Matters needing attention in toasting, China people pay the most attention to etiquette since ancient times, and so does it on the wine table. Toast has a lot of etiquette knowledge, from which we can see a person's social and business ability. Let's take a look at the precautions for toasting.
Toast precautions 1 1. The waiter is generally responsible for pouring a small amount of wine into the cup, so that the guests can identify whether there is a problem with the quality. Consider it a formality. Take a sip. Good answer. Then, the waiter will come and pour the wine. Don't start taking the cup at this time, but put it on the table for the waiter to pour.
2. When drinking, you should never suck and drink, but tilt the glass like you put the wine on your tongue. Shake the glass gently and let the wine come into contact with the air to enhance the mellow taste of the wine, but don't shake the glass violently.
In addition, it is impolite to drink in one breath, look at people through the glass when drinking, drink with the glass, drink while eating, and print lipstick on the edge of the glass. Don't wipe the lipstick mark on the rim of the cup with your fingers. You'd better wipe it with a paper towel.
At a formal western banquet, drinks are the main characters. The collocation of wine and vegetables is also very strict. Generally speaking, when eating western food, each different dish must be accompanied by a different drink, and when eating a dish, it must be replaced by a drink.
The drinks served at western banquet can be divided into three kinds: pre-dinner wine, table wine and after-dinner wine. They each have many specific types. An aperitif is called an aperitif. Obviously, it is drunk before a formal meal or accompanied by an appetizer. Cocktails, absinthe and champagne are served before dinner. Table wine is also called table wine. This is a drink for a formal meal. Commonly used table wine is wine, mostly dry grapes, wine or semi-dry wine. There is an important stress, that is, "white wine with white meat, red wine with red meat." The white meat mentioned here, that is, fish, seafood and chicken, needs to be eaten with white wine; Red meat refers to beef, mutton and pork. Eat this meat with red wine. The white wine and red wine mentioned here are both wine. After-dinner wine refers to drinks used to help digestion after meals. The most common is liqueur, also called fragrant wine. The most famous after-dinner wine is brandy, which is called "the king of foreign wine".
6. Different cups drink different drinks. In front of each diner, there will be three or four wine glasses above the knife on the right side of the table. You can use it in turn from the outside to the inside, or you can "follow" the choice of the hostess. Generally, champagne glasses, red wine glasses, white wine glasses and water cups are indispensable.
7. Drink only half of champagne. Pay attention to drinking only champagne when toasting western food. Never make up for it with beer or other wine. When drinking champagne, it is advisable to drink half of the wine in the glass, and of course, you should do what you can.
8. Only toast without clinking glasses. One more thing to note: when toasting at a western banquet, people only toast without persuading them to drink, but only toast without really clinking glasses. When using glasses, especially don't touch them.
9. You can't leave your seat to make a toast. At western-style banquets, it is not allowed to walk down the seat casually, cross other people's bodies and toast people who are far away, especially cross-toasts.
10, moderate alcohol, no matter where you drink, you should be self-aware, and be careful, keep your manners and observe etiquette.
1 1. In western food, champagne is the only toast. You can't pass people around and toast others.
12, when eating western food, you can't refuse each other's toast. Even if you can't drink, raise your glass in return, otherwise it's impolite. Eating western food and drinking alcohol is forbidden to raise a glass and drink it off. Elegant drinking means knowing how to taste the color, fragrance and taste of wine. At western-style banquets, it is often a toast rather than a toast, and even a toast is only a matter of time.
Toast Precautions 2 Common sense of table manners
1, although on the wine table "deep feelings, a stuffy; Love is shallow, lick it, "but never say it when drinking.
2, low-key, put your hair up, don't fill it as soon as you get on the wine table.
3. It is only after the leaders have finished drinking each other that it is their turn to respect.
4. Many people can respect one person and never respect many people alone unless you are a leader.
5, respect others, if you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation, such as the other person's alcohol consumption, the other person's drinking attitude, you must not drink less than the other person, you must know that you respect others.
6. Respect others. If you clink a glass, by the way, I'll finish it, so be generous.
7, his humble position, remember to add more wine to the leader, don't just give the leader a drink, that is, replace it, but also pretend to want to drink, because he wants to drink instead of giving it to the leader. For example, leader A can't drink enough. Beating around the bush can stop people who want to worship leader A.
8. Pick up the glass (beer glass), hold the glass in your right hand and put the bottom of the glass in your left hand. Remember that your cup is always lower than others. If you are a leader, you should be sensible and don't put it too low, otherwise how can you be a person below.
9. If there is no special person present, it is best to touch the wine in chronological order, and don't favor one over the other.
