I've been sad all day. My daughter is getting married.
Today, she will travel as a bride and ride a canoe up the river.
Your sister lost all her mothers when she was a child, and I am doubly kind and gentle.
My sister was raised by her since childhood, and today they bid farewell with tears.
Faced with this situation, I am very depressed. It is rare for a female college girl to stay.
You lack the lessons of your childhood mother. My mother-in-law's service worries me.
Fortunately, relying on your family's good family, trust and compassion can't be wrong.
It is my consistent proposition that the poor are happy to see, and the dowry can be very balanced.
Look at your filial piety and respect for your elders. All manners and manners should conform to the trend.
We are leaving this morning, and I don't know when we can see you.
Sadness can vent itself when I go home, and the mood of parting is breaking out.
When I came home to see my lonely daughter, sad tears rolled down the ribbon.
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Sending a young girl is the work of Wei, a poet in the Tang Dynasty. This is a poem to send her daughter to get married and express her sadness. The poet lost his wife in his early years, leaving two women to live alone. When the eldest daughter got married, she was sent out to travel, and she was urged to do so; Pity them and exhort them again and again. This poem is sincere, full of tears, compassionate, unpretentious and vivid.
To annotate ...
⑴ Yang's daughter: refers to the family where her daughter marries Yang.
(2) yongri: all day. Sadness: sadness.
(3) good: get married. Youyou: It's far away.
(4) Back: Upstream.
Fifth generation: You mean two daughters. Innocent: when I was a child, I didn't have a mother.
[6] Your sister showed it to you: There is a note below this sentence: "Young girls are raised by Yang." It refers to a little girl brought up by her sister.
(7) knot: the sadness in my heart is depressed.
(8) Righteousness: When a woman gets married, she should go to her husband's house.
(9) No mother to guide you since childhood: There is a note below this sentence: "You can't rely on it." Que: Pass "que". Internal training: mother's discipline.
⑽ menstruation: Serve my mother-in-law. Bring: bring.
⑾ Lingmen: a lady, or a title of respect for her husband's family. This refers to the daughter's in-laws.
⑿ Any T-shirt: Trust T-shirt. Shu: Hope. You: Neglect.
[13] Shang: advocating.
4. Endowment: refers to dowry. Wait: one is "in". Zhou: comprehensive and complete.
⒂ Rong Zhi: Here is the meaning of every move. You: Rules and manners.
[14]: You mean the eldest daughter. What do you want: when?
⒄ Leisure: leisure time. Self-evacuation: self-evacuation
⒅ sense of existence: sadness at parting.
Trick zero tears: tears. Edge: Go ahead. Fringe: The strap of the hat is tied under the chin.
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Being unhappy all day, my daughter is going to get married in a distant place. Today, she is going to travel as a bride and go upstream along the river in a canoe. Your sister has suffered from the loss of her mother since she was a child, so I will raise her more gently. My sister was brought up entirely by her sister. Today, the two broke up in tears. Faced with this situation, I feel depressed. It is rare for a woman to stay after marrying you. You lack the lesson of loving your mother since childhood, and serving your mother-in-law worries me. Fortunately, relying on your husband's good family, trust and sympathy will not find fault with you. Being frugal is what I have always advocated. How can dowry be comprehensive and generous? I hope you honor your elders, abide by women's morality, and keep up with the trend in appearance and manners. My father and daughter are leaving this morning, and I don't know when I will see you again. Sorrow can be alleviated when you live in seclusion, but it will be difficult to collect when you leave. When I got home, I saw the lonely little girl, and sad tears rolled down the hat band.
Distinguish and appreciate
The poet's eldest daughter is getting married, and her mood is very complicated, so she wrote this poem. This poem is a sketch of father and daughter, which reveals the true feelings and makes people sad.
The daughter is about to travel, and the father is reluctant to part with it, but it is difficult for the enemy. At the beginning, it is pointed out that the daughter is going to get married: it is a long way for the daughter to get married to her husband's family. I was very sad when I left, remembering that my daughter lost her mother when she was a child. However, it is only natural for women to get married in universities. Reluctantly, the poet told his daughter that when she arrived at her in-laws' house, she should be dutiful and filial, and be thrifty and housekeeping. This is a high expectation for my daughter.
This is a good poem to send a girl to get married Sending a woman to travel, thousands of reminders; Pity them and exhort them again and again. When the poet lost his wife in his early years, he naturally felt more pity for his young daughter out of his yearning for his dead wife. It's natural to feel sad when the eldest daughter gets married and leaves. The poem says that the youngest daughter and the eldest daughter are "and now you are crying and can't be separated", but the same is true between father and daughter. The author did not write more about his intuitive feelings, but used more pen and ink to instill and persuade: "How will you honor your mother-in-law without a mother to guide you since childhood?" . Fortunately, relying on your family's good family, trust and compassion can't be wrong. It is my consistent proposition that the poor are happy to see, and the dowry can be very balanced. Gentleness and respect, as a woman, should be careful to speak and watch and observe good examples. " After saying this, I fought back my tears and sent my daughter away, only to find that I still couldn't help myself and could only cry relative to my young girl. Complex emotions and helpless fatherly images are vividly displayed on the paper.
The whole poem is sincere. Father's love, deep affection of flesh and blood, touching. "Although ours is so pure and poor, you can take them without a great dowry" can be used as a model of dowry.