For the son-in-law's New Year greetings, parents-in-law are hospitable. I hope the son-in-law will take good care of her daughter at ordinary times.
This custom of going back to my parents' house on the second day of the Lunar New Year is to let my married daughter go home to visit her parents, and also to provide a chance for their married daughter to get together. Sisters who haven't seen each other for a long time are out of the house, and this day they get together to catch up.
Therefore, the New Year's Day has become the real Spring Festival Evening Day, and many people will choose this day to take a "family photo".
As the saying goes, "an uncle and a half son", the son-in-law should chat with the old man after the reunion dinner, listen to the teachings of his parents-in-law, take the initiative to invite his parents' brothers and sisters to his home, and then leave for home.
Going home is also called going home in northern China. This is a unique custom of China 18 years old. Every year, on the second and third day of the first month, daughters married by compatriots all over the country have to go back to their parents' homes, and husbands have to go with them, so it is commonly known as Wedding Day. ?
Take a present when you go home. This is called holding hands or accompanying hands. A big bag of biscuits and candy must be arranged by the mother and distributed to the neighbors, just like the scene of the New Year. If there are many daughters at home, and these daughters don't come back on the same day, then we must share one at a time. The gift is quite thin, just four biscuits.
But it reflects the deep affection, the real "courtesy is light and affection is heavy", and expresses the girl's miss for the villagers. When the girl goes home, if there is a nephew at home, menstruation has to pay again. Although she gave lucky money on New Year's Day, this time it had a different meaning.