Once upon a time, we had an innocent and pure childhood, a lively and enterprising teenager, a passionate youth and a hard-working prime of life. Once, we had great ideals and long-cherished wishes in life. Growing up, I experienced too many ups and downs. For the happiness of the family, for the value of life, for the dignity of living, we have paid and been sad; We lost it, we got it. We have no regrets, we are willing. Now, on the road of getting old, we need to be kind to ourselves, treat life with optimism, treat others with a broad mind, don't care, don't complain, and live happily and comfortably every day.
Life is stormy and the years are vicissitudes. We have experienced joys and sorrows, joys and sorrows, hardships and hardships, and we are getting old in age and body. I won't be reconciled to it again, and I won't recognize it. After all, I have already passed in the sunset. No matter how carefully we care and dress up, after all, it has entered dusk. In the eyes of others, it doesn't matter how we are, what matters is that we love ourselves well. Sunset, infinitely beautiful, only near dusk. Only cherish life, live well and treat every day of the rest of your life well is the most important thing.
The sun rises, the moon sets, spring comes and winter goes. With the growth of rings, we unconsciously passed through the beautiful years of life. Looking back, the long and stormy road of life left two deep and shallow footprints. That is the footprint of our life, where the past of yesterday's life is engraved. In this bustling world, everyone is for the benefit, for the benefit, it can be said that human feelings are warm and cold, and the world is cold. Hard work is mixed with tears, and hard work is accompanied by unwillingness. For our long-cherished wish, we have been working hard. Now, when the temples are frosted, when the forehead is engraved with wrinkles, when dreams become fantasies, when youth becomes sunset, when the footsteps become slow, when the sunset is sprinkled on the river, when we stand in time, we are no longer ourselves. What kind of feelings are there in our hearts?
Don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's comments, we ask ourselves from time to time, are you happy? Do you live comfortably? Are you in good health? Is your family harmonious? Is your child worried? Are you stable in life? Are you carefree inside? If you can do this and be kind to yourself, you will laugh happily and brilliantly. Go your own way and let others talk. We live by ourselves, and we don't need others' understanding, and we don't need to show it to anyone. In everything, it doesn't matter whether others are good or not, as long as you have a clear conscience towards others.
Whether life is good or not, whether people are happy or not depends on themselves. It's important that people are alive. Don't care too much about what others think. We are not RMB, how can everyone like it? The important thing is that we are no longer young and should take good care of ourselves. The greatest happiness in life is good health. If you are healthy, you can enjoy a good life without causing trouble to your family. We should believe in ourselves and cherish ourselves. As long as we live, we will not feel inferior, and of course we will not try to be brave. Calm, free and easy, optimistic and upward.
Reality is too cruel, life is too complicated, and there are always unimaginable things; In the complicated world and unpredictable people's hearts, unexpected things will always happen. Peace of mind requires determination and indifference. Zheng Xie, a poet in the Qing Dynasty, put it well: "I insist on green hills and never relax, and my roots are in breaking rocks. A thousand blows are still strong, and the wind is east, west, north and south. " Yong Zhengdi in the Qing Dynasty recorded Emperor Kangxi's motto "Courtyard motto". There is a motto called "Calm mind is naturally cool", which tells us to learn to "sit on the Diaoyutai regardless of the storm." Chairman Mao once said, "No matter how stormy it is, it is better to take a walk." If people have such a mentality, they will live happily.
In life, modesty is a virtue, and playing dumb is wisdom. Born in the world, live in it. Only in this way can we taste the happiness of life and enjoy the beauty of life. Sometimes, don't think you've seen everything. You know, the hardest thing in life is never guessing people's hearts. As a man, you must learn to be modest, never too old to learn. Modesty is a virtue, and playing dumb is wisdom. In this life, the real maturity is indifference, and the real enjoyment is to be kind to yourself. Learn to let go and learn to retreat. Let go to be free, and retreat to broaden the horizon.
