Why did the ancient emperor give it to the wet nurse for the first time instead of the queen?

In ancient China, men generally got married very early. In view of the custom that men are generally older than women in China traditional culture, women get married relatively early. Bian Xiao, a classmate's great-grandmother gave birth to his grandfather when 13 years old. Ordinary people get married so early, so the men in the palace get married earlier. Almost all emperors, little emperors and princes were blessed by women, had skilled sexual experience and some even gave birth to children before their formal marriage.

Emperor Kangxi 12 years old and 13 years old Hersaizhhara held a grand wedding. Shortly after they got married, Kangxi and his queen, Hesely Hala, had a son, but the child died at the age of four. Later, the queen gave birth to another son and died in the afternoon. The happy event turned into a funeral in an instant. Emperor Kangxi personally went to mourn for 20 days, which shows the deep feelings.

Sima Zhong, a faint king in the Western Jin Dynasty, got married at the age of 13. Before Sima Zhong got married, his father Sima Yan sent Xie Jiu, a harem talent, to the East Palace to teach the prince himself and let him know about sex.

Xie Jiu was pregnant when she left the Prince's East Palace. Xie Jiu later gave birth to a son in another palace. A few years later, Prince Sima Zhong saw a child in his parents' palace. Emperor Wu of Jin told him that this was his son, and he was greatly surprised. Similarly, Tuoba Jun, a Wen Chengdi of the Northern Wei Dynasty, got married at the age of 17, but 13 just entered adolescence and 14 became a father.

It is expressly stipulated in the Qing palace that before the wedding, the emperor first selects eight elderly ladies-in-waiting with good looks for the emperor's royal presence. These eight ladies-in-waiting are very famous, and since then they have become women with status in the palace, receiving a monthly salary and no longer working like other ordinary ladies-in-waiting. Therefore, this job has always been expected by ladies-in-waiting, hoping to get rid of the pain and get ahead in one step. The birthrights of these eight ladies-in-waiting are generally titled as four female officials in the palace, namely, master of ceremonies, door secretary, bedroom secretary and account secretary. The purpose of this regulation is to let the emperor get some experience of sexual intercourse before marriage, so that he can live with the queen without embarrassment and panic, and take his time.

Which women did the emperor have sex with before marriage? This is not stipulated by China's successive imperial courts, and it depends entirely on the emperor's personal interests. For the young little emperor, sexual problems make him nervous, and he is still in a state of enlightenment without taboos. In this state, it is easy to be teased or impulsive, and it is easy to have sex with women around you.

The prince lives in the East Palace. After the coronation ceremony, the prince was regarded as an adult. Without the emperor's letters, the prince is not allowed to enter and leave the harem at will in case of having an affair with the concubines in the harem. The prince has no scruples in the East Palace. He can do whatever he wants, flirt with any maid at will and have sex with any one of them.

In terms of possibility, who was the first woman to have sex with the little emperor or prince? Will this woman become a queen or a concubine? It's really hard to answer accurately. Anyone can be the emperor's first woman, and when they are lucky, they usually have a corresponding name. But generally speaking, it is the maids around who are most likely to be the first woman of the little emperor or the little prince, and sometimes their wet nurses.

Maid-in-waiting and wet nurse are both maids and are nameless. If the maid-in-waiting is lucky and favored, she will gain a birthright, thus changing her humble position. The wet nurse is free to enter and leave the palace. Even if she is lucky, her birthright will never change, and neither will she. People can't accept that the wet nurse who grew up nursing the emperor can be the emperor's concubine, let alone the queen of the world.

Most emperors gradually forgot his first woman.

Psychologically speaking, an independent emperor is indifferent to his first woman, and will not be attached for a long time. This woman made the emperor shy and reminded him of his nervousness and timidity for the first time. The emperor will never relax in front of her. The emperor will naturally avoid her and jump on other beautiful women.

Ming Shenzong Zhu Yijun was the third son of Mu Zong in Ming Dynasty. At the age of five, Zhu Yijun was made a prince, and at the age of 10, he became an emperor. /kloc-When I was 0/7 years old, I once passed by Cining Palace and met the Queen of the Palace. At that time, she couldn't control herself, so Zhu Yijun was lucky.

Since then, Wang Yizhi has been pregnant. Such an important thing was recorded by the eunuch who accompanied the driver, and the log was also recorded. However, after the impulse, Zhu Yijun didn't have Rainbow, so she was no longer lucky and didn't miss her. It was learned by Empress Dowager Cixi. The Queen Mother, who was eager to have grandchildren, took good care of the king, and Wang Shunli gave birth to a son in the palace.

On one occasion, the Queen Mother excitedly told Zongshen about it, but Zongshen was indifferent to it and pretended not to hear it. Of course, Wang's concubines are hopeless, and Wang's son has also been left out in the cold. But in history, there are exceptions for the emperor and his first woman, such as Ming Xianzong and maid-in-waiting Wan.