Water excites the countercurrent, fire excites the transverse hair, people excite chaos, and a gentleman is cautious of the excited. Shame can turn a villain into a gentleman, and shock can turn a gentleman into a villain.
A gentleman refers to a person's goodness rather than reputation, breaks his faults rather than destroys them, and destroys them to persuade him to be good and cultivate his way. Little people are not, goodness is taboo, and excess is positive.
The villain only expects people's kindness, but he doesn't feel too grateful. A gentleman is not grateful to others, but unforgettable.
Well-dressed people, based on innocence, must be quiet and save trouble, and any greedy and mean husband should not be involved with it.
If people blindly look at people wrongly, they will be sick everywhere and angry all day.
Don't abandon great beauty with small evils, and don't forget great kindness with small grievances.
It is a shame to criticize too directly, but it is a mistake for me.
Persuade people not to point out their mistakes, but to be beautiful first. If people are happy, language is easy to enter, if they are angry, language is difficult to enter, and anger is better than personal reasons.
Don't take it lightly, don't take it lightly, and don't take it lightly, dumb.
To be a good person today, you must stand on a wall.
Cultivate yourself when you are slandered by others, and be afraid when you are praised by others.
You can't lose your heart for a day, and you can't lose your heart for a while.
People are born, unfortunately, they have never heard of it, and they are shameless. If you have shame, you can teach, and if you smell it, you can be virtuous.
It's better to be negative than negative.
A gentleman's journey is quiet to cultivate one's morality, and frugal to cultivate one's morality. Not cold, not awake, not quiet, not far away.
A gentleman can help others in times of danger, and it is a good thing to use your quick wits. It would be nice not to brag.
Promoting narrowness and impetuousness is not a benign atmosphere. Just look at its atmosphere and you will know the depth of cultivation.
Arguing with others can only tell the truth, but not expose the shortcomings of parents and publicize the evil of boudoir. This kind of disaster is a question of killing yourself, not just hurting yourself.
It is the easiest thing to win the lost day because of happiness or misfortune, to praise or criticize the person who took the manuscript fee, and to blame himself by virtue of self-cultivation.
How can you be enlightened if you don't get rid of your habits? ? You must see what you see and hear what you hear. A small heart means joy, a small touch means anger, and a small interest means fear. These are all habits.
If you defend yourself, you will be defeated. Love is like a virgin. If you lose it, everything will fall apart. It is difficult to get involved in the world, so livestock should be prepared. Buyi people are kind, but if they show their kindness, they will abandon it. If they teach people to show their kindness, they will take revenge.
The way to live is to avoid anger.
Often quietly, it is subtle and profound, but it must be powerful. Therefore, massiness, calmness and generosity are the basis of virtue promotion and the key to longevity.
Swearing and joking should be measured, not only to avoid resentment, but also for honesty.
Probably, it is a virtue for a gentleman to be strict with himself and changeable in the garden. I couldn't get into school in the first place.
Where punishment kills it, different people have different opinions, and the wise have different opinions. The ninja saw it and was more patient. Therefore, gentlemen are far away from cooking and naturally have habits.
When you want to be cute, you should consider appropriateness and justice to win it.
Take meanness as a warning and be honest in everything.
Anger without anger and joy without joy can nourish the soul. You can stand without making friends or joining evil parties. Small profits are indisputable, small anger is not made, but can be made public. Do what you see good, change what you smell bad, cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's character.
I don't know how big the world is until I do it, so I can't rely on myself. You can't be complacent when you know how small the world is after traveling around the world.
Mortal temperament has its own bias, and it is natural to know its bias and correct it over time. Therefore, Rusong urgently needs to change his temperament.
If it doesn't look good, do you want to see it later? For example, a moment's silence is not benevolence, a moment's greed is not righteousness, a moment's slowness is indecent, a moment's fraud is not wisdom, and a gentleman is cautious.
A gentleman can't just care about his heart, so he goes to a saint. A villain can't be ignorant without a bad heart, so he approaches animals.
Being unknown is a great sin. However, I have also made some self-confessions, but I changed my efforts because I used to be outspoken.
It is a gentleman to say that people are good or exaggerate. Instead of avoiding being a villain, it is better to preach the evil of others or damage their truth.
You can never be a saint unless you see yourself clearly. If you like to talk about others, it hurts the sum of heaven and earth. Nausea nausea must be unknown; You can't avoid swearing.
Careful words and deeds are first of all self-cultivation.
