1. Famous sayings about loyalty, filial piety, benevolence, justice, etiquette, justice and shame
1. It is rare for a person to be filial to his younger brother but like to offend his superiors; it is rare to find someone who is not fond of offending his superiors but likes to cause trouble. . A gentleman should stick to his roots, and the Tao will be born from his roots. Being a filial brother is the foundation of benevolence! ——Confucius in the Warring States Period, "The Analects of Confucius·Xue Er"
Vernacular translation: A person who is filial to his parents and respects his elders will rarely offend his superior; he will not offend his superior. But there has never been such a person like to rebel. A gentleman concentrates on the basic work. Once the foundation is established, the Tao will emerge. Filial piety and brotherhood are the foundation of benevolence!
2. All kinds of evil are the first, and all kinds of filial piety are the first. ——Ming Dynasty Anonymous "Zengguang Xianwen"
Vernacular translation: Among all kinds of sins, indulgence is the first, and among all kinds of behaviors, filial piety is the first.
3. Filial piety lies in substance, not in appearance. ——Huan Kuan of the Han Dynasty, "On Salt and Iron: Filial Piety".
Vernacular translation: Honoring your elders requires simple and real actions, real respect and love, rather than pursuing some superficial fancy forms.
4. Being a son of man stops at filial piety. Being a father ends with kindness. —— Zengzi's "The Great Learning" in the Warring States Period
Vernacular translation: Children should be filial; fathers should be loving.
5. In the tenth month, the kindness of the fetus is heavy, but in the three lifetimes, the repayment is light. ——"Song of Encouraging Filial Piety" by Xu Xi of the Qing Dynasty
Vernacular translation: My mother gave birth to herself after ten months of pregnancy. This kind of childbirth is a kindness that I cannot repay even in three lifetimes. 2. Poems about etiquette
1. "Xunzi. Fuguo" Shang Dynasty: Rituals are to the country just like weighing the weights and weights, just like the rope and ink are to the straight and straight.
Etiquette is used for the governance of a country, just like a scale is used to weigh weight, a carpenter's black line is used to judge straightness, and a compass and a right-square are used to measure squares and circles.
2. "Book of Rites·Jingjing" Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty: Rites are to the rule of the country: just like the balance is to the light and the weight, the rope and ink are to the straight and straight.
Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing the country is actually the etiquette and law for governing the country, just like a scale is used for weighing the weight.
3. "Xunzi·Wangba" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The reason why etiquette governs the country is that it is like a balance to weight, and a rope and ink to straightness.
Etiquette and law are used to weigh the governance of a country, just as scales are used to weigh the importance of the country.
4. "Xunzi·Dalue" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: Rituals are to an upright country, just like weighing is to weight, just like rope ink is to straightness.
Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing the country is actually the etiquette and law for governing the country, just like a scale is used for weighing the weight.
5. "Qunshu Zhiyao Jingjie" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The husband's etiquette is also to the country. It's still a matter of weight. Rope ink is about straightness and straightness.
People must abide by the basic principles of implementation. If a person loses his place of standing, he will surely fall and perish.
Etiquette is a universally recognized code of conduct that is agreed upon by people in terms of appearance, appearance, manners, rituals, speech and behavior in order to respect each other in social interactions. Etiquette is a general term for etiquette, politeness, manners and rituals.
Reference materials: Sogou Encyclopedia - Civilized Etiquette 3. Poems describing etiquette
"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up."
——— "The Analects of Confucius" .Ji Shi》
A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others.
———Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
Courtesy should be reciprocated. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go.
——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1"
Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image.
——Goethe: "Affinity"
One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make man be dominated by form in his purely material life, and to make him beautiful in beauty. Become an aesthetic person within the realm of what the kingdom can achieve.
———Schiller: "Books on Aesthetic Education"
Politeness is the art of choosing from one's own true thoughts.
——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele"
Politeness makes polite people happy, and it also makes those who are treated politely People rejoice.
——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws"
Nothing is lost by being polite, but everything is gained.
——Mar. W. Montague: "Letters"
Etiquette is the smallest but most stable norm among all norms.
———La Rochefoucauld: "Moral Proverbs"
Politeness is the flower of fraternity. People who are not polite cannot be said to have philanthropic thoughts.
