Life is always accompanied by gains and losses, there will always be gains and losses. This is the law of life. We neither favor wealth nor despise poverty. We love all living beings equally.
Every gain must come with a loss, and only with a loss can there be a gain. Whether a champion on the field, a winner in the business, or an elite in the workplace, every successful person has put in a lot of sweat, tears and hardships before and after winning applause, laughter and flowers. This means: there will be no pie in the sky. The fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold. A hard work, a harvest. If you sow melons, you will reap melons; if you sow beans, you will reap beans. So, unless you don’t want to “gain”, don’t be afraid of “losing”. If you plant beans, don't expect to get melons. If you don't pay at all, don't expect anything in return. Earnings are obtained without any effort. Gains are accidental and losses are inevitable. Sooner or later, they will be lost again.
Gain comes from loss, and there is always gain after loss. The success of today's career is inseparable from yesterday's hard work; the hard work now breeds a harvest in the future; maybe you spend money, but what you get is peace; maybe you sacrifice yourself, but what you win is People's hearts. As the saying goes: scenery is long and you should take a broad view. Heaven pays off. What is lost is the mulberry tree, and what is gained is the east corner. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. Life is fair and just to everyone. As long as you are willing to pay, you will eventually be rewarded. You can't get what you deserve to lose, and you can't get what you deserve to gain. If something is lost here, there must be something gained there. Even if the cooked duck flies away again, it will fly back one day and can be recovered after being lost.
It is difficult to have both gains and losses, and you must think twice about choosing. If you yearn for the pure land of Buddhism, don't miss the world of mortals; if you stay away from the hustle and bustle of the city, don't envy the feasting and feasting; if you long for a gold medal, you have to endure the pain of a cold window; if you advocate celibacy, you have to endure the loneliness. This is called: when the moon is cloudy and sunny, waxing and waning. Sugar cane is not as sweet at both ends. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Gains and losses are ruthless, and choices are righteous. You can give up immediate interests, but you can't give up the pursuit of life; you can give up fame and fortune, but you can't give up personal dignity; you can lose glory and wealth, but you can't lose your humanity and conscience. If you give up what you shouldn't lose at will, it will be a real loss that outweighs the gain.
Winning and losing are ordinary things and cannot be violated by the laws of nature. The more you disregard gains and losses, have the courage to sacrifice, and are willing to contribute, the more generous rewards society will give you; the more calm you are about gains and losses, not surprised by honors and disgrace, and have no intention of staying or leaving, the more often life will make you gain and lose equally; if you worry about gains and losses, and care about everything, You have to fight for every penny you have, and nine times out of ten, "you can do whatever you want, and you will get nothing if you draw water from a bamboo basket." If anyone is greedy, pushes for an inch, and wants to look at Shu, sooner or later, "one mistake will lead to eternal hatred, and he will have no choice but to go to the guillotine." This means: Man's calculation is not as good as God's calculation, and Heaven's principles cannot be deceived by others. If you gain the right path, you will get a lot of help, but if you get the wrong path, you will get little help. what goes around comes around.
The gains and losses in life are nothing more than fame and fortune. "The bustle in the world is all for benefit. The bustling world is all for benefit." Although Mr. Sima Qian has said this long ago, fame, fortune and wealth are ultimately external things. If you don’t bring it with you in life, you won’t take it with you in death. Hard to gain, easy to lose. Therefore, although all living beings may not be able to become sages regardless of personal gains and losses, at least they should not take fame and fortune too seriously in life, and they should not be burdened with gains and losses throughout their lives.
Note: Facing gains and losses calmly, neither being happy nor crazy about gains, nor being sad about losses, letting everything take its course, and living a life of ups and downs with ease is also a rare and valuable attitude towards life, and it is a life that not everyone can achieve. Realm