People study hard for three years and are lazy for three days. He who suffers hardships is a master.
A gentleman makes money in a proper way.
When three people walk together, there must be a teacher. Follow the chosen ones, and change the bad ones.
Don't do small favors, don't do small evils.
The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu.
Black hair doesn't know how to learn early, but bald head regrets learning late.
I am proud of my great ambition, and I am proud of my poems and songs.
Get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, and be neat inside and outside. If you are unconscious, you have a rest. If you close the door, you will behave well.
A porridge and a meal, when thinking hard; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. It is better to prepare for a rainy day than to dig a well when you are thirsty.
Self-help must be frugal, and banquet guests must not stay overnight. The utensils are clean and tidy, and the tile is better than gold; The more exquisite the diet, the more delicious the vegetables in the garden.
Don't run fancy houses, don't seek fertile land. Three aunts and six wives are the media of prostitution and theft; Beautiful girls and concubines are not the blessings of the boudoir. Don't be handsome as a servant, and don't make up as a wife and concubine. Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifices must be remembered. Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read classics. The life cycle is simple, and the godson should have an upright side. Don't covet unexpected wealth and drink too much. Don't take advantage of trade with your shoulders. When you see poor relatives and neighbors, you must warm your shirt.
It is most shameful to see wealth and flattery; Being arrogant when you are poor is nothing more than meanness.
If you talk too much at home, you lose. Don't bully others, but bully the weak and fear the hard; Don't be greedy, kill wild birds.
If you are eccentric, you will regret many mistakes; Laziness and self-indulgence are hard.
If you are naughty, you will be bored for a long time; Qu Zhi is old, but if you are in a hurry, you can rely on each other. Mean marriage will not last long; Lun Chang is a good boy and will die soon.
Brothers and uncles must decorate widows more; Young and old, both inside and outside, should be strict with themselves.
Listen to this woman, dear. Is she a husband?
If you value wealth and ignore your parents, you can't be the son of human beings.
Marry a woman and choose a husband, not seeking re-employment; It's not too thick to marry a daughter-in-law and beg a lady.
2. A poem or sentence that describes that the older generation is better than the younger generation.
Ginger is more spicy.
Save the breeze, the pen is strong.
-From where?
He yonglao
Three fairs and two thousand stones such as secretariat and rank.
Life is not enough, but Mercedes-Benz runs fast.
Who can be reasonable when making a toast and get promoted?
Sages and fools are far apart, and karma reflects karma.
Thanks to Zhang Nan's nest, Shi Guan is willing to look for it.
Lang Lang is like a pearl, coming from the spiritual wall.
The monk's room talked about taking off the saddle until the summer heat subsided.
Don't say Sang Yu is late, because it is still full of clouds. Lying staring at the bottom, Lian Chong poked and pulled.
-Excerpt from Bai Juyi's "Resign from the Old Age and Give Dreams"
There are also many wonderful sentences about old age in modern poetry. Zhu De's climb without a stick, take off your hat and enjoy the east wind; Dong's "The older you learn, the less spring grows"; Ye Jianying's "Old people like to sing twilight songs, and the green hills shine everywhere"; Liu Haisu's "The brilliant white hair in the sunset glow needs whipping"; Chen Yi's "The red leaves in the western hills are good, and first frost is thicker"; and the old cow also liberates light.
3. Urgently ask the seniors to plant trees, and the descendants will enjoy the cool.
Interpreting meaning is a metaphor for predecessors to benefit future generations.
Chu Minghu and Huan Wen's "Enjoying Music, Qingqiang Class and Guizhi Fragrant Selection": "If you know the three cardinal guides and five permanents, you will only know that the paddle falls on a round duck egg, the bamboo pole is empty and long, and there is no food in your stomach. The predecessors planted trees, and later generations enjoyed the cool. "
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Wisdom is made without teaching, although it is useless to teach fools, the moderate people do not know without teaching. The ancient holy king had the method of "prenatal education". She got pregnant in March and went out to live in another palace. His eyes are not evil, his ears are not stupid, and his voice is very nice, so he is very polite. The jade edition of this book contains all the essentials of the golden chamber. When a child coughs, Shi Baogu knows filial piety, benevolence, courtesy and righteousness, and guides Xi to treat it. Where ordinary people can't do it, when infants know people's colors and emotions, they will be taught, and when they do, they will stop. Compared with how old they are, they can get away with it. Parents are dignified and kind, and children are timid and filial.
