To put it in a popular phrase this year, "there is no quiet day, but someone carries a heavy load for you."
Yes, living in the contemporary era of peace, we only know that the present life is harmonious and happy, but we don't know that the present harmony and happiness are the efforts of those who abandoned their families to save us. They also want to talk and laugh with their families, but when the country needs them, they will not hesitate to abandon their small families and fight for the country. This is the great hero we should worship.
You can't have your cake and eat it. When everyone and family need themselves, I think most people will choose the former-defending everyone and putting everyone's interests above their own.
In real life, there are many such cases. Under the persuasion of Touchdragon, Queen Zhao sent away her beloved son and gained national stability. Huo Qubing Xiongnu has not been destroyed, why is it home? Yu Min, the father of China's hydrogen bomb, gave up his basic research and remained anonymous for 28 years, engaged in hydrogen bomb research; This pile, one by one, shows the dedication to the cause of the country.
Faced with this problem between everyone and family, we should show awe to those workers who work in the front line. When we meet the need to choose between two, I believe most people will have a steelyard in their hearts.
As Valdes said, "Take the happiness of others as your own happiness, give flowers to others and keep thorns for yourself". This spirit is worthy of our lifetime experience.