What should children do if they are lazy and don't like learning and homework?

Most children are interested in coming into this world, full of enthusiasm and diligent study. However, some children are not like this. They are usually lazy, have no interest in learning, lack enthusiasm and initiative, and are listless in class. They either tilt their heads, or lie prone on the table, don't take notes, delay their homework, or "cut corners" to deal with errands. The most difficult thing to deal with this kind of child is that tofu falls from the ashes of the fire, and it can't be beaten or photographed. How to treat these lazy children who don't like learning? In the interview, we found that a motherly teacher has a skill.

She transferred the lazy child and several diligent and enterprising good companions to another class, and told the teachers in this class in front of them that these good companions with great learning potential were selected and sent to your class as leaders. Under the "supervision" of teachers and classmates in the new environment, the lazy child dare not relax and be lazy any more. Instead, follow the example of the companions who come together everywhere and take the lead in everything. Sure enough, he seems to be a different person, studying hard, being strict with himself and making progress in his studies.

If this loving mother is not a teacher, how can she make lazy children diligent? We also interviewed another loving mother. Once, a teacher came to visit her home. After the teacher left, the caring mother seemed to have nothing to do, but she said, "Your teacher came and said that you are smart and receptive. If you can be diligent and strict, your academic performance will be improved. Hey, did you do your homework today? " Without consent, he went on to say, "haven't you done it yet?" Never mind, I bought a new exercise book. The old one is no longer used and I don't have time to read it. Let's do it again. "Under the patient guidance of this loving mother, lazy children dare not be lazy and do their homework seriously. I handed in my homework at school the next day and was praised by the teacher. When I tasted the sweetness, I changed my appearance, from "little slacker" to "gold without exchange"

These two things have used a psychological adjustment method, and many things have been grinded. These loving mothers have good intentions. Things are repeated, and it is impossible to completely change a lazy child overnight. Our loving parents are very "vigilant" and use the following methods in the process of educating these lazy children who don't like learning.

First, I often tell stories about my efforts. As for the "little slacker" who doesn't like learning mathematics and throws away his exercise book as soon as he sees a math problem, he often talks about the diligence of Yang Le, a famous mathematician in China. He insists on calculating math problems every day, and sometimes the number of math problems reaches as many as forty or fifty. In high school, he spent 1000 hours, read many Chinese and foreign math books, and calculated 1000 math problems. When I was in college, I worked with another mathematician, Zhang Guanghou. He insisted on calculating 12 hours every day and worked hard on basic skills. For the "little slacker" who doesn't like learning Chinese, first read Du Fu's poem: "Reading is like a book, writing is like a god." Later, he told the "little slacker" about Du Fu. He abandoned his official position and drifted from place to place, but he was still diligent in writing, leaving many famous articles for future generations. The deeds of these diligent and clever scientists and great poets touched the "little slacker". They also learn to record their calculus exercises with notebooks; I also insist on reading a Tang poem every day, and some famous words often stay in my mouth.

The second is to let the school assign less homework at a time. If there is less extracurricular practice, the "little slacker" will have time to find something he is interested in, so that he will not get tired of his homework and will not cause a vicious circle. On the contrary, he will take care of it. Little slacker has a free world. Under the guidance of loving parents, he reads the books he wants to read and does the exercises he wants to do. We created this harmonious atmosphere and environment, and everyone made progress. How to make "little slackers" willing to lag behind and dare not think about being lazy?

The third is to encourage and praise more. No matter how lazy they are, "little slackers" are self-motivated, confident and self-respecting. They all want to be affirmed, praised and praised. So we should encourage and praise them, even if it is a little progress. Encouragement and praise are like injecting new vitality and catalyst, which makes them mentally satisfied, produces emotional pleasure and positive emotional experience, thus gaining the desire to continue to make progress and making "little slackers"