In this book, you can see the sinus of the black Boss aura, the red C aura, the white queen Bian, the purple elegant aura, the blue intellectual aura, and the size of the yellow first impression aura.
People have all kinds of aura, whether it's Mr. Zhang's intellectuality, Zhang Ailing's talent or Lin's elegance, they are all unique aura, which exerts a subtle influence on people's thoughts, states and opinions, determines people's way of doing things, and even affects people's life direction.
In today's society, intellectual elegance has become synonymous with attractive women. To be more attractive, intellectual elegance is essential.
First of all, intellectual elegance is a powerful aura. When we are dealing with a person or a thing, if our gas field is higher than this person or thing, we can hold this person or thing and let ourselves take the initiative.
On the contrary, if our aura is lower than one person or one thing, we will be in a weak position and let ourselves be passive.
Secondly, the intellectual and elegant atmosphere can attract more people with the same frequency. Dr. Pique Faye of the United States once said, "A strong gas field is a person's sense of existence and attraction, and it is an unparalleled aura on him."
A person with a strong gas field, when his thoughts are concentrated in a certain field, people, things and things related to this field will be attracted by him, so his probability of doing things will be much higher.
I have attended several of her reading sessions. When sharing good books, she can talk and ask for quotations in Kan Kan, Kan Kan. When presiding over reading and sharing, she is elegant and calm. Every time I see her, there are many people like her around me, and she can always be the most dazzling one.
Less than three days after her promotional copy was issued, her WeChat reading group was full. Many people in the group are her former classmates, friends and colleagues. Everyone knows her well and recognizes her. Therefore, as long as she calls, everyone is willing to actively join in.
This is the utility of powerful gas field, because everyone knows her and likes her, so she has established a good personal brand among her friends. Everyone is willing to follow her as long as she appeals.
Finally, we can cultivate an intellectual and elegant atmosphere. Intellectual elegance seems illusory, but it is actually a skill that can be cultivated.
As the saying goes, "The road you have traveled, the books you have read, the people you have loved and the losses you have suffered are written on your face."
The road you have traveled, the books you have read, the people you have loved and the losses you have suffered will not be wasted. They will eventually internalize into a part of your body and externalize into a part of your aura.
Li Xiaoyi, the author of this book, believes that intellectual elegance is characterized by:
Purple "elegance" aura: purple represents modesty and restraint, as well as great willpower. The disadvantage is that the rhythm is slow, which easily leads to mood swings.
Blue "intellectual" aura: blue represents calmness, concentration and rationality, erudition and versatility. The disadvantage is that it is too self-disciplined and dull, too calm and ruthless.
Women with purple "elegant" aura are characterized by emotional stability, being able to maintain a peaceful mind and choose their own behavior under different circumstances.
After marrying Emperor Yang Di, she accompanied her husband through various ups and downs of life. After the demise of the Sui Dynasty, she was able to take it in stride and survive in troubled times with her young grandson.
In prosperity, she can look up; In adversity, she can bend and stretch. After experiencing more turmoil and anxiety, she can always maintain emotional stability, which is a woman's most valuable quality.
Women with blue "intellectual" aura are knowledgeable and versatile, regardless of external evaluation, not influenced by outsiders' eyes, and insist on their own correct choices. They live quietly and confidently.
Even if she married a scholarly family like the Wangs, her talent was not buried at all. Debate prevailed in Wei and Jin Dynasties, and whether the debate won or lost was related to one's reputation and future. Once, Wang Xianzhi, the top scholar of the Wangs, quarreled with guests at home and was about to lose.
At this moment, Xie Daowen stepped forward. He accepted Wang Xianzhi's point of view and continued to argue with the guests. She was quoted by others, and what she said was reasonable. Other guests candidly admit defeat, and she also won back face for her husband's family.
As Dong Qing said, "I always believe that all the books I have read will not be read in vain, and it will always help me to perform better in a certain occasion in the future." Xie Daowen's rich cultural heritage has won her more respect.
Later, her husband and son died in the war. However, instead of indulging in grief, she devoted herself to writing poems and still lived a decent life. She never goes against her original intention, but goes her own way, regardless of external evaluation, and lives peacefully and satisfactorily.
Human nature always wants to fight for right and wrong, paying too much attention to the external evaluation system and ignoring the inner feelings. It is the confidence that women in the blue "intellectual" gas field can truly "be themselves" without interference from other thoughts.
The intellectual and elegant gas field is the pursuit of everyone and women. No matter in good times or bad times, they can treat it with a normal heart, do a good job of themselves and enjoy life calmly.
Of course, no woman's aura is single. Many times, we need to choose different gas fields to face according to different scenes. We can take the gas field of a certain color as our "basic color", and on this basis, make the best choice by fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses.
Therefore, knowing what kind of aura you are suitable for, taking this aura as your "main aura", and then making corresponding adjustments according to different occasions, I believe we can all become more attractive women.