In this world, there are only a handful of truly successful people, and most people still live in mediocrity. However, a large part of these people don't want to be mediocre all their lives. They hope to change their destiny through hard work, but they can't find a way out.
In the story of fate change, many of them are similar to winning a million dollars, or accepting a huge legacy, or being valued by some big countries, and have made great achievements since then.
However, the story is a story after all, and there will be no pie in the sky. Even if the pie falls, believe it, it won't fall on your head.
In life, opportunities to change your destiny are all created by yourself, and waiting for the rabbit will eventually starve to death. That kind of good luck will only appear once in a lifetime, or even not at all.
So is it really difficult to change your destiny? Not exactly. I once heard a famous scholar say: In fact, the way to change our destiny is difficult to say and easy to say. In fact, it is in front of us every day. As long as these three things are done well, life will definitely change. ?
Study hard.
Reading breaks thousands of volumes, and writing is like a god.
Reading was once the only way for poor ancient people to change their fate. Now, although there are more ways and means, reading still has infinite power.
Endless learning is an indispensable part of a person's life and death. Learning is a kind of ability purification, a kind of self-improvement and an upgrade of consciousness.
What we have learned is not only a kind of spiritual knowledge, but also survival skills and problem-solving methods.
I have seen an interpretation of learning knowledge: the poorer a person's knowledge, the more he has an inexplicable courage and an inexplicable pride. Because of his lack of knowledge, the more he believes absolutely, because he has never heard the opposite view. ?
At first glance, I really think that people who don't know are fearless, but a flawed plan will only fail even if it is done in the end. A knowledgeable person will have a more dialectical judgment on the problem and make enough plans before taking action, which will get twice the result with half the effort.
Work hard.
Someone once said: the workplace is not a hunting ground, let alone a sinister hunting ground, but a life and death field. It is a field of life as well as a social field, and we all have to spend half our lives with it. He is a necessary condition to decide whether you can live a decent life.
Personally, I think that hard work has created money and value for us, and we can get as much glory as we have the ability and do.
Dong Mingzhu, the head of Gree Electric, was just an ordinary business manager and a single mother when she first joined Gree Group. Now her position can be said to be an underground one.
However, she believes in her own destiny and is her own master. With her sureness, hard work, courage, intelligence, selflessness and a little luck, she has achieved the present Gree Group and herself.
Some people may say that the change of Dong Mingzhu's fate is only a special case, but the special case is more worthy of our study. Compared with windfall, this special case is more realistic. Life without hard work is not worthy of success, and hard work is always the best shortcut to change life.
Learn to be healthy
I have a friend who is only 22 years old and has alcoholic hepatitis. Another friend, 25 years old, suddenly fainted after dinner because of a sudden cerebral infarction.
These hospital terms are basically geriatric diseases, but the patients are getting younger and younger, which is closely related to the fact that contemporary people overdraw their lives and exchange health for personal short-term happiness.
Staying up late, drinking and overeating, but lacking exercise, people in their twenties and thirties, their bodies in their sixties and seventies, have been half buried in the loess before they really exert their strength.
The older generation said: health is the capital of revolution. Health is half the battle. Only by learning to take care of yourself early can we have more energy to improve ourselves and change ourselves.
Studying, working hard and keeping healthy are actually things that people often do every day. It's not difficult to do it, but it's hard to stick to the word.
You can think for yourself, how long did you insist on these things at most? A week? A month? A year?
And people who insist on different times will definitely have different final results. Persistence will form a habit, which will not only benefit from these three things, but also gain a lot from other things.
For example, I have been writing for more than a year now. During this year, I actively read a lot of books because of my writing. The increase in reading not only gave me more inspiration in my life, but also made my work more and more smooth. At the same time, I also understand the meaning of health.
Communicating with friends is no longer swearing, but quoting classics; Writing documents to leaders is also eloquent and valued; I look forward to communicating with readers every day; Willing to travel to more places, accumulate materials and so on.
It may be difficult to persist at first, but if you persist, you will find that you get much more than you pay, and your satisfaction and sense of accomplishment will increase.
There is only one life, and the way to change your destiny is here. If you stick to it sincerely, life will open a different color from now on, even enough to change the world.
If you don't persist, people will follow suit and live your life in a muddle, then life is like an ant, and it is the same to the world with or without you.