Most chefs are women, but most chefs are men. Similarly, emotional description of women, beautiful love poems are mostly written by men. Why? Please, everyone.

The former is because the chef is a coolie, the dishes cooked by women are suitable for the whole family, and the dishes cooked by the chef should be eaten by everyone. The latter, first of all, was limited by the status of ancient women, and had no contact with Four Treasures of the Study at all. Secondly, because men will sweet talk about what they want, that's almost it!