My son is 20 years old. He is only addicted to online games, does not communicate with others, and has a loud temper. How to treat it
In the 1990s, people talked about banning television sets.
In the 1980s, people talked about banning martial arts novels and romance novels.
Going forward, during the imperial examination era, apart from the Four Books and Five Classics, the classics and history were all idle books, which could not be seen, read, written or passed on.
Don’t think that online games are the main cause of a child’s dark future. What really affects a child’s future is his self-control.
If you just blindly yell at online games, cut off the Internet at home, lock the computer at home, and monitor the whole process of going to and from school to prevent him from having the opportunity to secretly go to Internet cafes and play online at the same time. , online and offline calls for the banning of Internet cafes and crackdowns on the development of online games seem to be creating a "healthy and progressive" growth environment for children.
But, finally one day, he was lucky enough to be admitted to college as you wished and went to another city. You will find that your nightmare has never been far away.
So how do we master "degree"? I heard that there is a very popular parental control software called "Chicken Daddy Home Control" recently. You can set entertainment and study time; you can set the mobile phone program lock; you can set the mobile phone notification sound to provide effective reminders. I don’t know if it’s useful. I downloaded it from Baidu for my children and tried it. It doesn’t cost any money anyway. I hope it will have some effect. What should I do if my son is twelve years old, tired of studying, careless in reading questions, and addicted to online games?
Try to join the metamorphosis program. In fact, as long as the later thinking is correct and does not go astray , don’t be too harsh. In fact, I am pretty much the same, but entering the society without a diploma is a bit worse. People can never be addicted to online games? How to say.
Playing games is just for entertainment, don’t be addicted. For example, I will go to the Enjoy Game Community when I have a break. People who play games should learn to regulate themselves. . Why do people become addicted to online games?
Most people who play online games are friends who have failed in real life
Of course, some people play for leisure ( The specific manifestations are: occasionally playing online, not paying much attention to the property in the game, and rarely cheating others. These people are basically relatively normal players)
Of course, there are also some people who are online for 8 hours a day. , cares very much about things in the game, and likes to deceive people to get the best things. He can deceive any friends, including real friends. This kind of person is quite abnormal, and is often very unlucky in real life, not popular, and autistic. The kind that cannot be satisfied in reality and have to vent on the Internet, so they are trapped and unable to extricate themselves)
Generally speaking, games are very tempting for students
< p> As for addiction, it basically depends on the fact that students are still young and lack control over their own self-control ability. It is normal for students to be unable to extricate themselves, and students will also experience boring learning in their study life. The sense of boredom will also be in contrast to the wonderful online world that games bring to you. In addition, students in online games can get a sense of satisfaction that they cannot get in real life. For example, if you are good at playing in it, you can become a professional. The boss who knows, it’s cool, and other reasons have caused students’ addiction. Nowadays, parents’ doting on their children also has some factors. If you want money, you can spend the last day in an Internet cafe without any problem!You are now If you want to study hard, you must first clarify your goals, get into a good high school, a good university, find a good job, and then you will naturally have a good wife. The ultimate goal is to have a better life in the future. Wonderful, the wonderful in reality is completely different from the wonderful in the illusory world~ How to set a goal, then you have to weigh your own strength, ask your father or yourself to write a big word "Strive" and hang it on you It is quite difficult to quit using the computer in front of your desk. At this time, you should let the reward of learning motivate you. If you put the time of online games into studying, the progress should be obvious. By then Your classmates and teachers will all feel that you are very different from before, and that feeling is quite good. For the sake of your future, you should put the computer aside for the time being~~ It is okay to play and relax on the weekends ~~ Suggestions for people who are addicted to online games
My friends must be serious and carefully read what I say and write! (*^__^*) Hee hee...friend! The root cause of addiction to online games comes from reality, dissatisfaction with reality, and a state of avoidance. Both are caused by family factors. Indeed, playing online games can bring people happiness, relaxation, and a sense of accomplishment. , satisfaction, relieve stress, broaden horizons, temporarily numb reality; playing games is not scary, the scary thing is addiction, addiction, remember that games are played by people, not games played by people, games are used for recreation and entertainment It's for leisure, for experience, it's temporary... Secondly, I think the real thing about being addicted to online games is that you really don't fully understand the purpose of playing this game? ! In modern society, people who do not access the Internet will be discarded by the trend. They are people who are eliminated and are not fashionable at all.
