1, one parting has two widths, each in its proper place. -From the Tang Dynasty's Agreement on Letting Wives Go Unearthed in Dunhuang Grottoes.
Appreciating this should be the best way for marriage to come to an end-harmony and separation, so that we can get together and separate.
Since we can't last forever, let go of each other, let go of entanglement, accept the blessing of our predecessors and say goodbye. It is open and perfect.
2. Wen Jun has two meanings, so he will go to the end. -Han Zhuo Wenjun's Whitehead Song.
I heard that you have two hearts, so I've come to break up with you. This ancient poem is suitable for saying when a man is cheating.
When he was found to have two hearts, as his official queen, he could not lose his elegance and manners. Let him know that I can live a rich life without you. If you want to like those sluts, I can give you the air.
If you still love me, please stay; If you don't love, please walk out of my life completely.
3, return the tears of your pearl, hate when you don't meet and don't marry. -Tang Zhangji's "Female Fu, Send Dongping Li Shidao"
Thank you for your return. Tears filled my eyes. It's a pity that I didn't meet you before I got married. this
This poem was not originally written about love, but it was also used to express love in circulation.
Meeting the right person at the wrong time and saying that there is no resentment in your heart must be duplicity. Blame it.
I can only blame myself for meeting you late.
Love is vigorous and life is dull. When you have to break up, you must say goodbye to each other.
4. When the back door enters the sea, it is a passerby-Jiao gives a poem to the girl.
Appreciating the content of this poem is about the sadness that one's beloved person was taken away.
In real life, what we often call "long-distance love" will make us lose the person we once loved.
How can I forget the person who disturbed my heartstrings? It's just that after separation, everyone I fall in love with is just like you.
I will never think about it, so don't think about me either. -Xie Ximeng's "Bu Operator" in Southern Song Dynasty
Appreciate that this is the representative of unfeeling feelings in the farewell poems of men and women.
This ambitious young man finally got a firm foothold in Beijing, and suddenly one day he missed his mother, so he resigned, packed his bags and set foot on his way home. A singer found it, chased it to the river and cried herself, so Xie Ximeng wrote this farewell poem.
I have always been superficial, but I have deep feelings. Don't go now and never meet again. I won't miss you and you won't miss me. From now on, you are just a passer-by to me.
6, meet in the grave, not against today's words. Southeast Fly the Peacocks; The Peacock Flies Southeast
Appreciate that classmates can't be together and meet each other after death. This is the last dialogue between Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing. The final ending has been written, doomed to be a tragedy, and both of them are double suicide.
(Voice-over: Bian Xiao doesn't advocate this kind of moth-to-fire, reckless love view ~)
How much love is leisurely and uncompromising, and how much separation is heartbreaking and painful! However, without life, how can there be love? What is debt? Leaving with dignity has lived up to these years.
7. From now on, don't be lovesick, and you will never be together if you are lovesick! -Han's "Thinking" is anonymous
Appreciate that from now on, I won't miss you any more, and I will break up my relationship with you! This poem shows a woman's complex emotional expression before and after the ups and downs of love in the first person. Make a clean break, how to refuse! I have to admit that thousands of years ago, such a simple farewell was rare.
After a long separation, people who are familiar with each other at first will gradually become strangers, so if your heart is not with you, please break up happily.
8. This situation should last for a long time. If you don't mean it, I will have a rest.
The origin of this poem remains to be verified. It is said that Zhang wrote it! After loving someone, the other person is still indifferent, so give up frankly, because feelings can't be forced. This is the dignity of love and the fulfillment of each other.