I see love in the world that doesn't teach. If you can't, you can eat and drink, do whatever you want, and refrain from turning over the prize. You have to laugh and be knowledgeable. This is called law. If you are arrogant and slow to learn, you will copy, and if you have no prestige, you will be killed. When anger grows, they will increase resentment, catch up with growth, and eventually be defeated. Confucius said, "If a villain succeeds, habit becomes nature." Yeah, yeah. As the saying goes, "When a woman comes, teach her baby." Honestly.
People who can't teach their children don't want to be trapped in their own sins, but more importantly, they hurt their color and can't bear to suffer. How can Andrew be saved when the disease is an Oracle without the help of decoction? Can those who should also be thrifty and housekeeping be cruel to their own flesh and blood? If you have to!
The strictness of father and son cannot be abolished; Love with flesh and blood, not Jane. Jane doesn't accept filial piety, but she is lazy.
People's love for children, even if it is very little, has many disadvantages from ancient times to the present. A moral person can enjoy his love, but a stubborn person should pity him. People who prefer pets, although they want to be thicker, are more troublesome. A scholar-bureaucrat in the Qi Dynasty said to me, "I have a son who is seventeen years old and quite knowledgeable. I teach him Xianbei language and play the pipa. I want to know a little to serve the ministers. I love them all and they are all important. " I don't answer when I lie prone. Different, this man's adopted son is also! If this industry is conscious, I don't want you to do it.
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Intellectuals can become talents without education, but fools can't make a difference even with more education. It's just that most ordinary people want education, and they won't know if they don't teach. The ancient holy king had the practice of "prenatal education". When he was three months pregnant, he went out to live in another good house. His eyes can't squint, and his ears can't listen to music and eat delicious food. According to etiquette and justice, he must be bound. He must write these on a jade card and hide them in a gold cabinet. When the fetus is still in its infancy, those who act as "teachers" and "guardians" should explain filial piety, benevolence, courtesy and righteousness and guide learning. Even if ordinary people can't do this, we should teach babies to train the sea when they know people's faces and know how to be happy and angry. If they are asked to do it, they won't do it. When they grow up, they can avoid flogging. As long as parents have dignity and love, children naturally fear caution and have filial piety.
I often don't agree with the people in the world who don't educate their children but love them. What to eat and do, indulge children at will, without control, praise when admonished, laugh when reprimanded, and think that children are sensible. It was not until pride and neglect became a habit that we began to stop them. Then no matter how vicious the whip is, it can't establish dignity, and no matter how fierce the anger is, it will only increase resentment until it grows up and eventually becomes a person with corrupt morality. Confucius said: "What is cultivated at an early age is like nature. If you get used to it, it becomes nature." That makes sense. As the saying goes, "the daughter-in-law teaches when she first comes, and the child teaches when she is still a baby." This statement does make sense.
Ordinary people can't educate their children well, and they don't want them to fall into a sinful situation. They just don't want him to look depressed because of being scolded, and they don't have the heart to let him suffer because of being beaten. This is better than getting sick. Can it be cured without decoction and acupuncture? It's time to think about those who often exhort their children. Are they willing to be mean and abusive to their own flesh and blood This is a last resort!
Father and son should be serious and not negligent; There should be love between flesh and blood, but it should not be simple. If Jane is slow, filial piety will not be done well, and there will be neglect of discipline and neglect.
People love children and seldom treat them equally. Since ancient times, there have been many such ills. In fact, smart and handsome people are certainly attractive, and naughty and stupid people are also pitiful. That kind of parents with preferences, even if they want to be nice to him, will bring him trouble.
A scholar-bureaucrat in Northern Qi once said to me, "I have a son who is seventeen years old and is good at writing and playing Zagreb. He taught him to speak Xianbei, played the pipa, and learned almost all of them. Using these things to serve three ministers and nine ministers will definitely be favored, which is also a top priority. " I looked down and didn't answer. It's strange that this man should educate his son like this! If you use this method as a ladder of intimacy, I don't want you to do so.
Why can't they forgive a new person's negligence? "Won't he be young, young, young?" After being reprimanded by the boss, Song threatened again.
Such almost childish words have appeared in the office more than once. There is also "as an elder, why can't you forgive the negligence of a new person!" "I have no experience. I will pay more attention in the future! "... she has graduated for more than a year, and always seems to tolerate her mistakes and ask others for forgiveness.
This makes her colleagues and leaders who are called "elders" quite headache. The star graduated from a famous university, smart and polite to everyone.
In the first few months in the workplace, she got the tolerance and guidance of many people from top to bottom in the unit. Every time she encounters an unsolvable problem, she always asks for advice humbly, and then sincerely thanks, which makes people feel that helping her is simply an unshirkable "responsibility"; If she makes a mistake, she will be the first to admit that she has a chance and avoid unnecessary punishment before the worst happens.
