There is a controlling mother at home. How can I fight with her?

The thread in the hand of a kind-hearted mother made clothes for her wayward son's body. She sewed it carefully and repaired it thoroughly, fearing that the delay would make him come home late! China traditional culture describes mother like this! Mom has been taking care of us since we were born, afraid that we will make mistakes and become more and more controlling. She has been nagging for most of her life, and now we are really bored. So how should we deal with it!

0 1 means positive communication. If there are differences, actively communicate with your mother. Speak your mind. It depends, of course. First of all, don't prove conflict with your mother. When your mother doesn't allow you to do things, she doesn't allow you to think. You can't refute it directly yet. You can sit down and talk to your mother when she is in a good mood. For example, if you want to buy a beautiful dress, my mother just doesn't think so. She thinks girls dress too revealing. Don't argue in a hurry, just follow mom's wishes first. When you go out to play with your mother, or when you are in a bad mood, tell your mother that you like that dress very much and express your thoughts. I hope my mother will respect her wishes. Repeated communication like this, I believe it will get better gradually.

Respect your mother. No matter how your mother controls herself, you should respect her. After all, she raised you so much. Respect for mothers is a basic requirement. So, don't have a direct conflict with your mother. And try to respect your mother in words and don't say anything hurtful. For example, say that mom is out of date, that mom doesn't understand, that mom is bored and other hurtful words. Put respect for your mother first and communicate with your mother calmly, so as to ease your mother's mood and achieve the desired effect, which requires your emotional intelligence. Why can't you sacrifice your self-esteem for your mother? What did you say?/Sorry?

Let mom know that you have grown up. In the eyes of parents, you will always be a child and a bean sprout. But if you can make your parents feel that you are grown up and sensible, they will naturally give up their desire for control. For example, when communicating, you can express your thoughts, analyze problems, express your views clearly and clearly, and handle things with ease. Slowly, parents will also become relieved.