In the world of adults, no one lives easily.
However, on the long road of life, joys and sorrows are the norm, but efforts and setbacks are not static.
Whether you can live well depends on the word "forbearance".
The so-called "forbearance" means not forgetting your active attitude, not giving up easily, and being responsible for your own life.
If we continue, life will become more and more interesting.
My friend Wen Qing started his own business in recent years. In the eyes of others, she has the courage to toss. In fact, her back is a mess.
In the past, when business was booming, I could earn 2000 yuan a day. Business is bleak now, with only a few tens of dollars a day, and even the rent and utilities can't be paid.
She was at a loss. Seeing the online recruitment of sellers, she invested 20 thousand yuan in advertising fees on impulse. Unexpectedly, the money finally hit Shui Piao.
For more than ten years, my best friend borrowed money from her for the first time because she bought a house. She tried to reach out and pull it out, but she couldn't even take out 10000 yuan.
How many nights I can't sleep, my hair is falling off, and I often can't help but slap myself.
When I woke up the next day, I still took my children to do housework as usual, selling before and after, packing and delivering, and my face was full of smiles.
As that sentence says:
"Everyone is running hard, everyone is self-sufficient, the pressure of life makes people have nowhere to escape, and no one can understand the inner pain."
The world is not pure land, and each has its own sufferings.
It's no use just crying, you can only swallow your pride and never tell anyone again.
Remember those porters who carried cement?
They are far away from their relatives, some are thin women, 100 Jin of cement, and they have to carry one or two hundred bags every day.
Sweat stuck to the skin with cement, and it stung so hard that I didn't recognize it. Even if he temporarily relieved his immediate survival, he suffered from respiratory diseases for a long time.
Life, without victory, is not easy to persist.
Through those seemingly glamorous behind, grit your teeth is the real life, and every stage of life has different pressures.
On the way to struggle, there is always sadness and injustice. Laugh if you want to cry, and cry if you want to laugh.
Tears welled up again by this lyric:
"When I grow up, I can only run away. How afraid I am of falling in the dark. Hello tomorrow, smile with tears. "
No matter how difficult it is, as long as you can persist and run, tomorrow will always be better than today.
Maybe everyone has experienced such a moment:
I worked hard for 200 points, only to find that the relaxation of others is always beyond my reach.
There is little wind and rain on your surface, but it is difficult to calm down inside.
You feel that life is gloomy, and you really don't want to continue.
But once you compromise, you will lose all your efforts.
For example, Paul Hu, a very popular director after his death.
Graduated from the Director Department of Beijing Film Academy, and won the Best Director Award and Novel Award successively.
Unexpectedly, this 29-year-old boy bid farewell to the world with a hemp rope in the narrow and dim corridor.
His Weibo is full of despair, which makes people cry:
The film "Elephant Sitting on the Ground" directed by him was criticized by people in the industry, saying that he was superficial.
However, on the 40th1day after his departure, this work won the Golden Horse Award for Best Feature Film, Best Adapted Screenplay, the most popular film voted by the audience, and the Best New Director Award.
However, he didn't wait until dawn.
He just needs to hold on a little longer. ...
Yue Ming, the author of those things in the Ming Dynasty, once mocked his success like this:
"People who are more talented than me and those who work harder than me are not as talented as me; People who are more talented than me and work harder than me can't stand it. "
Those seemingly hard roads are actually uphill roads to success.
The winner who laughs last is often a brave man who can endure.
Life is like a box of chocolates, some people will get sweet at first, while others need to eat a lot of bitter first.
No matter how hard it is, don't give up. Maybe you are only one step away from your goal.
Slowly endure, not the years, but the courage to overcome setbacks, the ability to get out of the trough, and the leisurely charm.
The host Martin said something that moved me very much:
"Everyone who has the strength bullet, spent a period of no help, no support, no care.
In the past, this was your bar mitzvah; If you can't get through, this is your bottomless pit. "
People who stand on high have experienced ups and downs, and people who live a rich life have experienced the days when they are at the end of their tether.
Recently, I watched the movie "Happiness Knocks on the Door" again, and I am still excited.
The bone densitometer invested by the hero Chris is unsalable, which makes his life awkward. He tasted ridicule and indifference.
His wife was overwhelmed and left him.
I was driven out by the landlord and took my son to live in the public toilet of the subway station.
I finally worked as an intern in a financial company, but I had to endure not paying my salary for half a year.
He has been on the phone all day, desperately trying to catch up with his performance; After putting his son to sleep, he has to study professional knowledge all night.
With an impulse, he was officially hired. Six years later, he set up his own company and became a real rich man.
You see, sure enough, water everywhere is a landscape, and people everywhere are reborn.
As long as you persist, the longest night will have dawn.
There is a saying in the book "Send you a horse":
"What is the heart? It is like a maze, and it is thousands of miles away. There is no boat to ferry people. No one can help but cross the river. "
Life is often a one-man show. You must perform by yourself.
Behind every smile, there are sweat and tears.
Some things, which I couldn't get over at the time, are not worth mentioning when I look back.
Perhaps putting yourself out to endure is the strongest weapon to cut through thorns.
I was very moved by the message that Netizen @ met:
The sense of security is given by oneself.
You don't have to look up to other people's happiness, no one can have everything;
You don't have to look down on your own pain, you will gradually have what you want.
You must firmly believe that as long as you are on the road to your goal, there is no distance you can't reach.
The past will pass eventually, and the future will come as scheduled.
A good life will always come out slowly.
There is a famous "flywheel effect" in psychology:
In order to make the stationary flywheel turn, we must first make great efforts to push it round and round.
When it reaches a critical point, the flywheel will rotate rapidly and will not stop as long as a little force is applied.
It's like life. Sometimes you are exhausted and still can't see improvement, but every effort will not be in vain.
Like a sentence very much:
"The fountain is beautiful because it has pressure; The waterfall is spectacular because it has no back road. "
The bitterness of life is fixed. Endure it, and you will be reborn.
The poet Sang Hai said: "Drink slowly, life is a cup of tea;" Drink up your life and you will get drunk. "
Don't worry, take your time.
Sometimes go to the end of the water to seek the source, or sit and watch the ever-changing clouds rise.
Before you leave, take a deep breath and clear your mind.
When I woke up, the sun came out again.
Author | Xu Hui can swallow fireworks and pretend to be a literary fan.
Image | vision china