Some people say that knowing how to put yourself in the other person's shoes is a sign of kindness and a sign of high emotional intelligence.
Zhang Ailing once said, "Because you know, you are merciful." . And: "knowledge" is the difficulty of understanding and thinking for others. Everyone has unknown difficulties and sorrows. Only by putting yourself in others' shoes can we understand the difficulties of others, see more sides of the world and leave more beauty.
Su Shi and Wang Anshi, two literary giants in the Song Dynasty, have different political views, but this problem does not affect their getting along at all. They still drink and write poems under the moon like friends.
Once, Su Shi put it in Wang Anshi's house, and Wang Anshi was not in the house. It happened that Su Shi saw a sentence in Wang Anshi's new poem: "The bright moon calls in the sky, and the yellow dog falls into the heart." Su Shi sneered after reading it: "Can the moon call? How can a yellow dog fall into a flower heart? " He revised the new poem without considering the feelings of others. Later, Wang Anshi impeached and exiled Su Shi. On the way to exile, Su Shi found that in remote areas, the yellow dog in the local population was a worm and the bright moon was a bird, so he realized and regretted misunderstanding Wang Anshi. Imagine that if Su Shi had not rewritten Wang Anshi's poems privately, he could have taken into account his feelings, thus maintaining their friendship and avoiding exile. Therefore, it is very important to learn to put yourself in other people's shoes and consider other people's feelings.
The more a person knows kindness, the more he can have the most beautiful meeting.
People who can put themselves in others' shoes all the time in life will be cared for by the years and treated gently by others in the future.
Do you have such people around you? Maybe their looks are not so outstanding, maybe they are unknown in life, but their popularity is very good. Because they have a special charm, which comes from their understanding and kindness to others.
The factor that can determine the height of a person's life is never appearance, nor knowledge, nor wealth, but his kindness from the heart, and he knows how to treat others with care. Who doesn't like to associate with such people?
In the vast world, everyone has his own journey, but when he goes forward, he can still see the difficulties of others and is willing to lend him a hand. Isn't this a life practice?
Therefore, we can have nothing, but we can't lose goodness; We can pursue some things, but we can't ignore others. Understand the feelings of others. To be a man, the most important thing is to stick to your inner kindness and know how to treat others from other people's perspective.
In this case, the world will be vast and the world will spend a full moon.