Mourning is greater than dying in your heart (what do you mean, mourning is greater than dying in your heart)

Wen/Zhao Xinfang

There are two versions of Yu Xuanji's age of execution in unofficial history, 24 and 27, and their experiences are different.

In my opinion, it doesn't matter, but it's just a matter of death. The key is to explore how Yu Xuanji's psychological character changed by examining his ups and downs. (1) Wen Tingyun carefully preached and received his education

Yu Xuanji, whose name is Youwei, also known as Huilan, is from Chang 'an. Since childhood, he was very intelligent, fond of reading, and quick-witted. It is rumored that "it takes three steps to become a poem". At the age of 12, he was already a famous beauty poet in Chang 'an City.

Wen Tingyun, a famous poet in the late Tang Dynasty, made a special trip to visit a young talented woman who heard her name one day in late spring when she was 28 years old. Yu Xuanji was called Yu Youwei at that time. She was less than 13 years old, with fine eyebrows and bright eyes. Her skin was white and tender, and her innocence and liveliness gave full expression to her delicate spirit. Her beauty charm was already revealed. When she saw the visitors, she invited the guests to sit down gracefully.

After some conversation, Yu Youwei knew the purpose of the poet Wen and asked him to give a question.

The poet Wen recalled the sight of catkins flying and brushing people's cheeks on the way, so he said the word "riverside willow". Fish Youwei flicked her eyes a few times, and after a little meditation, she recited a poem:

The green color is even on the barren shore, and the smoke is in the distant building;

shadows spread on the spring water, and flowers fall to catch people's heads.

The root is an old Tibetan fish cave, and the bottom of the branch is a guest boat;

on a windy and rainy night, the nightmare adds to the sorrow.

As the saying goes, amateurs watch the excitement while experts watch the doorway. Poet Wen recited the poem silently only twice, and he felt that no matter the artistic conception, poetic sentiment, diction and even tone and rhyme, it was a rare masterpiece at present, and it was really amazing and amazing that it came from a little girl's mouth in an instant.

Yu Youwei's home is in Pingkangli, southeast of Chang 'an. At that time, it was a place where prostitutes gathered. The fish father died a long time ago, and he managed to make a living by relying on the fish mother to do some needlework and starch washing for nearby people.

drinking and courting prostitutes was a popular custom among the literati in the Tang Dynasty, and the poet Wen didn't break away from this custom, but he was more loving and caring for talents. Since then, Wen Tingyun has often visited the fish house. He became a teacher who didn't formally learn from Yu Youwei, and carefully guided her poems. Poet Wen is a model for teachers. He not only doesn't charge students tuition fees, but sends money and things from time to time to help the fishermen and their wives. The relationship between them is like teachers and students, like father and daughter, like friends.

good flowers don't bloom often, and good times don't exist often. Wen Tingyun soon left Chang 'an and went to work in the south. The young fish Wei, who began to breed feelings in her heart, missed the poet Wen in every way in the season of autumn leaves, and wrote a five-character poem "Send her to fly away":

The steps are noisy, and the smoke in the courtyard is clear;

in the middle of the month, the neighboring music is playing, and the upstairs is far away.

The pillow is cool, and heptachord sends her hatred.

Ji Jun is lazy in writing gifts, and the substrate comforts autumn feelings?

In a blink of an eye, autumn comes to winter, misty rain is boundless, and the cold night is bleak. Yu Youwei, who hasn't heard from Wen's poet for a long time, wrote a poem "Send Wen Feiqing on a Winter Night":

Thinking hard about the poem and singing under the lamp, staying up all night is afraid of the cold;

The leaves of the trees in the courtyard are full of worries about the wind, and the moon is sinking through the screen window.

Evacuation doesn't always follow one's wishes, and the ups and downs are empty.

The buttonwood tree is perched in seclusion, and the dusk birds chirp around the forest.

Poet Wen didn't reply as before.

what is the reason? Poet Wen has long understood that Yu Youwei belongs to his heart, and may be very different in age, or he may have a poor image and be slovenly. The author believes that the above reasons cannot be ruled out, but his heart of loving talents and cherishing talents plays a leading role. Although poet Wen is very fond of Yu Youwei, he has always kept his feelings within the boundaries of teachers, students or friends, and never took a step forward. (2) Husband Lucy li is not masculine

After more than two years, Tang Yizong succeeded to the throne, and the poet Wen came to Chang 'an to seek new development in his official career while the new emperor was first established. At this time, Yu Youwei is already a slim and graceful girl, and the two still associate with each other as teachers and students. One day, the two of them visited the beautiful Chongzhen Temple in the south of the city, and happened to meet a group of new scholars competing to write poems and leave their names on the wall. The young fish Wei, who was watching, was envious. After they left, she wrote the next poem with great emotion:

The full moon of Yunfeng shines with spring eyes, and it seems that the silver hook is pointing down;

I hate Luo Yi's poems, and look up empty and admire the name in the list.

