Study, work, make money, career, one careless move, all bets are off. Life is not always smooth sailing, there will always be countless small setbacks to test your life.
There are always some unlucky years, as if life is not improving and life is not good, but you don't get the results you want.
When people are unlucky, they can't even see the scenery around them, and there are few close friends around them. Only when people are down and out can they know that "horsepower is known from a distance, and people will see their hearts for a long time."
People's hearts are like this, which is mostly icing on the cake, but few people give timely help. Someone can accompany you to the infinite scenery, but no one can accompany you to the dust.
In the face of others' ridicule, cowards will choose to submit to humiliation, while the strong will choose to face setbacks directly, but when you are down and out, I want to give you these three sentences.
The first sentence: life has changed, it is normal, there is no need to be angry.
When everything goes well, no one can know the sincerity of others, because of something on you, people around you choose to associate with you, and almost no one looks down on you.
However, you and I have both heard the saying "a tiger falls in Pingyang and is bullied by a dog". When people are down and out, they can actually see the sincerity of some people.
People who were close to you in the past left you without hesitation. Even when you are down and out, someone laughs at you behind your back.
Your poverty and depression have become the scenery in some people's eyes, but when you ask your former friends for help, as expected, they all refused.
In fact, it is understandable that human nature is so. Some people are born without your good ideas and have a lot of "swinging grass". Don't care about these people.
Don't care, don't be sad, and don't let your sadness be the reason for others to laugh at you.
The second sentence: when you are down and out, see people clearly and break up well.
Life can only grow through experience, as the saying goes, "How can I see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?" .
Indeed, only after experiencing some hardships will we know the true meaning of life. People who are really good to you can only be truly recognized when you are down and out.
Life is a process of breaking up, and knowing how to choose is the choice that smart people should make.
Those who don't care about you or pay attention to you can actually be eliminated from your life. There is no need to smile at this tiring person.
Only when you are in trouble can you see people clearly. Isn't this a growth of life? You don't need many friends, but you just need to be sincere.
Life is a choice. It is meaningful to choose the right development direction and choose to associate with sincere people.
The third sentence: if you love to fight, you will win. You have to believe in yourself.
Is life a terrible setback? Terrible, but not the most terrible, most afraid of is that you don't have the courage to face life.
Cowardly people can't bear the hardships of life, which is really hard to look up to. Only those who don't believe in fate have the courage to live and create a better life.
To be a man, you must have your own dignity and decency. Don't lose your backbone even if life breaks it.
Depression is a normal emotion in the face of depression, but don't lose hope of life.
When people are down and out, don't think about some unrealistic ideas. It is most important to solve practical problems. Life comes step by step, and you can reach the life you want step by step.
Life is so unpredictable. Only when you are down and out can you see people clearly. When you see them clearly, you will understand life, and then you will walk slowly by yourself. Don't expect the sincerity of some people, just live your own life.