As the saying goes, a toad wants to eat swan meat, which means an unrealistic dream.
Jia Rui, a native of Jia Dairu, was born in a poor family and died young. He was raised by his grandfather Jia Dairu. I'm in my twenties, I'm not married, and I haven't won the imperial examination. I just helped my grandfather and served as an unofficial teaching assistant in Jia family studies.
As a teaching assistant, Gary is also incompetent. In the words of the book, "It turns out that this Gary is the meanest and most unruly person. Every time at school, he would blackmail the children to ask him; Later, he bought some money, wine and meat for Xue Pan. The former Xue Pan was a bully. Instead of keeping his appointment, he helped others please him. " Use a little power in your hand to abuse power for personal gain. The so-called cannibalism is short-handed, because Jia Rui is not serious, so he has no prestige, and the children at home don't listen to his discipline. In addition to these personality reasons, Jia Rui has no management ability and can only be a peacemaker when encountering things. In Family Studies, Jin Rong, Qin Zhong and others clashed because of jealousness and jealousy, and even Baoyu's pages joined the fight. In the face of the school storm, Jia Rui was unable to stop it, and the situation gradually escalated out of control. Finally, in order to make peace and clarify his responsibilities, he ordered Jin Rong, a student on loan, to kowtow to Baoyu and Qin Zhong, who were really powerful.
Jia Rui, such a mean person, took a fancy to Wang Xifeng. Who is Wang Xifeng?
Wang Xifeng, born in a famous family, is the royal family who "the East China Sea is short of white jade beds, and the Dragon King invited King Jinling", and her husband's family is the Jia family who "white jade is the golden horse in the hall". As a princess, friends are all children of noble birth. When he married Jia Jia, he became the actual "housekeeper" in Fu Rong, which can be roughly regarded as the executive CEO of a large group with four or five hundred employees. When he was an assistant curator of Ning Funeral Home, he was the man of the hour who was in charge of two groups at the same time.
Jia Rui and Wang Xifeng, regardless of their family background or experience, can be said to be the difference between clouds and mud, and the class gap cannot be bridged. From this perspective, Gary fell in love with someone he shouldn't have loved.
Jia Jing's birthday, for Jia Fu, is a modest thing. Jia Zhen, as the head of the Jia family, likes ostentation and extravagance and excitement, which is just a fair banquet. As the younger brother of Jia family, although Jia Rui is a sideline, he is also invited.
As an older unmarried young man, Gary should still enjoy attending such occasions. On the one hand, you can go out justified. Grandfather Jia Dairu is very strict with Gary, so whenever he goes out, he must report to him in advance and be allowed to go out. Jia Dairu must have been invited to the birthday party, so it was approved; On the other hand, eating some delicious food, drinking some wine and bragging with brothers in the same family can take the opportunity to relax, which can also be regarded as an adjustment to the usual rigorous study.
While eating, Jia Rui came out and happened to meet Wang Xifeng, who had just visited the Ningfu Garden. It's autumn, which should be the season to make people angry with Qiu Si. However, it may be that Gary can't stop drinking. Suddenly, I saw a beautiful woman, Wang Xifeng, with excessive hormone secretion. Suddenly, I couldn't hold it and broke through the original boundary.
According to ancient etiquette, there are many taboos between uncles and sisters-in-law. Since we met by chance, we should say "greetings to my sister-in-law" and leave. This is not only the etiquette of reading sage books, but also the consciousness of being a sideline for the weak. However, Jia Rui, who has sperm in his brain, suddenly broke through the boundary and began to lift Wang Xifeng quietly. Say what two people are predestined friends, eyes see a lot of places that should not be seen, and stay for a time that should not be stayed. As your wife, Wang Xifeng is courteous and courteous. Whether she hates it or likes it, her face is polite.
Speaking and listening, adults have adult speaking routines. What did Wang Xifeng say before she spoke? The family is not afraid of young people. In fact, all this is just talk, and it can't be true. Just like many times people say "invite you to dinner another day", you don't have to break the ice and ask the exact date. However, Gary doesn't know if he really doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand. He naively believed that what Feng said was true.
