This online hot word has been around for some time. Let's look at the definition of it in the encyclopedia:
"Empty nesters" refer to young people who work hard in big cities. They are far away from their hometown and relatives, living alone, lacking emotional sustenance and family life.
Do some self-views on this "empty nest": First of all, I don't quite agree with this word, although all the definitions about it prove that I am a real "empty nest youth"! I believe that all of you who have experienced the college entrance examination are eager for such a life. "Living alone in a different place, upside down day and night, free and free, is beyond the reach of your parents." The sky is high and the emperor is far away, and the sea is wide and the sky is wide, allowing birds to fly. "At that time, we had unspeakable excitement and yearning for big cities ... looking forward to the life in big cities, whether we were full of expectations for the lights there, and whether we ever planned to look forward to the river and show our talents in that towering glass building.
However, the real life of most young people is not like this. Company-canteen-rental house life is your daily portrayal. Occasionally, the topic of dinner on weekends is the house price of "riding a rocket" (my position in Wuhan has doubled in 15- 16, and the average price in Wuhan has reached "13000"1000. What does the early house mean to ordinary families? I won't settle accounts for everyone (the salary level in Wuhan is very low, and online statistics are not reliable). The key point is here, is high housing prices an important pressure point that confuses you, even after all the "loneliness" and "pay" for it?
Will the quality of life become what you expect? I believe you already have the answer in your heart. Is it that most of our confusion and hesitation come from this!
"Empty nester" is your subjective and active choice, and "empty nester" is passive. They are different! Maybe you can't have a happy girlfriend for various reasons, but you can choose a stupid and loyal dog or a cold and quiet cat as your "companion" and let the "empty nest" go with the wind. Loneliness is the normal state of life-the key lies in how we look at its existence. In fact, it is not difficult to end it. The key is how we choose.