Remind yourself every day not to forget your ideals and goals; Remind yourself every day, don't forget to study, don't forget to read; Remind yourself every day, don't forget tolerance and kindness; Remind yourself every day, don't forget your body and exercise; Remind yourself every day, don't forget beauty and happiness; Remind yourself every day not to forget your parents and relatives. .
Before becoming a lover, she should be friends first. After she becomes your friend and appears in your life, it is possible to know you, know you, know your advantages and have a good impression on you, further develop feelings and become lovers and objects. There is not only white and black in the world, but also a long gray area between black and white. As long as you get along with each other, you can find each other's advantages and have a good impression. This is a natural process of emotional development.
Being with the wrong person is like wearing a pair of shoes that don't fit. No matter how beautiful the shoes are, they will hurt themselves in the end.
Life often jokes with us, and what you expect will be farther away from you; The person you are attached to will suffer the most. Therefore, you don't have to look ahead and look back, and you don't have to be too persistent; Learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations and let go of fruitless persistence. Therefore, we should look down on everything, look down on everything and see through everything. Everything is lost, nothing can be left, only the happiness and happiness of the moment.
When you really fall in love with someone, you will have a kind feeling. He makes you feel comfortable, and you can trust and rely on him. He is like a close family, even closer than family. This is intimacy plus a warm feeling, which is a dear feeling. In this love country, he will not find fault with your shortcomings, because he is willing to tolerate all your shortcomings.
It's getting colder and colder. Maybe you are enjoying this winter in a heating room, but there is such a family without any heating equipment. The whole family spent the winter like this. There are three people in the family, only one father goes to work, and there are girls with chronic stomach problems, high blood pressure and cerebral palsy who can't take care of themselves. They are paralyzed in bed for a long time, and their children go to junior high school. Their mother died of liver cancer. I hope winter will pass quickly, not too cold. Hang in there, winter will pass.
Don't give me too many promises. If you can't keep your promise, you will become a lie. Lies can't support a solid foundation of love. Don't give me too much, when one day you find that I can't be your life background, you will be disappointed, lost and unbalanced; Don't hurt me too much, even if I am a passerby after all, even if we become the most familiar strangers, because I can't bear the memories of two people being alone.
When we work hard, pursue and move forward in the journey of life, and lose it after getting it, please remember to give yourself a strong voice, a confident smile, stand up bravely and continue to move forward fearlessly, believing that the sunshine is always after the storm.
Fate, believe it or not! In short, sometimes I have to listen. The person who loves you and the person you love may be arranged by heaven. Maybe you have been pursued enthusiastically, but what if it doesn't belong to you? Just add some scarred memories.
When you meet something, if you like it, enjoy it; If you don't like it, then avoid it; If you can't avoid it, change it; If you can't change it, then accept it; If you can't accept it, then deal with it; It's hard to handle, so put it down. In fact, the hardest thing for people is to "let go". Put it down and you'll be relieved.
What I want to say is: as long as we really love each other, even for one day or one hour, we should not make a clean break. Maybe you will not love me in the future, maybe you will leave me, but I will always be responsible for you, that is, all your sufferings will always be mine. I think I love you. From now on, I can't be indifferent to you at any time.
When a person loves another person, he should love his characteristics, not some standard. People who choose objects with scales are not people who really know love, or even people who know life. Because they are too realistic, they only see superficial conditions and ignore mental factors.
When we are happy, people always feel that time flies, but if we are in pain, it is like being abandoned by time and stepping on the rotating ladder of time back.
Sometimes I don't understand, I just don't want to understand; Sometimes I don't know, but I just don't want to say it; Sometimes it's not that you don't understand, but that you can't do anything if you understand. Some words are suitable for hiding in the heart; Some pain, suitable for silent forgetting; Some memories are only suitable for occasional aftertaste. A lot of things, experienced, just know; Many changes, you don't need to say it, just understand it yourself.
Love is tolerance, not indulgence. Love is caring, not conniving. Love is blending with each other, not unrequited love. Love has many flavors, but not all of them are sweet. True love is free giving, voluntary help, and mutual telepathy.
Sometimes it's sad to think of those lovers who have left. Just think about it carefully. The reason for the separation is not that the other party is unilateral, but that both parties have responsibilities and are playing the roles of injury and injury. Those loves, whether same-sex or opposite-sex, never passed in the end. They were all about themselves.
If you miss something, you miss a lifetime. People will change and keep a constant promise, but they can't keep a fickle heart. Sometimes, persistence is a burden, and giving up is a relief. No one is perfect, and happiness is not 100%. Why ask for so much when you know you can't have so much at once?
Even if you are friendly, some people may accuse you of selfishness and bad motives. Anyway, be friendly. What you have built over the years, someone will destroy it overnight. Build it anyway. Even if you give the world your best things, they may never be enough. Anyway, give the world your best things.
