Your arrival seems to be just to complete a long-sought love and a promise made in a previous life. In this way, a white T-shirt and a pair of blue jeans, that hot summer day, you appeared in front of me, refreshing and simple. I saw a boy's innocence, simplicity and affection in your clear eyes. That year, I was nineteen and you were twenty-five.
The most beautiful love, like a flower, often blooms in an instant. This is the meeting I have always wanted. There is no preset plot, no prepared lines, everything is very sudden, and I suddenly fell in love with the person in front of me. For no reason, for no reason, you are identified as this person. And this person is also such an idea, so tacit understanding, but there is no reason. Looking for him in the crowd, I suddenly turned around, but the man was in front of me, looking at himself affectionately.
You said you came from far away, your home is in a far-away mountain, and you are a child who came out of the mountain. I often think, what kind of place is that? Is it the Sahara desert in Jose? Or the beautiful planet where the little prince lives? However, whether it is desert or alien planet, I am willing to accompany you bravely to wander, even if it is the ends of the earth, like Sanmao.
That day, I said shyly, I like the romantic love in Qiong Yao's works, and I like the classical and beautiful family relationship in Peony Pavilion. You took my hand and said, "I will never fail you in my life." As long as I have breath, I will give you the perfect love and won't hurt you at all. I will try my best to make you the happiest woman in the world. But in love, there is not only romance, but also responsibility. Responsibility is the best love for women. "At that time, I laughed at your pedantry and made young boys have such a traditional and outdated mentality. Young girls can only enjoy sweet love, how can they think so much? Many years later, I often think of your words before I understand that in the world of love, only love is enough, but in marriage, I really need a responsible man.
At that time, many people were not optimistic about our love. They said, we don't belong together, and we will be unlucky in the future. You took my hand and said, don't listen to those words. As long as there is love, we are not afraid of anything.
That summer, I often sat in the back seat of your worn-out bicycle, and you showed me around the city. We are everywhere in parks, bridges, cinemas and barbecue stalls. Some women would like to cry in a BMW, but I would like to sit behind your bike and laugh. In those days, I was like a proud princess, with all your love and care. Holding the red rose you gave me, my smile is as gorgeous as summer flowers.
I still remember that year, Titanic was showing in the cinema. We spent 100 yuan and finally got two tickets, just to feel the most touching love story. That night, although my eyes were red and swollen with tears, I felt extremely happy inside, because the person I love was by my side, and I could lean on his strong arm when I cried. After watching the movie, we didn't say anything, but our hearts strengthened our choice in this life.
Countless late at night, on the empty street, we held hands, and you recited Tagore's poems for me, talking passionately about your ideals. Countless rainy days, we clung to each other, and you read those beautiful articles for me. Every time I listen, I will be moved by other people's stories, and you will always wipe the tears from my eyes. On a sunny and windless day, when we go to take pictures in the wild, you can always find the best angle to keep my youthful and beautiful face for me. The time of love is a poem and a song, which makes every ordinary day extremely vivid and brilliant. It was the best day of my life. There is no pressure of life, no trivial matters, no worries about daily necessities, only two of a kind, and the years are quiet.
Four years of love in every sweet day in a hurry past. You waited for me silently for four years. Four years is neither too long nor too short, enough to kill a person's patience and let a little girl grow up slowly. Four years later, I became your beautiful bride.
Remember, when we first got married, we went to visit Lushan Mountain. That day, you and I took a group photo in front of the word "share weal and woe". At that time, we may just like the meaning of these four words, but we don't understand the real meaning behind them.
I still remember that when my mother was seriously ill, you took out your passbook without hesitation and without reservation. I still remember that when my brother went to college, you basically paid for tuition and living expenses. Once, after giving your brother living expenses, you found that there was no money in your pocket. That night, you walked twenty miles to get home. I didn't know all this until later.
I still remember that due to poor health, after an unexpected abortion, the doctor said that I might not be pregnant again. At that time, my heart was broken. How painful it is not to have children for the man I love! However, instead of complaining, you love me more and are more considerate than before. Every time relatives and friends ask, you say it's your fault. Always comfort me, as long as we love each other, it doesn't matter whether we have children or not. For five years, you have accompanied me to see a doctor and take medicine. Sometimes, you don't even want to see me take medicine anymore, but I will insist on getting well. Maybe our love touched God. Three years later, we had our own children. Now, our family of three lives happily. Although these things have long been a thing of the past, you never think they are great, just what a husband should do. But from these little things, I saw a man's simplicity, kindness and responsibility, and I also felt your consistent love for me.
We walked through the wind and rain together, walked through many thorns, watched the spring flowers and the autumn moon, and watched the full moon. Through paper marriage, cotton marriage, skin marriage ... after seven years of itching, after ten years. Ten years have passed, and friends who are married at the same time are on and off, and we are still keeping our original vows.
Marriage is more of a trivial matter, a stumbling symphony. We will argue, and I sometimes cry. But I know that the man in front of me loves me with his life, and I want to cherish this hard-won love. Always treat your lover with gratitude and resolve those trivial contradictions with tolerance.
After going through the river for a long time and experiencing the impermanence of the world, I realized that the most affectionate love is nothing more than an ordinary dish, a meal and the most touching love, nothing more than that sentence. This is the most humble and precious love we can give. For a woman, the luckiest thing is not wealth, let alone power, but having a lover who knows and cherishes each other. This love may not be romantic, but it lasts for a long time, maybe it is not gorgeous, but it is as intimate and warm as an old cotton-padded jacket.
In this world, there is no shortage of earth-shattering love, and what is less is single-minded and lasting love; There is no shortage of amorous men in this world. What is lacking is a man who can be consistent regardless of illness or aging.
All beautiful faces cannot resist the passage of time. A beautiful girl will eventually become a white-haired old woman. At this time, the only thing that can be held in your hand is the most unpretentious love of your lover. Yes, how many people have loved your youthful and beautiful face, but only one person will love your aging wrinkles and pure soul.
My love, he may not be a romantic rose, not a affectionate red wine. But he is a mountain, a tree and an umbrella in my life. I don't need gorgeous houses, expensive cars and noble diamonds. All I want is a noble heart.
Thank you for having you in my life, so that I can have a shoulder to lean on when I encounter difficulties; Thanks to you in my life, I can have an umbrella when it is windy and rainy. With you in my life, I can live so carefree, safe, smile so brightly and feel so calm inside. With you in my life, I can sit in front of the window and write, look far and meditate. With you in my life, I am not afraid of getting old, because I know you will always be with me; With you in my life, I can have a calm, indifferent and firm attitude.
Thank you for giving me a stable life, a pure emotion, which has never changed since the beginning. It's easier said than done all your life.
If I didn't give you a conclusion, I can give you an answer now. In my mind, you are a man with rich feelings, pure heart, dedication, rich connotation, kindness, low-key, calm and responsible. I am lucky to be your wife in this life.
The years with you are always as warm as spring. Thank you for having you in my life!