From autumn to winter solstice, during this time, Jia Rui went to see Xifeng several times, but he happened not to meet her. Since there is such a long window, Jia Rui should combine the comments of Jia Fu and others ("Just because I heard that my sister-in-law is an interested person, I can't be wrong in front of you") and think carefully about whether his ideas are too much. And Gary, who is obsessed with three things, is still immersed in the wonderful fairy tale he weaves. He offered tea to Wang Xifeng, which showed everyone's courtesy and was regarded as a footnote to Xi Feng's intention.
Jia Rui swore in front of Wang Xifeng, who pretended to be flattering: "If I lie in front of my sister-in-law, it will thunder. ..... Now it's very painful to see my sister-in-law talking and laughing. Why don't I come? I am willing to die! " So, on the first "date", Gary experienced a night of direct flow in the winter hall, but the cold did not play its due warning role. On the second "date", Gary was lucky. The monkey said anxiously, "Come, come, come and die!" " . This time, Wang Xifeng recruited helpers Jia Rong and Jia Qiang to make a fool of Jia Rui. I was splashed with shit and fined 120 silver. The third "date", since I dare not see Wang Xifeng in reality, I can only see Wang Xifeng in my gentle village. The less you get, the more you want. As a result, Jia Rui finally died because of excessive masturbation and heavy thoughts, which can be regarded as fulfilling the oath of "I would rather die than surrender".
Although Jia Rui, who is terminally ill, ate dozens of pounds of herbs, it still didn't help. At this time, the lame Taoist brought a romantic treasure refined by the police fairy to treat evil thoughts. As a door-to-door salesman, the lame road flyover said it would work wonders, just for three days. Easy to operate, just pick it up and look in the mirror. It's just that Gary didn't use it strictly according to the instructions of the goods. He did not restrain his evil thoughts, but completely released his desires, and the result was a refined death.
Can Yue Feng Baojian really save Gary? I don't think so. At best, this is an expedient measure to save the poor and cure the disease without saving lives.
From the family background, Jia Rui's parents died early and lacked parental care. Although my grandfather brought me up, after several generations, I can't take the place of my parents. Jia Dairu hoped that Gary could achieve something in his studies by strictly restricting going out and urging him to study, but neglected other aspects. Jia Dairu, an old man, probably has no consciousness or ability to guide and guide the budding sexual consciousness and restless hormone secretion of youth.
Judging from the channels of persuasion, Jia Rui is in his twenties and has not married a wife. It is likely that his family is not good on the one hand and his conduct is not good on the other. But in any case, Gary's sexual obsession is beyond doubt. However, this kind of sexual repression lacks channels of persuasion. On the one hand, there is a lack of justified husband and wife life; On the other hand, strict discipline limited his alternative acquisition. Similar to the grounding order, he can only get communication and comfort with women from his grandfather's vision. Jia Baoyu can secretly try to have sex with xiren, Jia Lian, Jia Zhen and even Xue Pan can have sex outside, Qin Zhong can get some nun's knowledge from a nun, and even Baoyu's servant Yan Yan can occasionally get something from the maid at home. Gary didn't have any of this.
Judging from his life experience, Jia Rui is a young man in his twenties, and he can't compare with Zhen Yinshi, who has experienced the world. Therefore, Jia Rui will not choose to see the skeleton that proves the illusion of the world, but can only devote himself to endless desires. On the one hand, the desire is expanding, on the other hand, the export is cut off, and Jia Rui can only be swallowed up by his own desire, or even perish.
Jia Rui is a tragic figure, and personal tragedy and social tragedy coexist. He chose a woman he shouldn't love. He tried to cross the class gap, but he was smashed to pieces. He is one tenth of all people who can't get a happy family life. For various reasons, they can only face loneliness and youthful agitation alone. Some people have survived, and they can smile indifferently in the future; Some people didn't survive, left deep scars, became abnormal psychologically and embarked on the road of various tragedies.