Life is an experience as well as an experience; Life is a feeling and an accumulation. Life has no answer, and life doesn't need an answer. When life is about to belong to you, you will find that life is just a process, no matter how complicated the process is, the final outcome is the same. Life focuses on the process, not the result.
Tolerance+care = love
1. We know that if you like a rose, you must tolerate its thorns, not just its beauty. Loving someone will tolerate her shortcomings, not just want to get her good. Feelings are always closely related to forgiveness, and they are always related to caring for the pulse. How much love there is, how many times there will be tolerance. 2. A person can forgive you, not because he is generous, but because he is reluctant; A person can tolerate your temper, not because he is too tolerant, but because he cares about you. A person can tolerate your nonsense, not because he has no bottom line, but because he is willing to compromise with you alone.
Many times, a person chooses to be considerate and tolerant of each other, not because his heart is too soft, not because he is weak, but because he doesn't want to lose each other and can't bear to see them sad. So I learned to give in and forgive. Because he knows that the contradiction must be solved first.
It is not easy to love someone, but easy to fall in love with someone. It is easy to forgive once, but difficult to forgive for a lifetime.
When you really love someone, you should hold it no matter how hot it is, no matter how difficult it is, no matter how bad it is, you should guard it, and remember when you quarrel. Even if there is a bottom line, it will be revised again and again. Even if he makes you sad, he will make excuses for him and let him go again and again. The reason is simple: you love, you hurt, and you cherish.
6. There is only one heart, don't cut it with indifference; Happiness is so out of stock, please don't squander it. Cherish the people in front of you, there are really not many people who are sincere to you. There is only one person who can accompany you to the end!
Worried love, tolerance+care = love.
1, you are my favorite person. No matter what you think of me, you are the one I will never forget. You are my favorite person in my life.
2, tolerance, not necessarily all-encompassing, caring, not necessarily soul mates, loving each other, not necessarily growing old together, so this formula may not be established,
3. Husband and wife should be tolerant of each other, care for each other and have the same language. This will continue.
Love a person, no matter how big her mistake is, she will be forgiven.
5, my heart is so painful, that is, no one is happy with me, thinking about him in my heart and thinking about it in my mind. This is my pain.
6, don't envy others, live your own life, envy and hate.
7. There are too many things in people's life, some things that some people can't meet, right?
8. When you are sick and lonely and give you warmth, look back, you have survived by yourself, and you will know that only loving yourself is the best sense of security!
9. Today, we broke up and I cried, because I really love you, and I really can't bear to part with it. However, I don't want to embarrass you, and I don't want to force you any more. I know we won't have a result, and I choose to be sad alone.
10, dear, remember, you will always have your place in my heart, and you will always have your place in my home. Remember to eat well and sleep well when I am away. Don't make me miss you too much. You said you felt sorry for me, and you cried, but I want to tell you that I don't blame you or hate you. I am willing to do anything for you. I am willing to love you.
1 1, I must find you in my next life, and then I will stay with you all my life and never be separated from you again.
12, in fact, living alone is no big deal. I only got a moment of enthusiasm and ruthlessness. If you really can't be together, why should you wronged your heart? Forget about him.
13, my favorite person, gave up on me without looking back. Today, I have the courage to face it and decide not to wronged myself and find someone who loves me more.
14, I can only wait where she may appear. It's long past her time to go home from work, but I still wait and wait. If it weren't for something at work, I would wait. There is no injustice. I do.
15, don't wronged yourself, not because you don't love, but because you don't want to compromise for anything, because your life is too long, and you don't want to waste the rest of your life, and the rest of your time is only reserved for people who care about and care for yourself!
16, don't wronged yourself, not because you don't love it, but because you don't want to compromise on anything, because your life is too long, and you don't want to waste the rest of your life, and the rest of your time is only reserved for people who care about and care for yourself!
17, what is love? It can be romantic, but marriage needs to be repeated in the pots and pans of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.
18, years did not give her a good feeling, but gradually went further and further! I hope those who love hard can love hard. And in the days to come, take the children to happiness together!
19, I am more and more afraid of this kind of loneliness in the middle of the night, and my heart is settled! Please be gentle in the future.
20. Fate flies, years of struggle, and there are too many people in life who can't help themselves. When a lot of helplessness is in front of you, you can only lower your head, pick up your cigarette, pick up the boring bitter wine, swallow the most painful pain in life, and welcome the sunrise and sunset tomorrow.
Talking about love: In love, what I want is very important, not being needed.
1. Those who fly alone will have the toughest wings.
2. I am afraid of endless truth, and every inch has an inch of joy.
You are in a beautiful woman's arms and I am in my bed. This is the difference.
4. Even if life is a tragedy, we should make this tragedy vivid and not lose its magnificence and comfort; Even if life is a dream, we should dream with relish and don't lose the emotion and fun of the dream.
In love, what I want is important, not needed.