——Joubert: "Collection of Famous Quotations" 4. Poems and sayings about politeness
●Though etiquette can calm people down (Joubert)
●Title The bigger the family is, the more complicated the etiquette is (Tennyson)
●Life is short, but despite this, people still have time to pay attention to etiquette (love sacrifice)
●If etiquette is If you look higher than the moon, you will lose the sincere trust between people (Francis Bacon)
●Etiquette is to add a layer of decoration on top of all his other virtues to make them more important to him. It is effective to gain the respect and favor of all those close to him (Locke)
●Holding a grand funeral is not so much to mourn the deceased as to satisfy the vanity of the living (Locke) La Rochefoucauld)
●Human faces have never looked so worldly as at funerals (Jo Edgeworth)
●If a person pays attention in the street Observing the activity, I believe he will find the happiest expression in the hearse (Jo Swift)
●What people value most is the privilege, even the privilege of conducting a funeral (Jen La ·Lowell)
●Rituals are the ultimate form of humanity (Xunzi)
●To govern the people in peace, one must not be good at etiquette (The Classic of Filial Piety)
●Tao is used to inform virtue, and unity is promoted by etiquette (The Analects)
●If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t establish it (The Analects)
●Rituals govern the country, determine the country, and order the people People benefit heirs (Zuo Zhuan)
●Etiquette is the scripture of heaven and the behavior of the people (Zuo Zhuan)
●If people are rude, they will not be born, and if things are rude, they will not be born. If it fails, the country will be restless if it is rude (Xunzi)
●If people are polite, they will be safe, but if they are rude, they will be in danger (Book of Rites)
●Rituals are used to perform righteousness, and righteousness is beneficial. Benefiting the common people is a major part of government (Zuo Zhuan)
●Rituals, justice and integrity are the four dimensions of a country. If the four dimensions are not open, the country will perish (Guanzi)
●Providing food and clothing to enrich the people's livelihood, etiquette and justice To nourish his heart (Yuan·Xu Heng)
●Rituals and righteousness are born from wealth, and theft is born from poverty (Han·Wang Fu)
These are just references, etiquette is born from the heart. Warning: As long as you remember to be worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth, and do not do anything that is unkind to your heart, it will be fine. No one is a sage, and he must have a tolerant and understanding heart. 5. Shameless poems
"Qi "A man has one wife and one concubine"
Original text: If a man of Qi has one wife and one concubine, and his beloved comes out, he will feast on wine and meat and then rebel. If his wife asks him for food and drink, he will be rich and honorable. His wife told her concubine: "When a beloved man comes out, he will feast on wine and meat and then turn back. Anyone who asks for food and drink is rich and noble, but no one has come. I will take care of the beloved man's place." When fleas arise, Shi is a good man, and there is no one in the country who can talk to him. When the deceased died in the palace of Dongguo, the sacrificers begged for the rest; if they were not enough, they would take care of them - this is the way to satisfy themselves. When his wife returned home, she told her concubine, "A beloved man is someone you look up to for the rest of your life, and this is what you are doing now." He and his concubine talked to her beloved man and wept together in the courtyard. However, her beloved man didn't know it, and the charity came from outside. , proud of his wife and concubines.
From the perspective of a gentleman, the reason why people seek wealth and success is that their wives and concubines are not ashamed, but it is rare that they do not cry with each other.
6. Poems about politeness
The person who is polite is the ultimate in humanity (Xunzi)
●In order to govern the people, one must not be good at etiquette (The Classic of Filial Piety)
●Tao is used to inform virtue, and unity is promoted by etiquette (The Analects)
●If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t establish it (The Analects)
●Rituals govern the country, determine the country, and order the people People benefit heirs (Zuo Zhuan)
●Etiquette is the scripture of heaven and the behavior of the people (Zuo Zhuan)
●If people are rude, they will not be born, and if things are rude, they will not be born. If it fails, the country will be restless if it is rude (Xunzi)
●If people are polite, they will be safe, but if they are rude, they will be in danger (Book of Rites)
●Rituals are used to perform righteousness, and righteousness is beneficial. Benefiting the common people is a major part of government (Zuo Zhuan)
●Rituals, justice and integrity are the four dimensions of a country. If the four dimensions are not open, the country will perish (Guanzi)
●Providing food and clothing to enrich the people's livelihood, etiquette and justice To nourish his heart (Yuan·Xu Heng)
●Rites and righteousness are born from wealth, and theft is born from poverty (Han·Wang Fu)