People worry too much because they insist too much and want too much. No one is satisfied. Desire will only destroy our steady pace of life and make people lose their original self. In life, Zhi Zhi seldom knows shame, is satisfied with what he wants, and always knows who he is and what he wants. Learn to be kind to yourself. If you are tired, stop and have a rest. If you can't go on, don't insist. People live with peace of mind, meditation, peace of mind, happiness, no worries, no corrections, no worries, and simple peace is the most beautiful life.
Learn to be optimistic, don't care about other people's opinions, just follow your own heart, everything doesn't matter, you know yourself well. Don't be sad because you are old, and don't be disappointed because of gains and losses. We have pursued for most of our lives, struggled for most of our lives, and worked hard for most of our lives, feeling sadness, happiness, dedication and harvest. Life is to practice in the wind and rain, grow up in hardships, be happy in self-love and know how to be happy. People should learn to be kind to themselves and life, which is the real meaning of our life.
Life is short and things change. We should learn to give up, know how to choose, know the meaning of happiness and know the true meaning of happiness. In the vast sea of people, each of us is like every different leaf in the world, each with its own merits. It also flows slowly like a beautiful stream. In such a fast-paced life, it is important to stop busy steps, learn to be kind to yourself, and live quietly and happily. The years passed silently, sitting quietly in the tunnel of the years. We have repeatedly thought that the truest happiness in the sunset of life is to learn to be kind to yourself.
How can we treat ourselves well? Some people think that being kind to yourself means eating, drinking, dressing, living and playing well. Of course, these physical aspects are indispensable. If you can make yourself happy, have a good mood and a healthy attitude, then you are really kind to yourself. Otherwise, even if you have a lot of money and eat delicacies, what is the point of these things if your health is getting worse and worse and you are unhappy?
Life is too short to come and go. In life, everyone wants their family to be happy, and everyone is pursuing happiness every day. But in life, not everything can be satisfactory, there will always be all kinds of problems and troubles. All my life, I don't know how much helplessness there will be, and I don't know how many grievances there will be. However, we only have such a precious life. If we think about it, we have nothing to be unhappy about. All the troubles and sorrows, gratitude and resentment will eventually disappear. What entanglements we can't let go of and what blockages we can't resolve in our hearts.
To be kind to yourself, you must live easily and freely, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, and accept what should be endured. Only in this way can we live a self full of personality. Be kind to yourself, and you won't be too demanding and expect too much. It's yours, you can't hide it; If it's not yours, you can't have it. Why bother yourself and rack your brains?
We should live in our hearts, not in the eyes of others. Many times, we are unhappy because we care too much about other people's eyes, comments, interests, identity and face. Be kind to yourself, don't have as much as possible, don't take all the benefits as much as possible, don't take advantage of it, don't lose, and don't surpass others, whether it's true or not. Be kind to yourself and never punish yourself with other people's mistakes. Life is so beautiful that we have no reason to waste precious life complaining and hating others. Because of individual differences, people will inevitably have different attitudes and lifestyles. It is better to manage your life than to waste time blaming others. We can't change others, we can change ourselves, and even turn a blind eye to things and people that affect our mood.
Be kind to yourself, don't let yourself live too tired, and know how to relax yourself. After all, life is not acting, so you don't need to put on too much powder. Hypocrisy is not true, you don't need to wear a mask to "take part in accidental amusement". In life, there is no need to exaggerate your identity, relationship and level. This is a real world. This is a world without faith except money and status; This is a world that doesn't care about killing for profit; This is a world where people will not be fooled no matter how boasted; This is a world where there are more and more smart people and fewer and fewer fools. No one will trust anyone easily. To be kind to yourself, you must return to your original heart, keep smiling, and be free and easy at all times. This is an honest and chic life.
Be kind to yourself, happiness is the most important thing. Have a peaceful mind, a healthy body, do what you like to do, and better realize your value. Only by learning to love ourselves and be kind to ourselves can others feel happy from us and we can have a happy life ourselves.