It seems that you have practiced "child skills" well, and you were still a "real body" before asking this question. To satisfy your curiosity, let me tell you.
Couples who share a bed will definitely like to share a quilt. As soon as you get under the quilt, it's a world for two people. At this time, it seems that the whole world belongs to them. It reflects the deep affection and lingering sweetness between husband and wife.
Only couples who can share the same bed, use the same pillow, and cover themselves with the same quilt can have true love. If a husband and wife sleep in bed at the same time, each with his own quilt, it means that the husband and wife share the same bed, have different dreams, and have ulterior motives. There is no interest in a couple's lifestyle like this.
Besides, if husband and wife can share the same quilt, they can also feel whether the other party loves them or not. If it is a hot day and the temperature is high, when one party falls asleep, the other party will open the quilt for him or her; on a cold day, if one party cannot cover him with the quilt, the other party will pull the quilt to cover him. Although it is a small gesture, it can blow away the coolness in summer and dissolve the ice and snow in winter.
Therefore, when husband and wife share the same bed, covering themselves with the same quilt is a sign of good mood, good health and good relationship between the two parties. If husband and wife each put their own quilt on the same bed, then the couple will be far away from the "three good things" I just mentioned; as a result, the relationship between husband and wife will enter a "frozen" period. If this cycle continues, there will be no love between husband and wife.
The reason why, whether young couples or old couples, should not cover themselves with separate quilts when sharing the same bed, let alone sleep in separate beds. . Since we are destined to share the same bed and pillow, we have to cover ourselves with the same quilt and fall asleep hugging each other. If husband and wife put their own quilts under each other, the warmth between husband and wife will be covered up. For this reason, couples like to cover themselves with a quilt when they are in bed together. Because, a quilt can retain the passion of love!
Those who are newly married must share the same quilt. When they have children, they will share the same quilt. In a few years, when the children are older, they will be a good couple during the day and good neighbors at night! Don’t deny it, most people are like this, they think it’s right to have a little red heart!
I really like sleeping naked. However, after 6 years of development, our husband and wife have successfully changed from two people and one quilt to one person and one quilt. But of course my favorite way is still two people. As soon as the person was killed. After all, it’s warm and cozy when we squeeze together, and my wife’s quilt always smells good, so even if we share a quilt, I still get into her quilt most of the time. Thinking about it over the past 6 years, my passion for our relationship as husband and wife has not diminished, but as for her, she is sometimes hot and sometimes indifferent. Fortunately, I have always maintained good habits and I don't get used to her problems most of the time. But think about the past 6 years. Our relationship as husband and wife is just like the quilt on this bed, one one one two, one two one two, one bed becomes two beds, two beds become one bed again, back and forth, over and over again. If you look back, it is a history of gradual changes in post-marital relationships.
I remember that after we just got married, because my wife was cold, I would often warm her bed first. At that time, we were inseparable and loving, and she would get into bed only after she was warmed. And even if I warm the bed, she still has to squeeze in with me. But I actually have a body that is easily prone to heat, so I will feel more comfortable if I sleep cooler, but if I squeeze in with my wife, it doesn’t matter if I sleep a little warmer. At that time, we slept in the same position before going to bed, and in the same position after waking up. From the moment we woke up until dawn, we slept particularly sweetly and harmoniously.
Later, I relapsed into my old habit, which is that I like to cover my head when sleeping. I often cover my head when I fall asleep, and then curl up in bed. My wife said that she often When I woke up, I was either sleeping sideways or upside down on the bed. And once in the middle of the night, my wife was half asleep and was about to go to the toilet. She unconsciously touched my side and it turned out to be a foot. That day She was so frightened at night that she even fell asleep afterward. Later, in order to prevent me from covering my head, my wife used one arm to hold me down every time I slept, so that I wouldn’t move around.
However, my wife actually has a big problem, that is, she loves to roll quilts. The big quilt of 2.2 meters by 2.4 meters could be swept away by her in the first half of the night, and it was rolled up like a mummy. Even I couldn't snatch it away from her. I was really puzzled that such a big quilt couldn't leave any space for me. After all, I was still sleeping naked. Sometimes I woke up in the middle of the night and there was nothing around me. Not to mention the quilt, I couldn't even find my wife. In fact, when it comes to this, there are still two things that I hate. One is that I regret buying this big bed, and the other is that I love to toss and turn when sleeping.
So my wife is afraid of the cold, so she will keep rolling up the quilt. I'm afraid of the heat, so I subconsciously turn wherever it feels cooler. So in the summer, I often roll over to the edge of the bed and wake up with one leg still hanging on the head of the bed. But sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and feel a little cold, and then I crawl into bed. But at this time, there was no way I could get into bed without waking my wife up. Not only did she roll the Xia Liang quilt all over her body, but she also wrapped it tightly and pulled the corners of it tightly. I didn’t have a quilt at all. It can be said that it is really embarrassing.
