Ask everyone! What if I fall in love with a monk?

After reading it, I feel very sorry: there is no way. I only knew that she was an admirer of a teacher before, but I didn't expect this. I can't express my honesty, love and trust to her. I only replied to her: Don't fall in love with a monk. When reading Chronicle of the Old Monk Xu Yun, I always feel that the people closest to Master Xu Yun are the most bitter, especially when I see the poems written by his wife, I always feel inexplicably moved and moved. Monks are based on Buddhism, and today's society has developed information and convenient transportation. Based on Buddhism, many female Buddhists become "fans" of a teacher, and male Buddhists become "Kuanfen" (Kuanfen is my name), which is very idolized. Just a large number of "fans" may make people who love uneasy, let alone anything else. The mage is not a star, so why should believers be fans? It is a great responsibility for a mage to quit his job and become a monk, to love, to practice inaction and to be a city abbot. We can't pester him with all sexual problems anymore. If you accidentally fall in love with the mage, it's not too late to turn back as soon as possible. Otherwise, please see: 1 Are you willing to have an unrequited love forever? A famous and powerful mage, a kind-hearted mage who practices bodhicitta, can't be secularized with you, which means that you will always guard that lonely love, love alone slowly, die painfully, come back to study in the afterlife and taste the pain and experience of this life. 2. Would you like to be a shadow in pain? Falling in love with a mage is like eating a bitter fruit, which is hard to swallow and spit out. You will always be a shadow, unknown, and spend the rest of your life in pain. Are you willing to bear the charge of breaking the law? Seducing a mage is an act of breaking a monk. It is a great sin for a mage to break the law with his own body because of you. The mage can't stand the temptation until he proves the arhat. That's why the Buddha made so many rules to protect everyone. Are you willing to find an incompetent husband? Monks practice as their profession. He lived a life of monks. He is not used to competition and doesn't know how to make a living. He feels that it doesn't matter if he eats better, and it doesn't matter if he has more money or less. He can't think about family life, he advocates the freedom of the soul, and he lives a constrained life at home. After all, traveling around is his old job. Therefore, you should worry about everything at home, and you can't expect him to give you good advice. For example, if you let him choose where to buy a house, he will definitely choose a place with beautiful scenery and away from the noise, but he didn't consider the trouble of inconvenient transportation, let alone the impact of being away from the city on his life. You didn't know until you were fooled that he was still a monk at heart. Can you stand it? Falling in love with a mage is really a very painful and lonely road. You can only chase his back from a distance, look at him silently, miss him silently, love him, worry about him constantly, worry about him, but you can only hide in the deepest part of your heart forever. How deep your love is, how painful it is. You can't expect him to give you anything, not to mention that he will love you deeply, even if he was destined to be sad with you in his last life. He will only hide in his heart, even resist and deny his feelings for you in his heart. He won't admit it frankly, let alone say it frankly. You can guess from time to time whether he really loves you. Just thinking about it will make your heart very painful. If you really love him and can't extricate yourself deeply, it will be more painful not to see him, even if you can't live, then love him silently! If you really love him, you have to accept everything that includes him. As big as his world is, you have to be, or even bigger, because then you can accommodate his world and his world. You have to understand that he is a mage, and he loves all sentient beings, just as the sun shines on all things in the world. He is not your own, don't try to monopolize him. He has great ideals and career. If he wants to promote Buddhism and spread the world, you should understand and support everything about him. This is extraordinary love. You must confirm whether your love is so deep ... let him do what he wants to do, make him happy and make him happy, but you must also know that all this is silent, silently loving him and silently paying for him. You have to give up your precious youth, your dream wedding, even the right and pride of being a mother. Your pain has nowhere to pour out, you can only bury it in your heart. Maybe your relatives are firmly opposed to your choice and try their best to force you to give up. Your persistence may make you lose. To truly become a person, everything you have is for him. Without yourself, your love may not be reciprocated, and your efforts may not be rewarded. Maybe he inadvertently neglects or doesn't know it, which will hurt you again and again and sting your heart. When you are alone at night, you will feel very cold and painful, thinking about him, thinking about your own efforts, and thinking about the harm he inadvertently brought you. But I have no regrets, because you love him too deeply, too deeply, to the point of unspeakable, and the blood in your heart flows down with the tears in your eyes. You really want to cry. After a long time, you are scarred, paralyzed and tired of love. Ask yourself if you regret it, don't regret it, because of your true love, because you are doing something beneficial to society and all beings, because you support him, because you think it is worth it. You just quietly drown your sorrows in wine, but your heart is more painful and your tears are quietly flowing. You are drunk, asleep, or smoking quietly.