Bring disgrace to oneself, who doesn't respect himself, looks for trouble if he doesn't fear himself, benefits if he isn't complacent, and is well informed if he doesn't.
Those who hate me are in trouble, and those who hate me are dead. They should all be compassionate. If there is a spark of happiness, it will hurt the soul.
It is good for people to be indifferent to the world, not rich, and always full of passion, so that they will not fall.
When arguing with others, you can only tell the truth. Never expose his grandfather's shortcomings and preach the evil of his boudoir, which will kill him.
Awe is the foundation of self-cultivation. Fear in advance and then fear, fear can avoid disaster. If you are afraid afterwards, you will regret it, and regret can be changed. A wise man repents with fear, but a fool has no regrets. Old friends protect themselves, fools bring their own destruction. How scared!
Modesty makes people more convinced, boasting makes people doubt me. Politeness can calm people's anger, and my greed will lead to disputes. These are all about me.
A good slanderer not only believes what he says, but also doubts everything.
There is something wrong with people and they will suffer from it in the future. If there is a gap in the equipment, it will leak water. Observe carefully as far as possible, know yourself and yourself, and fight every battle.
If you want to be a gentleman, you cannot achieve it unless you accumulate good deeds. When you think of personal evil, you can immediately see the villain. So:? Doing good all one's life is not enough, but doing evil once a day is more than enough. ?
When lust is strong, it can be cut off, and when anger is strong, it can be accepted. This is the power of learning.
Everyone hates me, but I have no bones. Everyone is afraid of me, but I have no support.
Being hated by others, being hated by others, is too much.
Whenever there is a rebellion to invade, think about the reasons first, that is, think about ways to deal with it, and don't get angry easily. When two people are angry, they become a pair of villains, and they usually suffer.
If people know little about self-love, how can they run a business for profit and be willing to run around for businesses? Something in my heart is a desire, which is difficult to cure. Otherwise, there will be endless evil.
If you have something you have to do, you must do it early. You may not be able to do it today.
Even if Tao succeeds, the villain can't get close. If you claim that he is in charge of me, you might as well hold the bag at the same time, and you will be hurt by it.
Although the villain is nothing, he can stop if he can. It is unfortunate for a gentleman to make mistakes, so he should preserve and cherish them in order to realize his virtue.
You are profitable, you are a gentleman, and I am a villain; If you are famous, you have to be a villain, and I will be a gentleman. I'm confused. Sages profit from their positions and give up their fame, so they are naturally indifferent to the world.
The debate between righteousness and benefit is cautious and strict. Right and wrong start with many mouths, so be careful not to talk nonsense.
People ruined me and humiliated me. If they change it, they will benefit their morality, and if they are safe, they will also increase their number.
Call people kind, although there is affection, it does not hurt kindness. If the attacker is short, there will be conclusive evidence, and eventually the wind will fall on them.
Do good, be ashamed to talk about good.
Hard work is a good thing, but you can't live without it. Is there anyone in the world thinner and thicker than others?
When you love your differences, you love yourself, one step away is better than being an official.
People should not be used to idleness, which is unbearable for small things.
People say that everything happens for a reason and they deeply regret it. Bow with a clear conscience, just listen. The ancients said:? Why stop slandering? , said:? No discrimination? . The more discerning, the more skillful the slanderer is. ?
Scholars must know nothing about world affairs.
One word hurts the sum of heaven and earth, and one thing hurts the joy of life, so be careful.
A gentleman breaks up with others, and there is no evil voice. Loyal ministers to the country, the name is not correct.
Don't smell what you want, don't say what you want. Don't know what you want, but don't do it.
Good and evil habits, gradually dyed in the morning and evening, are touching.
Quiet is security, and official is official.
The thought of being a man is heavy, but that of being an official is light, so the fortune is not tempted. An official's mind is heavy, but a man's mind is light, so his reputation is often ruined.
When you are old, you should make progress and be handsome. If you are ambitious, you will be angry, so you won't feel old.
He who blames others will forgive himself.
Virtue is not afraid of being difficult to accumulate, but it is easy to get tired. A thousand days' accumulation can't help a day's fatigue, which is why a gentleman is so tired.
Nine times out of ten, those who plan wealth for their children and grandchildren will be defeated. People who are kind and convenient to others will benefit in the future.
A thought of grace is enough to be blessed, and a word of violence is enough to hurt peace. What is not implicit is intentional, and what is created is great.
