A butterfly emerges from its cocoon, and a phoenix emerges from nirvana. The maple leaves are stunningly bright with frost, and the plum blossoms are fragrant with snow. If you are not independent and blindly live under the umbrella of your parents and blindly ask for their parents' love, no matter how beautiful the butterfly is, how strong the phoenix is, how beautiful the leaves are, or how fragrant the plum blossoms are, they will not be born one day.
It is normal for the road of growth to be bumpy, but most Chinese-style parents are willing to make every effort to help them smooth the road ahead. Is it really right for their children to grow up with pampering?
"The road must be walked by oneself to make it wider and wider." As Madame Curie said, the road must be walked by oneself, and ultimately one must rely on oneself. Recently, a freshman girl asked her mother for 4,500 yuan for living expenses. She felt aggrieved when she was rejected, and admitted that the 2,000 yuan for living expenses was insufficient. This caused a heated discussion among netizens and is worth thinking about. After all, parents' finances, abilities, and energy are limited, and they will eventually grow old and reach the end. Parents are always giving and their children are always demanding, and the situation of being overwhelmed will always come. Breaking out of a cocoon and becoming a butterfly is a story of success in the end as one grows up. However, once there is help from outside forces, although the chrysalis will turn into a butterfly, it will not be able to fly further, see wider, and die earlier. Self-reliance and self-reliance are extremely important, both to silkworms and to you and me.
"He who sheds his own sweat and eats his own food. Doing his own things by himself and relying on people, heaven and ancestors is not considered a true man." Relying on this, Tao Xingzhi became a famous teacher of a generation. The news that "post-2000 college freshmen borrow money from their parents to go to school" has caused heated discussion on the Internet. 00 Fudan freshman Zeng Jianyu told reporters that he had earned part of his tuition and fees during the summer and "borrowed" the rest from his parents. He had a clear plan for his expenses. In addition to daily expenses, I also plan to save two to three hundred yuan a month as a start-up fund, and plan to do program development in college to earn living expenses. Having a clear understanding of your own life, having clear plans for your future, allowing yourself to live with a purpose, not being an accessory to life, but being the master of life, is the perfect embodiment of independence.
In ancient times, men aged 20 and 15 had the responsibility of the family, and women aged 15 and 15 bore the responsibility of the family. In modern times, mama's boys, giant babies... emerge one after another. , and the root of all this lies in the lack of independence, self-reliance and self-reliance. Makarenko once said: "Parents who sacrifice everything for their children with a compassionate heart can be regarded as the worst educators." They break their children's wings to fly, trap them on the paved road, and make them gradually lose their ability to be independent. Children blindly depend on their parents, rely on their parents for everything, and become parasites of their parents, sucking nutrients from their parents. If the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation relies on such "parasites", how can China talk about rejuvenation, and how can the nation talk about being prosperous and strong!
On the top of Cangshan Mountain, you can see the great river flowing; between you and me, you can see self-reliance and self-reliance.
Contemporary young people, let us rely on ourselves in everything, let us be independent and never be appendages of life!