Men are stupid and ashamed to have sex.
Where are the vagabonds,
How dare you take the liberty of sending matchmakers?
Mountains and rivers don't meet the rain, which is not necessarily a symbol of bosom friends; I'm too stupid to go to bed with an empty stomach (this is the story of Wang Xizhi) and let beautiful women choose. What's more, I will wander around the world and don't know where to settle down, so I dare to make love rashly (send the matchmaker: ask the matchmaker to propose marriage)!
The reason for rejecting girls is incompetence, unworthiness and no place to live.
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