Some people say that we have met thousands of people in Qian Qian in my life, and finally we will really get together with ourselves, and there will be a lifelong tie, but there is only one.
Love is a small probability event, especially true love. Some people spend their whole lives looking for it, but they may not find the one they really want.
What are our inner expectations for love? Do we want someone to bring you a good life? Do we want someone to be with the person you like wholeheartedly? Or do we want someone to accompany you and give you the greatest support in the future?
In fact, in love, the most important thing is the empathy between two people. Among thousands of people, it is difficult to find a soul mate who fits you perfectly, but if you find one, it is also a blessing.
Xu Zhimo said: "I will look for my soul mate in the vast sea of people, and I will be lucky to lose my life."
How many people will have such confidence and courage in love, and how many people will embark on the journey of finding true love alone with great determination.
It is not difficult to fall in love with someone. What is really difficult is that we meet a soul mate who meets our own wishes. A person who can understand us from the heart, listen to our hearts and give us the most firm support.
Now many people misinterpret love. They will choose to be with someone they like at present, but they have never thought about the future and never thought about being really responsible for the feelings of the past two people.
Love is more like a game to them. Even if there is a serious moment, most of them are still casual. If one day two people come to an end, then separation is not unacceptable.
Others have forgotten all their promises and vows. Even after entering marriage, they will not take the word loyalty in marriage to heart. Making love and attracting butterflies are their instincts.
A friend around Joan Di has a natural attachment to the word love. She is not young this year, divorced once, talked about her boyfriend twice in the middle, and now she is single again.
Friends often eat together, and we all envy her. She doesn't seem to be affected by her failed relationship and marriage in the past, but she is still radiant. After work, she often makes an appointment with three or five friends, and everyone goes out to eat, watch movies or travel to neighboring cities.
She once said that love is not the whole of life for her, and she will not make all efforts for it. But I will try to find the right person, and I will not settle down in love.
She said, I won't choose to be with someone who doesn't understand me at all. The person I will fall in love with must be someone who shares my outlook on life and interests. We will have endless words and endless days to talk about. As the other half, he will be the person who knows me best in the world.
She has always seen love so thoroughly, and she is more aware of what she wants, and will not take more detours in her feelings. Later, she did meet a man who really hit her fancy.
We don't know when her relationship will develop, but it is enough for her that this person knows her well and suits her.
19 15, Xu Zhimo married Zhang Youyi, 1920, Xu Zhimo met a talented woman Lin.
For Xu Zhimo, the best love in his mind should be idealism and freedom. Two people are free to meet and fall in love, even if they want to separate, they should be completely free.
Xu Zhimo's emotional journey is not smooth. His relationship with Zhang Youyi and his love with Lin are also talked about by the world. For Xu Zhimo, Lin may be his soul mate and the love he has been looking for and pursuing all his life. Even if the last two people still face separation, as Xu Zhimo himself said, I was lucky and lost my life.
For love, we should strive to pursue it. If one day we meet the person who makes us move, we should spare no effort to get close to it.
But if two people really can't make it to the end, or are separated halfway for one reason or another, we should also accept such an ending indifferently.
If we are unfortunately separated, if there is no possibility of getting back together, then we should bless each other calmly and find their true happiness one day. If one day we lose it, it is better to be grateful for meeting, which will make us feel much better than being trapped in memories.
Two people love each other, maybe because of their looks, maybe because of the same personality and temper, or maybe because of the same family background.
But the only thing that can really make you old is singing in the depths of your soul. Only when your body and mind are truly integrated with the people around you can you become his unique partner in this world.
Needless to say, a lot of things can be known with one look. This kind of tacit understanding that goes deep into the bone marrow can not be simply summarized in two words.
When you really love this person, he will be engraved in your soul and become an indispensable existence in your life. Two people's lives are closely related. In other words, your life will be truly complete only when the other person is around.
I think this is the best love. In the vast sea of people, I won't have any regrets in my life if I can find such a person who is in touch with my heart.