the first happy event: to be no.1 time.
(in ancient times, it was the champion. If you pass the exam, are you still unhappy to death? Fan4 jin4 just won a juren, and he was so happy that he was crazy. )
the second happy event: the wedding night.
(There is only one chance in life (I mean generally, the conservative kind). Relatives and friends have come to congratulate each other, watching the person they love finally belong to them, and thinking about tearing them up for life. How sweet! )
the second happy event: meeting an old friend in another country.
(far from home, working and living in a foreign country, no one knows. You can only step by step on your own. But who would have thought that I saw a good friend in my hometown in this place. How many hearts are a little square. )
There are three pains in life
One pain: you can't get it, so you are miserable.
(I can't get it, so it's painful. On weekdays, in the complicated world, I constantly look for and pursue. For example, feeling, liking someone, trying to pursue, but falling into the traditional love triangle or love in four corners. There are always some regrets, dissatisfaction, and resentment. Is it true that Yue Lao signed the wrong line and made a mistake in marriage? Maybe what you can't get is always the best. In the later life, there will always be a figure in my heart. If you work, you are conscientious and meticulous, hoping to have your name in the next evaluation, but the expectation has brought disappointment, so the disappointment is all over your body. You do injustice for yourself, complain about the injustice of heaven, and even slander others. The whole life seems to be spent in sorrow. )
The three happy events in life are the details of the three happy events in life.
Two pains: You got it, but that's all, so you feel pain.
(I got it, but that's all, so I feel painful. We often say: "The contented are always happy". However, in modern society, people's demand is increasing, and it is often that one mountain looks at the other. Such as power, when you can't get it, do your best. When you get to the top, you realize that the height is not very cold, so you sigh, it's still good before, but now you have less leisure and freedom, and more sorrow and indifference. Only then can I understand that the life of high power is so much. Such as feelings, many poems and stories, all perform sad love songs. Zhang Sheng in Yingying Biography forgot the vows of eternal love, and he hoped to get married with wealth. Jin Yan West in "Golden Powder Family" tried its best to pursue Leng Qingqiu, and finally it was inevitable to separate. )
three pains; You gave up easily, only to find out later that it was so important in your life that you felt pain.
(Give up easily, only to find that it is the most important thing in your life, so you are miserable. As we often say: "Why do you always know how to cherish after losing it?" Such as relatives, perhaps because of misunderstanding or other reasons, you hate your relatives, or your grandmother, or your parents. So in their lifetime, they are always unwilling to forgive them and refuse to recognize each other. And on his deathbed, he repents bitterly and grieves in vain, so it is not uncommon for a child to want to raise and not wait for his relatives. For example, lovers may have heard the saying, "I once had a sincere love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it. If someone can give me another chance …", true love can't be forgotten. Giving up easily is not only the pain of one person, but also the pain of two or even three people. I spent my whole life in regret. Maybe I no longer have love in that life, but only for him or her.