If you are too ill, you should be counted as poor. Or: being too strict is a kind of evil.
A forbearance eliminates endless disasters, and a sufficient word saves endless demands.
If a thing is not intentional, it will be out of order.
When a person makes a mistake, he is afraid that you will be annoyed and easy to tolerate. If he is constantly accused, he knows that your intention is irreversible, and he is not afraid to get up. What's the fun?
Be cautious in advance and never regret afterwards.
Stop cursing, so help scold, help scold, so stop cursing.
If you love the person you love, you can't beat him. If you hate yourself with the heart of the wicked, then righteousness cannot be used.
You can't show virtue by recommending sages, and you can't demonstrate in addition to rape.
When people deal with money, one point must be ten points, especially now. When you talk to people about something, you must report it to them. This is lettering. The punishment should be ten sticks, and if one stick is not let go, it will be engraved. When dealing with relatives, we should discuss the merits in principle, that is, lettering. Carving is not enough, and carving is evil. Or ask relatives how to ignore merits and demerits? Say: Reward for merit, and wait with passers-by. ?
Never indulge in abstinence, so get rid of fatigue; Suppress evil, so put it down; Degrade wine, so there is no pollution; Avoid suspicion, so don't be mistaken; Knowledgeable and curious, it is widely known; Speak softly, so cultivate one's morality; Humble and modest, so have self-control; Foresighted, so not poor; Good friendship is straight, so help the top; I am close to forgiveness, so I accept benevolence; Any talent can be enabled, so economic services; Repel evil, so stop chaos; Push the ancient to test the present, and don't be confused; Slap first and then slap, so you should die; Set the right to change, so solve the knot; Including capsules will be very smooth, so there is no blame; It is clumsy, so it is valuable; Diligent, so I will save my life.
Being good at health will benefit over time, but people don't know. It is better to have the ointment of fire than to have evil in the body, but people can't see it. Who knows, unless he knows his own temperament and observes customs.
Don't say people are short, don't say people are long. Be careful not to discuss what you have given, but don't forget what you have got. World fame is not enough, but kindness is discipline. Move with your heart hidden, slander and discuss injuries. Don't write your name too true, let fools and saints hide it. Nirvana, expensive, ambiguous, intellectual man fit, strong old man. It is difficult to measure the size of ambition when walking. Be careful what you eat and drink, and the contented will always be happy. Respect is constant, and it will last a long time.
It is better to endure than to win every battle.
Sin is greater than progress, disaster is greater than verbosity, pain is greater than ignorance, and shame is greater than shame.
There is a gap between people who get angry when they hear slander. It is also the media that is famous. The media has a long way to go.
People's good and evil are shaped by words and deeds, and people can only know before. But the budding heart is born out of worry, and ghosts and gods are known, so a gentleman is cautious and independent.
Tolerance is the first rule of the situation; Peace is the first way to deal with things; Concession is the first rule to protect yourself; Tolerance is the first way to treat people; Life and death of the rich and the poor is the first method of nourishing the heart.
Revenge and anger advice: the law will be swept away at birth, whether it is or not. Once in a hundred years, why bother? Within the void, there is nothing, everything is wide, and its blessings are thick.
Abstinence: Touch things and stick gum. Love thieves too much and poison Mao Ge. If the film is suitable, the spirit will disappear forever, and the dust net is hard to surpass.
People who don't respect themselves will be insulted. If you don't strive for self-improvement, you will be humiliated. Self-respect and self-improvement, humiliation is still lingering, and death is a disaster.
People are talented and exposed, but shallow and deep are not exposed. Party is one thing, that is, people want to know, especially shallow. People with dignity are blessed with virtue. It goes without saying that the mind is calm and the body is at peace with Shu Tai.
A good idea will bring good luck to God. Evil thoughts, ghost. Knowing this can serve ghosts and gods.
If it smells good, you will doubt it; if it smells bad, you will believe it. This is full of murder.
Doing nothing can break the illusion by naming the body. Do not work for the government, do not think. Doing nothing is doing nothing. Knowing the Lord without doing anything, knowing the land. However, you must have sex before you can do these four things, otherwise you can't do it. Zhuangzi said? I enjoy doing nothing, but I also suffer from vulgarity. ? Big jump:? If people don't think about it, the rationality of the world will almost stop. ? Tired is just a love word. If you are heartless, you will not be tired. Therefore, saints are ruthless.
A gentleman knows the ambition of the world, and being too strict will hurt the public.