The advantage of this "flattering behavior" is that she has passed many "minor disasters" at work, but the disadvantage is that she never seems to know how to learn from it. For example, in a very routine job, the boss reminded her for the first time, and she nodded and said that she would not forget it next time; The second reminder, she still timidly said sorry; Only when the boss says "I hope this is the last reminder" will she realize the seriousness of the matter, but her coping style is not to keep it in mind, but to complain about this and that, "How can he be so harsh! Give me no mercy! " "Really!" Unlike Xing Er, Fan Xiao is an independent person who has just graduated, and this independence is also regarded as "pretentious" by people in the same unit.
On the first day he entered the company, Fan Xiao regarded himself as a "professional". Even if someone pays special attention to a small probability error, she will directly refuse and then "reflect" deeply. Once there was a mistake in the document for a client, the "senior" comforted her: "This kind of mistake is hard to avoid."
"You just came here, it's not easy to do this." She didn't give herself any room: "No matter how hard it is to avoid mistakes, I will be found, or I will be careless."
"I have been working for a long time, and I shouldn't demand myself by the standards of newcomers." She is so harsh on herself that those "predecessors" who want to make a big splash on the road of bringing new people have no stage at all.
Everyone is a little angry and thinks that Fan Xiao is a difficult person to get along with. Later, it was discovered that Fan Xiao was really not as cute as Xing Er.
She doesn't want to stick to the desk of every "elder" like a star, and she is not used to meeting face to face when every figure floats by, so her cubicle is usually lonely compared to the powerful "backup" of a star. More often, she would rather think alone.
Half a year later, the versatile star found that many important things in the department were given to Fan Xiao, who said nothing, but she was just repeating some routine work and was often criticized. Those elders who were obedient to her and close to her suddenly changed their faces and lost their previous support and attention.
She is still repeating her old role. She didn't realize that the stage in the workplace had changed, and the actors who played opposite her had also changed, so the ending of this scene was bound to reverse.
Every time I meet my "elder", it is a painful cycle. Yu Yang, who has always been frank and frank, has recently suddenly worried about "making excuses" and "lying", which has never happened before. There is only one reason for her deliberate practice, that is, to avoid meeting the elderly in the same unit.
A few months ago, this elder was still a "senior plus elder figure" who she often mentioned intentionally or unintentionally and was infinitely grateful in her heart. When she first came to this institution, Yu Yang was very happy to have a "senior" who had a good relationship with her.
This "senior" is a few years younger than her mother and looks like a modest aunt next door. She is not only a fellow villager, but also studied in the department where Yu Yang graduated. On that day, * * * talked about several teachers in the department, and Yu Yang was ecstatic. The loneliness of just arriving at the unit was quickly disintegrated by this "far-fetched familiarity".
Since then, this "senior in the workplace" has become an "elder in life" who worries about everything for Yu Yang, and naturally assumes the role of "guardian" for Yu Yang. It's the first time to eat at an elder's house.
On that day, the "elder" cooked a lot of dishes with great fanfare, and kept repeating "nothing to eat" and "just make do", which embarrassed Yu Yang. Do think, maybe this is the first time to go home and talk kindly.
However, for the second time and the third time, Yu Yang felt uncomfortable from the inside out, and a little fruit brought with him was also returned by the "elders". This makes Yu Yang feel a sense of loss. Although the income of her new job is not high, she is an independent person after all. She vaguely felt that this kind of communication will definitely not last long.
After the birthday gift bought for the daughter of the elder was returned, Yu Yang never boarded the door of the elder again. She thought, maybe their relationship is more suitable to continue in the workplace.
However, in the workplace, Yu Yang found himself in a dilemma. Every time I send a document or meet my elders because of other things at work, my elders will always pour out: "How are you doing at work recently?" "We must make progress, work hard, publish papers in advance and give questions."
"Are your parents in good health?" "When will you go home to see your parents? Must be filial ... "Do wonder, how with the aunt and mother-in-law at home? Don't treat children like adults! She comforted herself, "It is normal to pay too much attention to new people. It will be good after a long time. " But Yu Yang made a boyfriend, and the elder's enthusiasm for prying into privacy came again: "Where is your boyfriend's home?" What do parents do? What is the family background? ""Do you have any relatives? What do relatives do? " "Be sure to bring his photo next time, and I'll check it for you. "
This attitude of "auditing accounts" made Yu Yang very disgusted. She doesn't want to tell anyone about her boyfriend. She knows that once she tells her elders, it is undoubtedly "telling the world", but it is not the time yet. What annoys Yu Yang even more is that as long as he has work contacts with this elder, sometimes things that can be solved in a simple sentence often take half a day.