In the conversation between people, don't say the actual situation or facts.
If you plant flowers with your heart, you can't bloom.
It's hard to draw bones when drawing tiger skin.
Deliberately planting flowers can't bloom.
Interpretation: A lot of efforts have been made in planting flowers, fertilizing and irrigation, but the flowers are always closed and nothing is gained; And a willow tree that was broken at will was inserted in the ground at will, and no one has ever taken care of it. A few years later, it became a lush willow tree.
Synonymous statement:
Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life.
You can't find a place to get it, and you don't have to work hard to get it.