimaginable to another person. Another is that Meng Jia thinks that ego is the most important thing, because time in life is limited, so it is good to live up to your conscience and have a clear conscience when you do anything. If we always care about other people's opinions, then we follow others' footsteps in everything we do, and it is difficult to have our own opinions.