I remember one time I asked if I could not always roll up the quilt when sleeping? Unexpectedly, she said that how did she know whether the quilt was rolled up or not when she was asleep, and asked me why I didn't tighten it. Do I need to pull the quilt to sleep? It's really unreasonable.
So later on, we gradually put a quilt on each person, so I covered my head, she rolled up her mummy, and each slept in his own place. No one should disturb the other. But what’s even more irritating is that sometimes she rolls herself up like a mummy and comes to snatch my quilt. She scolds me when I say it. Thinking about how men have been here for so many years, they are really a vulnerable group in bed. They all belong to women no matter what. right.
In winter, after changing to a thick eiderdown quilt, her quilt rolling problem finally got better. I once teased her about her ability to roll up the eiderdown quilt, and my wife said seriously that it was too thick to roll up. I said you know it now, men are like summer quilts, and women are like eiderdown quilts.
In fact, the two of us shared the same quilt for less than a year. After her pregnancy, her belly got bigger and bigger. It was unsafe for us to sleep together in this position, so she slept in the big room and I slept in the small room. This time no one disturbs the other. Having said that, it was quite pleasant.
After the baby was born, I took the initiative to pack up the quilt and sneak into the big house. But then we bickered from time to time. Whenever we had a quarrel, she would let me sleep in the hut. Over time, I found that I slowly started to like sleeping alone, playing on my phone when I wanted to, and staying up late when I wanted to.
After a while, my wife discovered something. How could she see me being so free under her nose, so she called me to the big house to "be tortured". Fortunately, this punishment is called "Imprisonment for having a wife" means that although one has lost one's freedom, it can be regarded as a return to a normal and happy life.
After several years of hard work, we have now reached an agreement. In the summer, our husband and I share the same bed, one under the other, and one under the other during the winter. As for the way I like, I think it’s better for two people to have a quilt together. After all, between husband and wife, you should have me in you, and you in me, without any second thoughts, and never leave.
There are many benefits to couples sharing a bed or sharing a quilt. In addition to feeling each other's warmth, it can also enhance the relationship between husband and wife, making the relationship between husband and wife more sweet and harmonious. So after 6 years of running-in, before we got over the 7-year itch, we were already used to being close to each other and not distinguishing between you and me.
This is personal privacy, but since I am curious, I will tell you openly. After all, society is open now, and being cheated on is not a big deal.
The wind and clouds of the quilt are also a barometer of the family, reflecting the ups and downs, rain, snow, separation, reunion and separation of a family. Regarding sharing the same bed and quilt or sharing the same bed and different quilts, each family always has its own characteristics.
My family is unique, divided and combined, and the story of the quilt and the bed is vividly interpreted.
When my husband and I first got married, we had two brand-new quilts on the same bed. They were neatly placed in the morning. When we went to bed at night, the two quilts were spread out. At first, they were each covered with separate covers. In the middle of the night, for some reason, the two of them were caught in the same trap. This may be because opposite sexes attract each other. Due to the gravitational force, the two magnetic poles must come together.
When I got up in the morning, I saw a double bed with the two of us sleeping on the same quilt. It only took up a quarter of the bed. It was too sparing. I always doubted the bed I bought at that time. Is it too big? Maybe buy a single bed and sleep two people comfortably.
However, the good times did not last long. Due to work reasons, I was transferred to a hospital in other provinces, so we met less. Either he came to see me during work breaks, or I asked for leave to see her.
Most of the time I spend the night alone on this bed, alone under the quilt, and most of the time I spend the night alone on the other end of the bed, alone under the quilt.
Living apart in two places is not a problem, but our feelings are deeper than before. Maybe distance brings beauty. Although we cannot share the same bed and quilt, in our yearning for each other, our love is stronger than before. The heart is getting closer and closer.
Later, he finally found a way to be transferred to the same province as me, and we were together again, sharing a bed and a quilt. The two square quilts folded in the morning were laid out in a proper manner at night. There are two square beddings. When I wake up, the two magnetic poles are brought together again. It is still one bed, or 1/4 of the bed for two people. This sweetness makes me laugh just thinking about it.
However, the story of the bed and quilt is far from over, and there is still a tortuous and bizarre experience.
Because last year, when COVID-19 came and the epidemic became serious, I was transferred to Wuhan as a front-line medical worker to fight the epidemic. The couple, who had not been warm enough under the same quilt just now, would face another few months of The test of not being able to meet each other, and even the threat of not being able to meet again in the future.
On the night before I left, he silently held my hand, holding it so tightly, as if he was afraid that I would never come back and never see each other again.
That night, we still shared the same bed and quilt. When we woke up in the morning, we still slept on 1/4 of the bed. However, it is really hard to say whether such days will happen again.
