Don’t be surprised by favor or disgrace, just watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; go or stay without intention, just follow the clouds rolling in the sky - adapt to the situation, open-minded ~ laugh at the wind and clouds ~ A person’s sky is very blue, a little blue, a little melancholy, When I'm alone, I'm very free, but I feel a little lonely. When I'm alone, I'm very relaxed, but when I'm alone, I feel a little bored. When I miss my friends, I'm very happy, but when I'm happy, I'm a little sad. I like that there is only pure desire in life, only a kind of stability and slow growth, I like the colors that have been washed away by the years, I like the songs that have not been sung, and I also like to be lifelong friends with everyone who knows me. There are so many things in my life. I don’t know how old I am. No one can estimate how much fate we have. It doesn’t matter how bumpy the road is. It doesn’t matter even if I can’t go to the end of the world with you. I will cherish every minute and every second of being friends with you. . I like that there are only pure desires in life, I like the flowing emotions, and I like the feeling of being friends with people I know. It’s not about having many friends, but the sincerity between each other. Therefore, I cherish every one that I can call a friend. Everyone I know, because that is the place where my wandering heart can stop. Life is originally a wandering slow journey. Everyone we meet is a beautiful accident. It is an opportunity for us to meet each other. It is a fate to be friends. Let us all continue to fight side by side and cherish this fate. Oh, this friendship! ! The more things you want, the more they will tend to stay away from you. As the saying goes, don't be too demanding in everything; in this world, everything cannot be smooth sailing, everything will go as planned, and there will always be troubles and sorrows. When unpleasant things often haunt us, how should we face them? "Let us adapt to the circumstances, and our troubles will go away." In fact, following fate is a kind of progress, the behavior of the wise and the excuse of the fool. What is being casual? Being casual is not following, it is letting things take their own course, not being resentful, not being aggressive, not being excessive, not being forced; being casual is not being casual, it is seizing the opportunity, not being pessimistic, not being rigid, not being flustered, not being carried away; being easy-going is a kind of Philosophy is a kind of freedom and ease, a maturity of life and a mastery of human feelings. What is fate? Everything in the world has the possibility of meeting, accompanying and enjoying each other. Possibility means destiny, impossibility means no destiny. Destiny exists everywhere and at all times. You, me, and him are all in the network of fate. As the saying goes, "We are destined to meet each other thousands of miles away, but if we are not destined to meet each other, we will never know each other." Thousands of miles away, in a foreign country, strangers even look at you and smile, this is fate. There are also some people who have been in love for a long time, but can never meet again. Destiny comes together and disperses, has a beginning and an end. Some people lamented: "There is no banquet in the world that never ends. If we have to part ways, why gather together?" Fate is an existence and a process. "If you are destined to live there, but not to leave, let the breeze send you white clouds." I want something in life. If I ask for it, I will get it. I am happy; if I don't get it, I will have no worries. If this is the case, how can there be any troubles in life? Bitterness and happiness follow the fate, gains and losses follow the fate, cultivate with a "human world" attitude, and harvest with a "transcendental" attitude. This is the highest state of life according to the fate. "Letting go" is often understood by some people as not needing to do anything and letting nature take its course, which also becomes a reason to avoid problems and difficulties. As everyone knows, letting things go does not mean giving up pursuit, but letting people face life with an open-minded attitude; letting things go is a kind of wisdom, which can make people still have a peaceful attitude and a calm mind in a fanatical environment; letting things go is a kind of cultivation , is the experience of the vicissitudes of life, the experience of seeing all the human feelings, and the epiphany of overdrafting life. Being accommodating does not mean having no principles or stance, nor does it mean being careless. "Fate" requires many conditions to be established. If you can follow fate without violating the truth, this is called "following fate". In life, people often have such emotions and confusions: "Why don't some people like me?" "Why don't some people understand me?" "Why is this like this?" From a casual perspective, don't like me? No reason is needed, and no reason is needed for liking; no reason is needed for understanding, and no reason is needed for not understanding. Fate is fate, no reason is needed. It can be said that all living beings in this world have fate, such as happy fate, good fortune, popularity, financial fate, chance, good fate, bad fate, etc. Let everything happen and go with nature. This is not only the attitude of Zen practitioners, but also the spirit we need for a happy life. Letting go is a peaceful attitude towards life and a Zen state of existence. "Don't be surprised by favors and humiliations. I can just watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court. I don't care if I go or stay, just follow the clouds rolling in the sky." If you can let go of favors and disgraces, that is peace and ease. Eat when you eat, sleep when you sleep. Don't seek anything in front of you, don't dwell on what's behind, be calm and calm, be natural and optimistic, follow your heart, emotions, and reason, and you will realize that everything has a Zen flavor.