1. The most important thing in life is not what you have lost, nor what you haven't got, but what you have now. Never mind the past, just want to laugh for the rest of my life.
Second, when you really can't let go, go to the intensive care unit or the cemetery. It is easy for you to understand that you get too much, and then you will be greedy, have too little time and have too many interesting things. From the perspective of respecting life, there is no need to entangle.
Third, don't care too much about some people, care too much about some things, let nature take its course and face it with the best attitude. Everyone's personality has some unacceptable parts, even the best people. So don't criticize others, and don't blame yourself. Roses have thorns because they are roses.
The biggest mistake people make every day is to be too polite to strangers and too harsh to close people. Change this bad habit and the world will be peaceful.
Fifth, life is to have it while losing it; Give up while choosing. Life, everything goes well, life, everything goes well. So, don't be serious with others, because it's not worth it, don't be serious with yourself, don't be serious with the past because it's not worth it, don't be serious with reality, because you have to continue!
Don't write it on your face no matter how bad it is, because no one likes to read it. Don't talk about being poor, because no one gives you money for no reason. Don't complain no matter how tired you are, because no one will do it for you unconditionally. No matter how hard life is, don't lose faith, because tomorrow will be beautiful. No matter how bad your character is, you should be filial to your parents, because you will be old one day.
7. The harder you try to please someone, the more likely that person will make you feel pain. Expectation is the root of all heartache, and if the heart is still, it will not hurt.
8. KFC never scolds McDonald's, and McDonald's never talks about KFC, so both of them have become the world's top 500; Mercedes-Benz never denigrated BMW, and BMW never denigrated Mercedes-Benz. Both of them became famous cars. Therefore, we don't need to slander others or defend ourselves. When people are alive, shine their own light, and don't blow out others' light!
Nine, I clearly see many people, but I can't expose them at will; I hate many people, but I can't turn my face easily. Sometimes, life is to force yourself to obey and humiliate.
A carpenter cut down a tree and made it into three barrels. One is called a dung bucket, and everyone hides; The container for holding water is called bucket, which is used by everyone. A bottle of wine is called a barrel, and everyone tastes it. Buckets are the same, because the contents are different and the fate is different. So is life!
Eleven, life is not easy, don't laugh at others. Every family has a difficult lesson, and everyone has a difficult song. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, there is also cold pain behind it; No matter how happy people are, they also have helpless difficulties in their hearts. No one's life is easy. To laugh at others is to laugh at yourself, and to respect others is to respect yourself. The poorest is nothing more than begging, and the undead will always emerge. Whose life is perfect, whose life is not thin and cool, who can guarantee that life has always been proud. Gold is not enough, no one is perfect.
Twelve, how much pain in life, how much tolerance, how much happiness. If you can't let go, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens, the less happy life. Then, why should we bother ourselves and hurt ourselves?
13. Disappointment is common in this world. People who are obedient to you can make you get what you want. If you don't care, no one or thing can satisfy you. If you live a lifetime, you need peace of mind, so why bother yourself? The heart is one inch wide and the road is ten feet wide.
Fourteen, look at people, don't look with your eyes, it is easy to divert your attention, and don't listen with your ears, because it may be deceptive. As long as you take the time and feel it with your heart, it can't be fake, and it can't be fake.
15. Don't try to tell young people about your experience. Say ten thousand words, it is better to fall down by yourself. Perhaps, tears teach you to be a man, and regrets help you grow. Pain is the best teacher. In fact, the detours in life are indispensable.