The first two sentences of this poem express her great ambition. After the first two sentences, I hated myself for being a daughter, and I was full of talent, but I couldn't compete with a man with a man. I had to shake my head and sigh and admire!

men should be married and women should be married. Yu Youwei's marriage became the heart disease of Wen Poet. The opportunity has finally come. Lucy li, a scholar, is handsome and charming, and he himself admires Yu Youwei's looks and talents. Poet Wen tried his best to match them, and everything comes to him who waits. At the age of 16, Yu Youwei married Lucy li, who had already filled the vacancy for the official department, as his concubine.

It's really not as good as heaven. Lucy li's wife, Pei, was born with a noble family and a "Hedong Lion" character. Lucy li was soft-hearted and timid, and she was 1% "henpecked" after marriage. My husband took a concubine without the approval of the husband. Is that okay? Pei's forbade Lucy li to bring new people into the house. Lucy li had to build another love nest. After Pei's investigation was clear, he brought people to the door to make trouble, and Yu Youwei couldn't get out of bed for several days. After more than a year, he simply forced Lucy li to divorce the young fish Wei. (3) The rebellious mentality made Yu Xuanji go to the corner

Lucy li was surprised and scared, but she was at her wit's end, so she had to send the young fish Wei to Chang 'an Xianyiguan as a Taoist, and the name of the Taoist was mysterious. It's a year old. Yu Youwei is only 17.

After Yu Youwei was divorced, Pei took a series of feasible measures to strengthen the re-education and management of Lucy li. If it weren't for her husband's facial features, Pei's ears might be twisted off Lucy li. Why do you see it? Pei's hard work is fruitful. Fish Youwei has been in the Taoist temple for three years, but Lucy li hasn't visited it once. I didn't ask someone to bring a letter once, but later I simply moved my family away and got rid of it.

According to the traditional concept, Taoist temples in monasteries are for people who see through the world of mortals, and buddhist nun Taoist temples are especially for spoony women to escape or take refuge. However, Taoist temples in the Tang Dynasty quietly added the function of cheating. For example, Princess Yuzhen and Princess Jin Xian, the younger sisters of Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, have built their own Taoist temples, and they are more free to pay romantic talents under the brand of becoming monks, which has become a wonderful place unlike brothels, an tang and an tang.

After one night, the husband and wife are grateful for one hundred days. Yu Xuanji has feelings for Lucy li more or less, but Lucy li's performance in the past three years has made Yu Xuanji disheartened and completely desperate. Princess Yuzhen and Princess Jin Xian, the female aristocrats, took the lead, and Yu Xuanji, who was already proud, actively competed for the upper reaches. Her poem "it is easy to seek priceless treasures, but it is rare to have a lover" has become a watershed in her life: from narcissism and self-pity to self-destruction.

She publicly posted an advertisement "Yu Xuanji's Poems Waiting for Teaching" in front of Xian Yi Guan. Literati all got the message, just like a cat smelling fishy smell, one after another. Yu Xuanji's life is so free, either singing with the guests with poems or entertaining them with feasts. If you don't like it, you can immediately shut the door. If you like it, you can stay for a good night. Yu Xuanji's appearance and talent, coupled with that kind of small savage female character, made many men fall at her feet, and she became a romantic and sexy woman in that period of the Tang Dynasty.

According to unofficial history, the poet Wen heard about Yu Xuanji, and after a while, he came to a Taoist temple and told her that living like this was destroying himself ... Yu Xuanji turned his back on the poet Wen and was silent, so the poet Wen had to leave with a sigh. Sadness is greater than heart death! Yu Xuanji, who has died of his heart, is still going his own way, his temperament is becoming more and more docile and his mind is becoming more and more narrow. In a conflict with a female apprentice, she accidentally killed the other party and finally made herself go to the execution ground.

Although there are many doubts about this case ...

The National Library (North Map) has a block-printed Poem of Yu Xuanji, a girl from the Tang Dynasty, with 49 poems. In addition, one of his poems "Folding Willow" was collected in "Wenyuan Yinghua". Therefore, there are 5 poems by Yu Xuanji in this world.

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