But there is no harm in surfing the Internet. You must be good at discovering, exploring new understandings, and getting in touch with new things. Don't just play with one thing blindly. Being addicted to online games plays a big role in understanding knowledge. It is recommended to go to reality more, travel more, read more real news online, get in touch with real society things more, practice more, and go to SOSO more. , go to Baidu more, get a girlfriend if you can, get together with real friends more, chat, play cards, drink some wine, KTV, it’s time to be distracted; now I tell you that if you really don’t want to indulge, you should rely on Yourself, only you can help you. Everyone must face reality all the time. You, me, and others must face reality and look at things and people, such as games. Only by looking at reality can we truly understand this. Something on the other side of where it is! The Internet is always virtual, and reality is far greater than virtuality. That is to say, the game you are playing now is awesome, and you are also in the game in X Set of ideas, let you go through it step by step, (I will give you an example of a certain game! For example: The official website of this game announces such and such a day of the week and what day of the month. The team, or an individual, goes to such and such a map to explode the big monster, how much is it worth in RMB? It's very tempting, remember that as long as the game developer snaps a finger, you can easily get the so-called attractive RMB that this monster explodes, and the developer can also snap a finger instantly and let you stay up all night to play). In online games, don’t even think about listening to what the game’s official website says about killing monsters and earning tens of thousands of yuan. That’s their way of making money. Finally, my friend, I wish you can get rid of addiction as soon as possible! O(∩_∩)O~~
I am also 20 years old and already working. I will not be addicted to the Internet. I want to prevent addiction.
What does the original poster mean? .
Anti-addiction?
When registering an account, did you fill in the ID card for the account information?
Fill in your real ID card,
Then it will be solved automatically, unless you fill in the Please enter your little brother’s ID card, otherwise it will be solved automatically
If it is not filled in, fill in your own ID card
Because if you do not fill in your ID card, the system will preset you as Unknown adults.
A lot of nonsense. How to stop being addicted to online games?
Find another thing you like to do, or make your work busier. I like to play, but now I am too busy with work and have no time to play. Basically, let him do it in a month He doesn’t even play anymore, he finds it boring. If you are not too busy at work, find some sports activities, such as playing ball or something. My son is 21 years old. He is addicted to online games. He spends all day and night in Internet cafes. He has no intention of doing anything but sex.
He must have spent a lot of money in Internet cafes. His parents will take him out. Take a long trip and slowly guide him to know how people should live. Talk to him sincerely and understand whether he has encountered any setbacks in his heart, because teenagers who suddenly become introverted are often due to frustration in love or social problems with classmates and friends. Talk to him sincerely and let him put down his guard against his parents and express his inner pain. Then no matter what the reason is, parents should not be angry, but decisively agree to tide over the difficulties with him. Only by resolving the knot in his heart can he cheer up and leave online games. My son is now 12 years old and addicted to online games all day long. How can we correct these bad habits?
Today's children are precocious and rebellious. If they are not allowed to play at home, going to an Internet cafe will be even worse. It’s better to communicate well. You can travel during the Chinese New Year and sign up for interest classes. Judging from his interests and hobbies, he felt that there was something more interesting than the pile of information on online games.
Why do people become addicted to online games
Most of the people who play online games are friends who have failed in real life
Of course, some people play for leisure (specifically The performance is as follows: occasionally playing online, not paying much attention to the property in the game and rarely cheating others. These people are basically relatively normal players)
Of course, there are also some people who are online for 8 hours a day. He cares a lot about things in the game, and likes to lie to people to get the best things. He can lie to any friend, including real friends. This kind of person is quite abnormal, and is often very unlucky in real life, not popular, and autistic. That kind of person, who cannot get satisfaction in reality, has to vent on the Internet, so he is trapped and unable to extricate himself)