Mortals talk about non-humans, not directors. Although I am not a conspiracy, if I echo a word from the side, I will be guilty. So there are three ways, based on sincere feelings, which are also very important. Fuck too much, second time. Indifference does not mean right or wrong, secondly.
Speaking of meanness, even if you hold it right, you can't start from yourself.
Anyone who is down-to-earth will speak during the recess.
People who hurt and destroy customs, though dear, will also stay away from customs. Those who are upright and virtuous, though they do a little, will approach them.
Good people are solid and amiable, but you can't understand them, so you can't worry. The wicked can be rare, but they can't go far, so don't rush away.
Villains are like tigers, wolves, snakes and scorpions. The strength of the tiger and the wolf, in the shape of a snake and scorpion, is known to be enough to harm oneself, so avoid it and prevent it. The villain's heart is like a tiger and a wolf, his appearance is sinister, his thoughts are like snakes and scorpions, and his words are harmonious. People don't know that he will hurt himself and kill them.
Call someone nice. I'm fine. Why are you jealous? Call people evil, and I have evil. How can I destroy them?
Cover up people's kindness, or write modestly. If we hear people's mistakes and spread them, or branches and leaves are more guilty, we will offend ghosts and gods and our party will stop them.
When it comes to human feelings, there is only thinness, and people only think about evil. This is a private idea, and their own family is a villain. The ancients complained about others, and every time there was a mistake, they didn't ask for a solution. This is a careless and arrogant question. Scholars have figured it out, and each has its own taste.
The ancients had many meanings of loving others, and today's people have many meanings of being immoral. Love, an old friend is easy to make up, I am often kissed, and my homework is easy. The wicked, the old friend, has always hated me, so my words will not enter.
It is really hard for people today to trust the ancients. If we feel modern people with the sincerity of the ancients, modern people may not be under dolphins and fish.
When a powerful person is impressive, I must not put on airs or stay away from him.
Being able to handle things, being able to handle things, being able to handle things is called Dudley. It's called talent. This is called long-term consideration, knowing its coming but not knowing its coming, starting from the beginning and ending, and changing according to the situation. This is called knowledge.
People are afraid of the authorities, and ten is not enough for five onlookers. A wise minister is dazzled by gains and losses, and his courage is also stimulated by gains and losses. Without the heart of gain and loss, the voice will lengthen. This heart is like a bystander. What's the matter?
The two gentlemen don't argue, but they also have to make way. There is no dispute between a gentleman and a villain, and tolerance is great. There are two villains arguing, but people who know villains.
A gentleman can't stand it, but can't stand it, can't stand it, can't stand it, can't stand it, can't stand it, can't stand it, can't stand it. Therefore, patience is helpful.
A gentleman who thinks too much and doesn't keep his ambition, talks too much and doesn't keep quiet, and has many talents and doesn't accumulate virtue.
Courtesy, honesty and shame can be self-disciplined, but you can't bind others. Too much self-discipline and too little restraint on others. Widowhood is not the way to integrate into this world. Therefore, a gentleman blames himself, while a villain blames others. Those who have enough virtue are modest, and those who have enough wealth are contemptuous.
When you hear good words, you must worship, tell them, you must be happy, and you have the spirit of a saint. Sitting in a secret room is like a thoroughfare, and controlling your heart is like six horses. Can be avoided. If the heart is unclear, there is no way to see, and if the will is irregular, there is no merit.
Harmony with others, tolerance with others, forgiveness with others, the way of a gentleman.
To love your wife is unfilial. In order to protect your wealth, you are unfaithful. If you blame yourself with other people's hearts, you are a widow. If you forgive others with your own heart, you will give it all.
Wealth alone is enough to gather people, self-discipline is enough to convince people, breadth is enough to win people, and leadership is enough.
Rebellious officials and thieves are all cultivated from a proud word.
Only the right self can turn people into others, and the best self can serve others.
Don't say that you are not kind, the kindness of good people is good. Don't say that you are evil, but that others are evil.
Don't do what you want, and don't say what you want.
Whether things can be done or not should be judged by reason. It makes you angry, but it's bad.
A land of wealth and color will be avoided far away, and it will be polluted near.
Living with bad neighbors and sitting with bad friends can be prudent and also the capital to enter Germany.
When doing good deeds, you will feel tired in your chest, and when reporting, you will feel tired in your mouth.
Anger is easy to arouse, and indignation should be suppressed; It's easy to be crazy when you are happy, even if you say something, be careful.
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