When we reached the lowest point, a friend jumped and said that everyone jumped. When we feel the lowest point, our life begins to climb.
Although it is a joke, it is really inspirational. It is really like this on the road of life.
Sometimes I feel desperate to the extreme, maybe it's time for the peak to turn and the peak to turn in life.
Otherwise, Lu You could not write a poem that has been sung for thousands of years, such as "the mountains and rivers are boundless and there is another village".
The lowest valley in life is often a turning point in life.
In fact, everyone's life may experience a trough, and sometimes the trough of life is not necessarily a bad thing.
On the contrary, this period of time is an exercise of your will and body and mind, and may even become a turning point in your life.
When you are at the bottom of your life, don't panic, don't touch around because you can't find your direction for a while. This is very easy to go wrong.
The greatest wisdom in life is not how to make yourself smarter, but how to make yourself more rational and calm.
Often at the lowest point, it is actually the time when things turn around. If you can hold your breath and bear the burden on your shoulders at this time, then your explosive power in the future must be immeasurable.
Fate is fair to everyone. Life can't be smooth sailing, it will always make you rise and fall and accept the test of life.
Once upon a time, I watched a movie "city of angels". It was about an angel who fell in love with a surgeon and suddenly fell in love with her because she was helpless when she couldn't save the patient.
However, even if an angel has the function of penetrating people's hearts through walls, even if he is omnipotent in this world, he is transparent after all, but the other party cannot feel his temperature.
Because the angel of love decided to let himself fall freely and become a person, when he finally realized his idea, he found that all the special functions possessed by the angel were completely gone, and he was no different from an ordinary helpless person.
He found the woman he loved, and they were together sweetly. It would be perfect if the story happened here.
But the next morning, when the woman came back from shopping happily by bike, she died in a car accident.
Nothing in life is perfect. There are times when you stand at the peak of happiness and days when you are at the bottom.
Therefore, after the pain, the angel chose to accept it frankly and face it bravely.
He found a job, and like any ordinary person, he endured the pain of losing his lover while working hard.
In fact, each of us is the same. We learn to accept when we are in the trough, and at the same time, we calm down and seek a new way out.
If you abandon yourself, belittle yourself, or fall into pain at this time, then the opportunity that may belong to you will slip away quietly.
However, if you have dreams, are full of hope for the future and remain calm in times of crisis, then you may overcome yourself and become a winner in life.
In fact, nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. No one will always be cared for by fate, and no one will always be spurned by fate.
Life is like the ebb and flow of the tide. When there is a peak, there is bound to be a trough, so if you are in a trough, you should learn to treat it objectively and calmly.
You know, everything will eventually pass, and through this difficult time, we will inevitably usher in the light of life.
Remember not to do these things when you are at the bottom of your life.
Don't decide for yourself easily.
Some people are extremely hurt after falling in love and are addicted to pain.
In fact, when a love has no reason to continue, breaking up is the most responsible way for each other. However, people are not vegetation, and sadness is certain. At this time, they are at the bottom of their feelings.
How can we get out of this painful time? Suggest that the best way is to accept a brand-new love.
But in fact, this decision is the most wrong. People often want to catch a life-saving straw between ups and downs, but it is really hard to say whether this straw can save lives.
Never advise anyone to forget the last paragraph with another lover when they are lovelorn. This is actually unfair to each other. If the wound can never heal itself, it will only make him fall into the pain of reciprocating cycle.
Life is the same many times. Don't make important decisions easily at the most difficult time, because this road may not be feasible. The real thing is to change things slowly before you can act.
Don't lose heart.
The darkness before dawn is often the most painful.
It's really a pity that many people almost saw the dawn, but chose to give up. If they hold on a little longer.
Of course, it is difficult to understand your inner pain and confusion without being in that state. However, since ancient times, the sky has fallen to a higher position, not to suffer from its mind, to strain its bones and muscles, and to starve its body and skin.
Although suffering is a stumbling block to life, from another perspective, it is not the experience of life.
Learn to analyze yourself.
The trough of life is often the best time to reflect on yourself.
When people are at their peak, it is difficult to calm down and comb themselves well. Because everyone is human, they will be carried away by desire.
At the peak of life, everyone has had a feeling of arrogance. At that time, even if there were suggestions, it was hard to listen.
The trough is an opportunity to calm yourself down. Only in this way can you realize your own shortcomings, what you are good at and what you need to improve further.
Learn to take on your responsibilities.
Maybe when you are proud, you have many friends around you.
However, when you fail, they may leave and leave you alone.
This is the normal state of life. Sometimes you know that as long as someone can help you, you may be able to tide over the difficulties, but he just stands by and watches the fun.
It's actually quite normal. Why should others help a loser? They would rather be attached to a successful person.
When you are at the lowest point in your life, it is actually a time to preserve your ability and distinguish between yourself and the enemy. If you can shoulder your responsibilities, it will be a rich life experience for your future.
It's normal to have lows in life.
Everyone has worldly desires and may be influenced by everything. Failure is not terrible, what I am afraid of is blindly sinking in pain.
You know, if you don't save yourself, who else will help you?
The trough is often the turning point for you to get back on your feet. During this time, you should firmly believe in your own strength, think deeply about yourself, and determine the future direction. When the opportunity comes, don't hesitate to seize it.