When he saw me off in the morning, he just stroked my hair silently, looked at me with warm eyes, and only said, pay attention to safety, protect yourself, I will wait for you to come back.
You can imagine how much suffering it was for both of us in the following months.
I was at the hospital, and he was at home. The only way to contact us was a small mobile phone. The bed and quilt were such a luxury to me, and he must have been tossing and turning in bed alone, unable to sleep at night. I'm worried.
However, such days have passed now. The most difficult moment of fighting the epidemic has passed. I have returned to him intact. It is still a bed, a quilt, and a bed. 1/4, but the two hearts are closer.
The separation and recombination of beds and quilts, the gatherings and separations of my husband and I are also the scenes of most medical workers. In this fight against the epidemic, how many soldiers in white have abandoned their small homes and gone to work? Taking care of everyone, their families, and their own safety, these angels in white are the guarantee of victory in this war.
Thank you to these soldiers in white for their contributions to the country. They will always be the loveliest people and the most respectable people.
My husband and I shared the same quilt, hugged four or five times a day, slept together, and talked until we fell asleep. The longest period of time apart for ten years was two months, and I went home to build a house alone. After a few quarrels, my husband hugged me and kissed me. I didn’t care about it. We made up again within five minutes. We love each other very much. We both love each other very much. Really, to be honest.
Not only did we share quilts, we also slept in separate rooms and beds. I have heard it said before that once couples sleep in separate beds, they will no longer want to sleep in the same bed. I didn’t believe it at the time, but now I know that sleeping in separate beds is such a blessing. No one will turn over or wake up to disturb you. Sleep when you want, look at your phone when you want, stretch your arms and legs wherever you want, it’s so beautiful.
There is a popular saying nowadays: First-class couples sleep in separate rooms, second-class couples sleep in separate beds, and third-class couples sleep in the same bed. Our family sleeps in separate beds and rooms, which is hygienic and healthy.
We have been sleeping in separate rooms since our children went to college. I sleep in the original bedroom, and my husband sleeps in the bedroom where the children have slept. There is also a small room with a well-prepared bed. Yes, as soon as the child comes back, either I or my husband will go to the small room to sleep, and let the child sleep in the same room as before. In this way, we husband and wife have been sleeping in separate beds and rooms for more than ten years, and it has become a habit.
Sometimes relatives come from out of town and stay at home. My husband and I temporarily sleep in the same room and on the same bed. We are not used to it. We often stay up all night, tossing and turning.
There are many benefits to couples sleeping in separate beds and rooms. After the housework is completed in the evening, everyone goes to their own room and goes to their own bed without interfering with each other. On this side, I am sitting on the bed reading a book and newspaper; on the other side, he is lying on the bed playing with his mobile phone, making phone calls, and sending WeChat messages. He has nothing to do with me at all, and no one can affect anyone.
I am a tidy person. After getting up every morning, I fold the quilt neatly on the bed, pull the mattress flat and neatly, and make the bed clean. When I go to sleep at night, I feel better. Cool.
I always give my husband three rules: Don’t touch my bed, and don’t sit on my bed. As for the mess on his bed, I often point it out to him. I often guide him to make his own bed every day so that he can feel comfortable looking at it.
As for couples sleeping on the same bed, is it better to share quilts or share one quilt? I think of course it is better for each person to have his own quilt! When one person covers the same quilt and breathes at night, the exhaust gas exhaled cannot be transmitted to the other person's mouth, and the other person's nose cannot smell it. Their breathing does not interfere with each other, which is hygienic and healthy, and also enhances the quality of each other's sleep.
Modern people's economic conditions are very good, and having two quilts on one bed has long been a piece of cake.
After reading this topic, I thought I should say a few words. A newly married young couple is in harmony with each other. They don't have enough kisses and love. It's good to cover them with a quilt. When you reach an age, it is best not to be so tired of it, you are in the south and I am in the north, or you are in the south and I am in the south next door. They snore each other night after night and do not bother each other. It also avoided the embarrassing back-to-back after a sarcastic conversation. This is good! After dinner, we are still at the same table, eating a pot of rice, drinking a bowl of soup, and finally drinking a pot of water... living a life that is neither salty nor bland, and never leaves. Daily, ordinary, ordinary worldly fireworks life. Not much misfortune, not that much happiness. If you learn to be content, then, thinking about it, such an ordinary life would be quite good.
We have been married for more than thirty years. We have always slept in the same bed, covered with a quilt. I still feel very happy!
Husband and wife are a fusion of heaven and earth. They are one and the same. There is no restricted area. It reflects the attraction of opposite sexes. The closer they are to each other, the more affection they will have. Therefore, sharing the same bed and quilt is the real husband and wife. The couple wants to Everything is open to the public, and there is no place for privacy. Therefore, couples are masterpieces given to mankind by God.
With husband and wife, human beings can continue to reproduce and thrive, and the world will be full of sunshine!