After all, hate is ruthless in the sea.

Tang Xuefeng once wrote a poem, "The microwave hates the sea, but the bright moon is merciless, but it's heaven." My mother-in-law and I may be in this state now! Because there is a mixture of children and husbands in the middle, they can only be heartless if they can't abandon them. Maybe they are old. Maybe there are many sad copies of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law these days, so I think of the contradiction with my mother-in-law for the first time after I entered this house. Because I bought the necessary daily necessities alone, I just wanted to have a hot water after work, take a hot bath before going to bed, and have a hot meal every day. I became a unfilial person who went looking for trouble and didn't have the gas. Every day is like madness. I'm running around upstairs and downstairs, enumerating all kinds of crimes, such as why I don't like chatting with her when I enter the door, reading books upstairs all day and cooking for us every day. To tell the truth, I haven't been married for a few days, I don't eat breakfast in the morning, I go to the company cafeteria at noon and sleep at home at night, and I don't know how many meals I've cooked for me. My mother's family doesn't have any dowry, maybe this is the point! I didn't even ask for a bride price. Why should I give you a dowry? I just got out of school, and I was very puzzled when I met this situation. I really didn't know how to deal with it. My husband just made me endure. I just got married, and I didn't want to have too many things, which made my parents worry too much. I thought there was some misunderstanding, so I gave in to my mother-in-law, thinking about not being melodramatic, changing people's hearts over time. I was not good at explaining, nor was I a persistent person. Anyway, I had to go to work, no. Perhaps it is my happy-go-lucky attitude, or let nature take its course, that makes her feel that although I am self-sustaining, I am weak and weak, and I have no support from my mother's family. I have become more fearless and intensified in my treatment! Maybe you want to talk about what your husband is doing. My husband is really embarrassed. His family is a drag. He just graduated from technical secondary school, his father is paralyzed, his mother has no job, and there is a younger brother who is studying. He can only support his family. He can't let them go. This is also the reason why we get married and live so close to our mother-in-law, which is convenient for taking care of each other! I don't know. I graduated from an undergraduate course at that time. Why didn't I think of his family? I didn't think that family of origin would be a permanent irreparable defect. Therefore, I must not let my children get married after finishing school. I must work for two years, see the public's heart, and then solve my own life. I think he will be fine if he is kind to me. We both have knowledge and are young. The college students of that era are not universal, with youthful enthusiasm and motivation to struggle. There are only some Martians left! At the beginning, I also naively thought about those people who are not important and worthwhile to me, and let him adjust and save them. However, with the passage of time, I found that our contradictions have not been resolved, and there are more and more trends. The scene I accidentally saw downstairs made me completely understand that I can't escape this hoop curse in my life, because he and his mother are kneeling and slapping each other, which really surprises me. I have never seen this scene before, and I instantly understand that he can't stand on my side in my life, even if he stands in a neutral position, because He can't ignore his mother's bow to his son, even if it's her mother who is wrong. It's her mother who makes trouble without reason, and people's hearts are getting so cold. Maybe my indifference to all of them after many years is also exchanged from her indifference again and again. Those who always believe in not explaining are calm, and those who are not persistent are those who see through. Imperfect is who I am in life. Let me know that I will really meet many people and things along the way, although these things are not important or worthwhile in this voyage. But really let go of each other and be careful! It is also very difficult!