You can say that, but if you compare flowers, there is also a saying that "you don't know the name of flowers, but you are throbbing". In fact, there are many reasons to like someone, among which the frequency of name triggering is the lowest. There is a classic clip in the movie "Big Fish" directed by Tim Burton. The hero fell in love with the blonde woman at first sight because of an accidental meeting. He didn't know the name of the woman and where she lived. The circus owner knew, but to get news from the boss, he had to work for a month, and he could only get a message about the woman every month. In this way, the man persisted for a long time and finally learned.
In China's poems, there is also an accidental explanation of love, such as "I see how charming Qingshan is, and I expect Qingshan to see me like this." I don't need to know the name of Qingshan, I only know that it makes me amazing, so I should be the same in Qingshan's eyes. This is a self-evident emotional vibration, just like love at first sight between two people in a sea of people. I knew at the first glance that it was not only my love for her at first sight, but also her throbbing for me from her suddenly shining eyes.