So, my life now is not so monotonous. After all, there are many troubles every day, haha, the troubles that everyone will encounter.
I quietly recommended this book for nine days from "Little" to "Big" intermittently. I finished reading it yesterday and want to write something today. My mother is the first person who often urges me to study. The strength of peers is endless. How can I not be moved when I see that the sons trained by other mothers are so excellent that other mothers are busy every day and even take time out to study? Looking up to the example and living in the sun are the original attributes of every living life.
Before reading Positive Discipline, I asked my mother what kind of person she wanted her children to be. Now my answer is more specific. I hope Mickey becomes a happy person, a kind person and a person who loves reading.
At the beginning of school, the teacher will emphasize the importance of reading. Children's primary task is to keep reading for more than 30 minutes every day. Of course, we are also advocating parent-child reading. However, the feedback is different every week. Some children like reading, some children avoid reading, some children are accompanied by their parents when they study, and some children are eager for their parents' company when they study. Now that I think about it, the basis of our assignment is to put all children at the same starting point by default. But the crux of the matter is that every child has a different starting point. Although they are children in the first grade, some of them have a huge amount of literacy and can read long stories without obstacles, some focus on picture books, and some are not interested in reading. Facing children of different levels, we all assigned the same task. No wonder some people don't have enough to eat, and some people are in a panic. This is the helplessness of primary school teachers. After all, we can't follow every parent and tell them how to guide their children to learn at birth. But because such books exist, we can learn and change.
From "small" to "big", the sooner you start reading, the better, and the baby can start. In the face of babies, we can be "talkative" parents. When you go out for a walk, describe the world in concrete and rich language, no matter what the baby doesn't understand. Everything my parents say, especially my mother's language, contains love and warmth. Pay attention to the use of peaceful tone and formal language. There is no harm in using less reduplicated words and adverbial words, but not too much. Children listen more and input more, but when they start to open their mouths, they are not so accurate.
It is also good to read picture books to children early, and it is better for children to experience the fun of "tearing" books. I have started reading the dinosaur series of Mickey, Peggy Piggy and Miyanishi. Mickey likes to look at the beautiful colors in picture books with wide eyes, listen to his mother's stories and make eye contact occasionally, which makes me feel the wonder of life. There are no children who don't like reading, only parents who don't like reading. After reading the story, I will talk to Mickey about my feelings. Dinosaur series is always touching, and there will be a little splash in your eyes when you look deep. I haven't let Mickey experience the thrill of "tearing books". I am a book lover, and the books I have read should be clean and tidy. I don't like to annotate and sketch my books. I would rather spend more time extracting them into my notebook. Change this habit in the future. The baby is so young, it is inevitable to tear up books and eat them. We shouldn't blame him for such a trifle and discourage his interest in books.
My mother did better than me in infiltrating ancient poetry in this part. My mother likes reading and reciting poems, and occasionally drawing. Even if she is busy with work and housework, she can always find a balance between them, leaving some time for herself to listen to the explanation of poems or extract them by herself and insist on reciting them. Coaxing children also comes in handy. Come to my mother's house in the second month, and her mother will hold Mickey and read him poems. Our surprise sometimes really works, and the noisy baby calms down in this beautiful rhythm.
If you start early, you don't have to pursue quantity or speed by reciting ancient poems. Just follow the child's temper slowly. After a long time, what are you afraid of? Read poetry together when you are in a good mood, and you don't have to explain the meaning of poetry too much. After watching it a hundred times, he will be as worried as a teenager who loves the next floor. He will know what a teenager is, he will be ecstatic because of big and small things, petals will flow down like tears, and of course, he will sing my songs loudly and drink my wine. He will understand eventually.
When I recited the fisherman's song that day, my mother said that I remembered that I had just recited this poem when I was a child and played in the yard. While running, I was chanting "green bamboo hat and green hemp fiber, you don't have to go home in the oblique wind and drizzle." A wonderful feeling came to my face. I don't remember reciting this poem when I was so young, but I read it again several years later. It's like meeting an old friend.
Teacher Yin Jianli said that the current Chinese classroom is too limited, confined to Chinese textbooks, and has not yet reached the world of greater Chinese. Yes, this is also the helplessness of Teacher Xiao Yu. We strongly advocate reading and practice reading, but more time can only focus on Chinese textbooks. After all, there is an exam. Even if we know in our hearts how good it is to read more extracurricular books, even if parents and teachers unite to understand the importance of reading, there are still achievements to be marked. Now in the next stage, the rigid written test is gradually cancelled, and it is really good to take the music test again. Invisibly reduces a lot of stress and gives children more time to study. Parents who have time to accompany their children to read more books set an example and demonstrate that parents are the guides for their children's life growth. When the child is young, read to him. Read with him and he will learn to read by himself. When he can read independently, his parents can read their own books beside him.
Yang Yang wrote some, and as promised, I went to read a story to Mickey.
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