6. If you want to be thin, you must lose weight; If you want to gain muscle, go to fitness; If you want to be admitted to Peking University Tsinghua, you must study hard; If you miss her, you should go after her. Fat will not fly away, muscles will not grow in vain, knowledge will not spread to your brain through Bluetooth, and people you like will not fall in love with you for no reason. Spending time on fantasy instead of reality is equivalent to sitting still.
7. I like moderate loneliness, which is the most liberating moment in my heart and I can't bear to share it with others. In fact, it is very difficult to share this absolute personal wealth. Even Jose volunteered to stay at home and watch TV, which made my heart hide some joy. The breeze and bright moon should be a person's business, but eating is more interesting because there are more people.
8. Facts have proved that children involved in words will never be happy. Their happiness is like playful children, wandering to the skylight, but still refusing to come back.
9. Some memories, when remembered, are warm; Some beauty, eyes, is the scenery; Some pain, let go, is liberation; It's a little tangled, and it's comfortable to open it; Some things, wholeheartedly, are perfect; Some mistakes, forgiveness, are lenient; Some distractions, looking down, there is no sadness; Some are right and wrong, and if you don't care, you won't have a mental burden; Some trivial, relieved, just relaxed!
10. Every time you gamble on all your choices to trust someone, you are actually gambling on your own trust. If you really lose the bet, in fact, you are the most uncomfortable. It is actually your kindness to feel that you don't die a natural death.
1 1. There are many people and things in this world that will disappoint you. The last thing you should do is to disappoint yourself.
12. Time is the best treatment. No matter what kind of memory you have, time will dry the tears in your memory.
13. The more gorgeous things are, the easier it is to be destroyed and disappear.
14. I'd rather be lonely than against my will. I would rather regret than make do with it. Who can enter my heart, I will be king. I don't care about those who don't enter my heart. No matter how tempting life is, I am so determined.
15. Miss one person, one voice. Leave only the afterlife to send love.
16. The process of polishing yourself is painful, but in the end, you can shape yourself better.
17. We help others on purpose. In fact, that idea has disturbed others. If you are kind to others, others will bear great pressure.
18. Learn to be lonely in the crowd, and don't tell others immediately if you have an idea. Besides, don't take what others say too seriously. Don't expect too much from others, whether morally or ideologically. We should cultivate an attitude of being indifferent to other people's opinions, because this is the most practical means to cultivate commendable tolerance.
19. The best promise is not that I love you, but that I will love you forever.
20. You think it's earth-shattering, wanting nothing, but in the eyes of the other party, it's just an unreasonable storm, and people are expecting it to pass quickly.
2 1. What kind of person are you, what kind of songs you will hear, what kind of articles you will see, what kind of words you will write, and what kind of people you will meet.
22. The distance between people is very close, and all they can tell me is one-sided Guang Chen and one or two worldly wisdom. What can be said is not the deepest loneliness.
23. What is easy to get will never be cherished by you. You listen to a person too easily. If you try your best to do everything he wants to do for him, then you will not be challenging in his eyes, and he will naturally not cherish you. Sometimes your value is given by yourself, and a man will always like the relatively difficult one among two women of the same quality. You can get it as easy as blowing off dust. In this case, love also applies.
24. There are many ways to choose from in life. Choose one, go on, and you will meet people and scenery on this road. Choosing another one is a completely different scenery and people. Some people may go with you, and some people stay where they are; People who walk together may leave you at the next intersection. There is nothing to lament, it is a necessity of life, cherish the people who accompany you to see the scenery, and wave freely and forcefully at the next parting.
25. Ability determines what you can do. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines what kind of person you will become.
26. If you have great talent, pursue great dreams; If you feel that your ability is limited and your talent is not enough to support your ambition, then calm down and devote yourself to small failures and setbacks to absorb nutrition. If you can't become a leopard, it's good to become a beautiful and noble sika deer. At least everyone loves you.
27. You can't ask for a life without storms, because pain and suffering are part of life. A storm-free ocean is not a sea, but a mud pond.
28. It is better to be hurt by love than to be satisfied with memories.
29. I am really surprised. Send a signature. I didn't swear, and I didn't die with cynicism. What makes you say that I broke the rules? Did I break the wool rule?
30. A person's life is neither as good as imagined nor as bad as imagined. Behind everyone, there will be bitterness and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone has their own tears to wipe and their own way to go. Remember to add a coat to yourself when it is cold; Buy yourself a loaf of bread when you are hungry, and give yourself strength when you are injured; If you fail, give yourself a goal. If you fall, get up painfully. Give yourself a tolerant smile and move on, and be your truest self.
3 1. All hypocrisy in the world is just a passing cloud, and only truth is the basis for dealing with things. The darkness of hypocrisy will be destroyed by the brilliance of truth.
32. Forgiving others' mistakes is not always a virtue. Ignoring your own mistakes is the most irresponsible release. Too much for yourself is for selfishness. Giving up completely is also abusing a creature itself.