10, clink glasses, toast, have something to say Transfer from 1 1, business is not on the table. After drinking, the business will be almost the same, and everyone knows it, otherwise people will not be free to drink with you.
12, don't pretend to be crooked, say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, don't plead, and consciously punish the wine is the last word.
13. If there is not enough wine, put the bottle in the middle of the table and let others add it themselves. Don't be silly to pour wine one by one, or what should the people behind you do if they don't have wine?
14, there must be a stuffy glass at the end of the wine. Don't leave your glass empty. You can't run away ~
15, be careful not to slip of the tongue after drinking, don't talk big, don't be rude, don't spit everywhere, don't throw chopsticks, don't move your fingers, drink soup, don't fart and burp, you can't hold back and go to the toilet, and no one will stop you.
16, don't say "I can't drink" (if you drink), lest others accuse you of hypocrisy. Believe it or not, people can really tell if they can drink.
17, the leader will accompany you to drink and give you face. No matter how much the leader tells you to drink, do it yourself first. Remember, keep your hands and cups low.
18, peanuts are a good thing for people who drink. It is essential to keep a clear head and ask questions after drinking. A cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water and a hot towel all show your concern.
Toast Precautions 3 Toast Etiquette
First, the first respect law
That is, find out the "first" as the reason for toasting from the toast object. When we meet for the first time, there are many words that can be used to persuade us to drink: when we meet for the first time, we really care about each other at first sight. If we meet late, we must have a good drink.
In addition, even if we have already met, we can extend this method and add attributes according to specific circumstances, such as meeting for the first time this year, this month, after promotion, somewhere, sitting together, on a business trip, and so on.
Second, the difference solution method.
Life is short. The world is so vast that it is a kind of fate that everyone can get to know each other and drink at the same wine table. Life must be full of wine. For this fate, we have to drink. Accept your fate.
Third, the law of seeking common ground.
The world is too small, of course, you can find the same places with you from each other: classmates, colleagues, fellow villagers, native places, elephants, surnames and so on. If you can't find it again, you can find the same good friends, so you can always seek common ground while reserving differences and treat each other with respect.
Fourth, adopt different methods.
At the same time of seeking common ground, you should be good at discovering the difference of revered objects and find out this "green with red". For example, the longest grade, the youngest grade, the oldest qualification, the highest level, the most promising, the most beautiful and the most chic. It's really nothing, but we can also look for uniqueness from clothes, hairstyles, language and other aspects to respect them.
Fifth, development methods.
You can find out each other's strengths, measure their strengths with your own shortcomings, and toast with praise and worship. "Everyone is cheerful when they are happy." Hearing your praise and worship will definitely impress the object of worship. This is a kind of "long" respect.
Six, the progressive method
First, yes man. Anyone who is worshipped can worship again in this way after drinking. Second, there is less wine in every bosom friend's cup. "A hundred feet, one step further, the boundary of ten parties, the whole body is also."
Toast should also be encouraged, make persistent efforts. For example, in the law of seeking common ground, an alumnus wants to drink one cup, another cup belongs to the same session, the other cup belongs to the same session, the same major, and so on. For example, the date of birth is progressive in the same age-the same month-the same day-the same place. At this time, well-meaning "lies" can also be used, as long as the other party can enjoy drinking and having fun, but don't let friends get drunk.
Seven, gratitude method
People are growing and growing all their lives. There are parents' kindness, teachers' kindness, leaders' kindness, friends' help and occasional companionship ... some are direct sponsors and some are indirect sponsors.
To be a man, you should also learn to be grateful. "The grace of dripping water should be rewarded with a spring." If you don't have much contact with yourself, you can also respect their gratitude instead of relatives and friends. This is to respect it with emotion.
Eight, winding path leading to a secluded place method
Sometimes, you will attend some unfamiliar dinners, and the people sitting there are basically "irrelevant". At this time, you can take indirect reasons to propose a toast.
For example, borrow a friend's relationship with him, or catch the toast object on the wine table to find a reason to propose a toast. If the other person says he is happy, you can follow suit and respect him with joy; If the other party is wrong, you can punish "wrong"; When the other person talks about things, people or opinions related to you, it causes your * * * ring, and you can "agree" to respect it.
Nine, formula method
China's wine culture condensed the essence of China characters. In "Hundred Poems of Li Bai Fighting for Wine", drinking can make humanity like a spring. It is a good way to toast with some poems about wine on the wine table.
X. wish method
After three rounds of wine and five flavors of food, you can finally propose a toast with good wishes. Say some good wishes in combination with the actual situation of the respected object. In short, there are countless ways to propose a toast. The key is to learn and use it flexibly, adjust measures to local conditions, and meet the needle. As long as it is used properly, I believe you and your friends will have a good time drinking, drinking and drinking.